Criteria for a good gf/wife to be ?
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Hi ppl!
What criteria do you look for when looking for a good gf/wife to be?
Mine are...
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1. Other guy's girlfriend or wife/wife-to-be. Period.
2. Girls who has a bad family background. There will be a high chance that if the girl's siblings or parents are the unfaithful type... that girl will be the same too. It runs in the family.
3. Girls who can co-habit easily are out too.
4. Girls who frequent nightspots too many times a month or those who work in nightspot line.
5. Girls whose friends are mostly male. Girls who friendly to every male. There must be a strange reason why the same gender boycott her.
6. Girls who have more than 5 boyfriends in her life. 5 tries and none worked? Unlucky? I doubt so.
7. Girls who are jobless for a long time with no aspiration for life..aka lazy bum.
8.Girls who are constantly fed a diet of trashy female magazines, watch crap such as Desperate Housewives and like them are no-no either. You have been warned.
9.Girls who turn their nose up and get indignant at the mentioning of cooking and cleaning, thinking they're chores for 'lower class' people like maids - beware of the spoilt princess. It is the litmus test - mentioning cooking. It's not the ability to cook, it's her reaction and her attitude towards such things. The girl who can't cook but is willing to make an effort to give a try and treat her guy a nice homemade meal gets major points too. The girl who flys into a rage and automatically assumes you're going to make her your personal domestic slave deserves a bitchslap. Dining out is great too, but sniff out the princesses and cut them out from your life.
I'm not trying to be a sexist here... but good girls are really... really hard to find nowadays.
Cheers to all! Happy V-day advance! -
MCP eh...
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i think you meant that it's hard to find a girl with the criteria u want.Originally posted by Marco_Simone:I'm not trying to be a sexist here... but good girls are really... really hard to find nowadays.
Cheers to all! Happy V-day advance!
Ur words are not the universal standards, wat makes u think that only girls with these criteria can be considered as good. -
fcuk you lah , you think you are Marco Ricky Martin is it? so many requirement.
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Asking urself r u any good in the 1st plc..those requirments sometimes may not totally bad girls! Can u gurantee those gals who has gd background, gd education, do housework would stay loyal forever?? And dun u find these type of "gd" gals tend to have higher requirments for guys too?
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Good girls and guys are rare nowadays
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U post this sure kena flame de
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i agree with this 2.. but it also applies to males..Originally posted by Marco_Simone:5. Girls whose friends are mostly male. Girls who friendly to every male. There must be a strange reason why the same gender boycott her.
6. Girls who have more than 5 boyfriends in her life. 5 tries and none worked? Unlucky? I doubt so. -
So many levels of filters... I think only around 0.002% (thanks Tamago!) of the whole female population can be filtered through your requirements.
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no. 0.002%.Originally posted by launtpc:So many levels of filters... I think only around 2% of the whole female population can be filtered through your requirements. -
Originally posted by Marco_Simone:5. Girls whose friends are mostly male. Girls who friendly to every male. There must be a strange reason why the same gender boycott her.
6. Girls who have more than 5 boyfriends in her life. 5 tries and none worked?
Going by your standards I shouldn't even be married now
5. My friends are mostly male because I have more common interests with them than my girlfriends. I like to play stuff like AD&D and I am a pretty hardcore gamer for games most girls wouldn't play like World of Warcraft etc. My own gender don't boycott me too. I have a few close friends of the same gender who isn't talking about the latest fashions and make-up or gossiping about someone else. I don't see why this is a problem, unless the guy is insecure and cannot stand having his gf mixing with other guys
You know, sometimes it's a personal choice by the girl and not because her own gender is avoiding her
6. I have more than 5 bfs before. I can go on about why it didn't work out but it is really none of your biz and no I wasn't the one being dumped -
i am a guy but like to dress up in girls' dresses and play barbie dolls hope i can hav periods like them too and i hav lots of gals frens
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haha. be my sista...Originally posted by newmanmback:i am a guy but like to dress up in girls' dresses and play barbie dolls hope i can hav periods like them too and i hav lots of gals frens
joking only lah..... -
looks like this once bothers u the most...judging by the emphasis placed.Originally posted by Marco_Simone:9.Girls who turn their nose up and get indignant at the mentioning of cooking and cleaning, thinking they're chores for 'lower class' people like maids - beware of the spoilt princess. It is the litmus test - mentioning cooking. It's not the ability to cook, it's her reaction and her attitude towards such things. The girl who can't cook but is willing to make an effort to give a try and treat her guy a nice homemade meal gets major points too. The girl who flys into a rage and automatically assumes you're going to make her your personal domestic slave deserves a bitchslap. Dining out is great too, but sniff out the princesses and cut them out from your life.
I'm not trying to be a sexist here... but good girls are really... really hard to find nowadays.
