Criteria for a good gf/wife to be ?
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I got this list elsewhere,nevertheless,I agree with most of the points.Originally posted by rainee:wan this and that, must look at urself whether u r up to the par or not in the first place?
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my honey is good gal... excellent wife to be
even tho her family background not gd...
she's doing her undergrad studies now.
she can't cook but is willing to try if i asked her..
she does the cleaning/laundry n stuff..
her frens ah... 50-50 got male females
got indians malays eurasian vietnamese indonesians taiwnese, PRC... haha
i hope her family can stop their thing after she graduate.
den my income pluz her income pluz her 2 sis income
hopefully can support her family n bro to uni (if he's going to cont studies after diploma)
happy yuan xiao jie to all!!!Originally posted by Marco_Simone:Hi ppl!
What criteria do you look for when looking for a good gf/wife to be?
Mine are...
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1. Other guy's girlfriend or wife/wife-to-be. Period.
2. Girls who has a bad family background. There will be a high chance that if the girl's siblings or parents are the unfaithful type... that girl will be the same too. It runs in the family.
3. Girls who can co-habit easily are out too.
4. Girls who frequent nightspots too many times a month or those who work in nightspot line.
5. Girls whose friends are mostly male. Girls who friendly to every male. There must be a strange reason why the same gender boycott her.
6. Girls who have more than 5 boyfriends in her life. 5 tries and none worked? Unlucky? I doubt so.
7. Girls who are jobless for a long time with no aspiration for life..aka lazy bum.
8.Girls who are constantly fed a diet of trashy female magazines, watch crap such as Desperate Housewives and like them are no-no either. You have been warned.
9.Girls who turn their nose up and get indignant at the mentioning of cooking and cleaning, thinking they're chores for 'lower class' people like maids - beware of the spoilt princess. It is the litmus test - mentioning cooking. It's not the ability to cook, it's her reaction and her attitude towards such things. The girl who can't cook but is willing to make an effort to give a try and treat her guy a nice homemade meal gets major points too. The girl who flys into a rage and automatically assumes you're going to make her your personal domestic slave deserves a bitchslap. Dining out is great too, but sniff out the princesses and cut them out from your life.
I'm not trying to be a sexist here... but good girls are really... really hard to find nowadays.
Cheers to all! Happy V-day advance! -
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I agree with much of simone's points. As for the girls who criticise his criterias, I fear for them.
Doesnt mean Simone has to be a perfect guy to list out his criterias, everyone has their own criterias and I am sure those who criticise him has thier own criterias too.
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true,very trueOriginally posted by ShutterBug:The one single over-powering criteria of all criteria that makes a GF or a Wife;
you must have true LOVE for her.
When you love a person, all other imperfections becomes bearable.
True, or false? -
Ya,maybe these gals suit the criteria listed.Originally posted by JusStatic:I agree with much of simone's points. As for the girls who criticise his criterias, I fear for them.
Doesnt mean Simone has to be a perfect guy to list out his criterias, everyone has their own criterias and I am sure those who criticise him has thier own criterias too. -
Some gals even show disgust when asked about hawker food.Originally posted by Marco_Simone:The girl who can't cook but is willing to make an effort to give a try and treat her guy a nice homemade meal gets major points too. The girl who flys into a rage and automatically assumes you're going to make her your personal domestic slave deserves a bitchslap. Dining out is great too, but sniff out the princesses and cut them out from your life.
When is the difference between Kopi Tiam Uncle Tan's $2 chicken rice and $20+ Chatterbox chicken rice?
I don't taste any differences really... -
wow Wat a MCP.... poor gals being condemned till like that.. gals with bad family badground doesn't mean she will be like their parent wat.... a gal who has more guy fren also nothing wrong wat.... more den 5 bf also nothing wrong wat.... cant cook can learn wat, provided she willing... not all gal r so materialist... we can just eat $2 chicken rice... no big deal....Originally posted by Marco_Simone:Hi ppl!
What criteria do you look for when looking for a good gf/wife to be?
Mine are...
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1. Other guy's girlfriend or wife/wife-to-be. Period.
2. Girls who has a bad family background. There will be a high chance that if the girl's siblings or parents are the unfaithful type... that girl will be the same too. It runs in the family.
3. Girls who can co-habit easily are out too.
4. Girls who frequent nightspots too many times a month or those who work in nightspot line.
5. Girls whose friends are mostly male. Girls who friendly to every male. There must be a strange reason why the same gender boycott her.
6. Girls who have more than 5 boyfriends in her life. 5 tries and none worked? Unlucky? I doubt so.
7. Girls who are jobless for a long time with no aspiration for life..aka lazy bum.
8.Girls who are constantly fed a diet of trashy female magazines, watch crap such as Desperate Housewives and like them are no-no either. You have been warned.
9.Girls who turn their nose up and get indignant at the mentioning of cooking and cleaning, thinking they're chores for 'lower class' people like maids - beware of the spoilt princess. It is the litmus test - mentioning cooking. It's not the ability to cook, it's her reaction and her attitude towards such things. The girl who can't cook but is willing to make an effort to give a try and treat her guy a nice homemade meal gets major points too. The girl who flys into a rage and automatically assumes you're going to make her your personal domestic slave deserves a bitchslap. Dining out is great too, but sniff out the princesses and cut them out from your life.
I'm not trying to be a sexist here... but good girls are really... really hard to find nowadays.
Cheers to all! Happy V-day advance!
so gals, we shd filter guy like that also.....
guys with bad family badground (NO)
Guys with lots of Gals fren (NO)
Guys with 5 or more gf (NO)
GUYs who cant cook (NO) (Y,because fair ma... sometime gal cook sometime guy also cook)
Guys who spend alot (NO)
GUYS who club (NO) -
He's just dropping hints to us that he doesn't want a girl for a mate.
Get it? -
Why don't you fear for him insteadOriginally posted by JusStatic:I agree with much of simone's points. As for the girls who criticise his criterias, I fear for them.
Doesnt mean Simone has to be a perfect guy to list out his criterias, everyone has their own criterias and I am sure those who criticise him has thier own criterias too. 
It just means that he doesn't fit into the criterias of those girls
I agree with some of his criterias but some are really extreme and doesn't make sense -
Ok,I may sound biased but some guys are also like this.They think they are too high class to eat hawker food.Originally posted by Dorian-X:Some gals even show disgust when asked about hawker food.
When is the difference between Kopi Tiam Uncle Tan's $2 chicken rice and $20+ Chatterbox chicken rice?
I don't taste any differences really...
So I would say stay away from both guys and gals who fit most of the criteria listed. -
OK i have read all these post and quite frankly i have had enough of these modern day women.Originally posted by Marco_Simone:Hi ppl!
What criteria do you look for when looking for a good gf/wife to be?
Mine are...
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1. Other guy's girlfriend or wife/wife-to-be. Period.
2. Girls who has a bad family background. There will be a high chance that if the girl's siblings or parents are the unfaithful type... that girl will be the same too. It runs in the family.
3. Girls who can co-habit easily are out too.
4. Girls who frequent nightspots too many times a month or those who work in nightspot line.
5. Girls whose friends are mostly male. Girls who friendly to every male. There must be a strange reason why the same gender boycott her.
6. Girls who have more than 5 boyfriends in her life. 5 tries and none worked? Unlucky? I doubt so.
7. Girls who are jobless for a long time with no aspiration for life..aka lazy bum.
8.Girls who are constantly fed a diet of trashy female magazines, watch crap such as Desperate Housewives and like them are no-no either. You have been warned.
9.Girls who turn their nose up and get indignant at the mentioning of cooking and cleaning, thinking they're chores for 'lower class' people like maids - beware of the spoilt princess. It is the litmus test - mentioning cooking. It's not the ability to cook, it's her reaction and her attitude towards such things. The girl who can't cook but is willing to make an effort to give a try and treat her guy a nice homemade meal gets major points too. The girl who flys into a rage and automatically assumes you're going to make her your personal domestic slave deserves a bitchslap. Dining out is great too, but sniff out the princesses and cut them out from your life.
I'm not trying to be a sexist here... but good girls are really... really hard to find nowadays.
Cheers to all! Happy V-day advance!
Marco i have dumped my wife cause she fails atleast the cooking and cleaning... so now i am your humble student teach me the way to finding such a perfect woman.