Cheers to all! Happy V-day advance!
for me, peelin prawns for me to eat enuf liaw.. simple needs nia -
whoa. wat's with peeling prawns...... sigh.Originally posted by alexkusu:looks like this once bothers u the most...judging by the emphasis placed.
for me, peelin prawns for me to eat enuf liaw.. simple needs nia -
Have you examined yourself yet? Do you know what you're really looking for?
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Probably kenna scolded cos he wanted some girl to cook for him before. hurhurhur. I think what he doesnt realise is... if the girl loves you, she will try to be the best gf/wife she can be for you.Originally posted by Marco_Simone:Hi ppl!
What criteria do you look for when looking for a good gf/wife to be?
9.Girls who turn their nose up and get indignant at the mentioning of cooking and cleaning, thinking they're chores for 'lower class' people like maids - beware of the spoilt princess. It is the litmus test - mentioning cooking. It's not the ability to cook, it's her reaction and her attitude towards such things. The girl who can't cook but is willing to make an effort to give a try and treat her guy a nice homemade meal gets major points too. The girl who flys into a rage and automatically assumes you're going to make her your personal domestic slave deserves a bitchslap. Dining out is great too, but sniff out the princesses and cut them out from your life.
And... if the girl doesn't love you, she can fulfill all of the above, but simply not wish to do so for you.
It will be difficult though, to find someone who will love you for who you are, given that you are already so critical and judgemental before you enter the relationship. -
The one single over-powering criteria of all criteria that makes a GF or a Wife;
you must have true LOVE for her.
When you love a person, all other imperfections becomes bearable.
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Btw, most guys I know who said they won't go after another guy's gf or wife ultimately did so because they like the girl too much. It's easy to say something, but when love/lust/whatever you wanna call it hits you, you might find yourself acting against your beliefsOriginally posted by Marco_Simone:1. Other guy's girlfriend or wife/wife-to-be. Period. -
Actually its false. You can love her/him to begin with only because the imperfections visible to you were bearable - i.e. you were already attracted to her looks, her character, her personality. However, relationships break up when they discover sometimes some other imperfections that they simply cannot tolerate. As for lasting relationships, I think people stay happiest longest with the person whose faults they can tolerate the most. It's all kind of selfish really.Originally posted by ShutterBug:The one single over-powering criteria of all criteria that makes a GF or a Wife;
you must have true LOVE for her.
When you love a person, all other imperfections becomes bearable.
True, or false? -
exactlyOriginally posted by elindra:Btw, most guys I know who said they won't go after another guy's gf or wife ultimately did so because they like the girl too much. It's easy to say something, but when love/lust/whatever you wanna call it hits you, you might find yourself acting against your beliefs -
That's like saying if your father is a murderer, you'll be a murderer too, because it runs in the familyOriginally posted by Marco_Simone:2. Girls who has a bad family background. There will be a high chance that if the girl's siblings or parents are the unfaithful type... that girl will be the same too. It runs in the family.
Sometimes they can turn out exactly opposite because they have been hurt by the actions of their parents for breaking up the family. -
LOL
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wan this and that, must look at urself whether u r up to the par or not in the first place?
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Fully agree with u,man! Look is not a very important criteria..It's yr character that shines!! I encounter a girl whose BG is not very gd and has a previous 10 r/s... Turn out to be a horrible experience for me! Another I know,hardly has any female friend but many male friend.Cos she is super arrogant and piss off many of female gender.While other criteria I think is widely supported one.Originally posted by Marco_Simone:Hi ppl!
What criteria do you look for when looking for a good gf/wife to be?
Mine are...
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1. Other guy's girlfriend or wife/wife-to-be. Period.
2. Girls who has a bad family background. There will be a high chance that if the girl's siblings or parents are the unfaithful type... that girl will be the same too. It runs in the family.
3. Girls who can co-habit easily are out too.
4. Girls who frequent nightspots too many times a month or those who work in nightspot line.
5. Girls whose friends are mostly male. Girls who friendly to every male. There must be a strange reason why the same gender boycott her.
6. Girls who have more than 5 boyfriends in her life. 5 tries and none worked? Unlucky? I doubt so.
7. Girls who are jobless for a long time with no aspiration for life..aka lazy bum.
8.Girls who are constantly fed a diet of trashy female magazines, watch crap such as Desperate Housewives and like them are no-no either. You have been warned.
9.Girls who turn their nose up and get indignant at the mentioning of cooking and cleaning, thinking they're chores for 'lower class' people like maids - beware of the spoilt princess. It is the litmus test - mentioning cooking. It's not the ability to cook, it's her reaction and her attitude towards such things. The girl who can't cook but is willing to make an effort to give a try and treat her guy a nice homemade meal gets major points too. The girl who flys into a rage and automatically assumes you're going to make her your personal domestic slave deserves a bitchslap. Dining out is great too, but sniff out the princesses and cut them out from your life.
I'm not trying to be a sexist here... but good girls are really... really hard to find nowadays.
Cheers to all! Happy V-day advance!