Oh i request she has to server me and do everything i ask? now have i gone to far -
I just noticed some absent criteria...he might just tolerate a chain-smoker, a gambler or an alcoholic.
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Originally posted by simpleger24:wow Wat a MCP.... poor gals being condemned till like that.. gals with bad family badground doesn't mean she will be like their parent wat.... a gal who has more guy fren also nothing wrong wat.... more den 5 bf also nothing wrong wat.... cant cook can learn wat, provided she willing... not all gal r so materialist... we can just eat $2 chicken rice... no big deal....
so gals, we shd filter guy like that also.....
guys with bad family badground (NO)
Guys with lots of Gals fren (NO)
Guys with 5 or more gf (NO)
GUYs who cant cook (NO) (Y,because fair ma... sometime gal cook sometime guy also cook)
Guys who spend alot (NO)
GUYS who club (NO) -
there r a lot of gd gals ard... slowly find...
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i am with you on this oneOriginally posted by Kuali Baba:I just noticed some absent criteria...he might just tolerate a chain-smoker, a gambler or an alcoholic. -
You forgot a husband abuserOriginally posted by Kuali Baba:I just noticed some absent criteria...he might just tolerate a chain-smoker, a gambler or an alcoholic. -
I personally would avoid girls who use pinky bears as there avatar...Originally posted by elindra:You forgot a husband abuser
*runs for his life* -
*reminds herself to contact Kan_i's wife that he wants to dump her*Originally posted by Kan_i:I personally would avoid girls who use pinky bears as there avatar...
*runs for his life* -
huh too late... i am now well inducted into this training program.Originally posted by elindra:*reminds herself to contact Kan_i's wife that he wants to dump her*
I live and breathe the points outline in the first post.
Now how long exactly do i need to wait? ...kinda getting lonely
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Just ask her what makes a good gf/wife lor.
Of course she'll counter so just be prepared to answer what makes a good bf/hubby lah.
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Wow, such many requirements you have!!! While most of us do have requirements in looking for our life partner/soulmate, most of the requirements are in our subconcious. While you have listed your requirements, we would like to know if the any of the female population view you as a potential partner. No use if you want this and that, but the other side does not give a hoot about you. You may try looking for that special person throughout your life to only realise that you have wasted life with such requirements that most probably does not exist. You are looking for someone perfect. But are you perfect??? Get down from your high horse. Cherish your loved one for who he or she is. No one is ever perfect!!!Originally posted by Marco_Simone:Hi ppl!
What criteria do you look for when looking for a good gf/wife to be?
Mine are...
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1. Other guy's girlfriend or wife/wife-to-be. Period.
2. Girls who has a bad family background. There will be a high chance that if the girl's siblings or parents are the unfaithful type... that girl will be the same too. It runs in the family.
3. Girls who can co-habit easily are out too.
4. Girls who frequent nightspots too many times a month or those who work in nightspot line.
5. Girls whose friends are mostly male. Girls who friendly to every male. There must be a strange reason why the same gender boycott her.
6. Girls who have more than 5 boyfriends in her life. 5 tries and none worked? Unlucky? I doubt so.
7. Girls who are jobless for a long time with no aspiration for life..aka lazy bum.
8.Girls who are constantly fed a diet of trashy female magazines, watch crap such as Desperate Housewives and like them are no-no either. You have been warned.
9.Girls who turn their nose up and get indignant at the mentioning of cooking and cleaning, thinking they're chores for 'lower class' people like maids - beware of the spoilt princess. It is the litmus test - mentioning cooking. It's not the ability to cook, it's her reaction and her attitude towards such things. The girl who can't cook but is willing to make an effort to give a try and treat her guy a nice homemade meal gets major points too. The girl who flys into a rage and automatically assumes you're going to make her your personal domestic slave deserves a bitchslap. Dining out is great too, but sniff out the princesses and cut them out from your life.
I'm not trying to be a sexist here... but good girls are really... really hard to find nowadays.
Cheers to all! Happy V-day advance! -
but at least cannot smakoe one mah smoke like bar girl like dat how can?
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According to your criteria, I'm going to be left on the shelf. Most of my friends are female so much so that my 21st b-day party was more like a female event than male.Originally posted by simpleger24:wow Wat a MCP.... poor gals being condemned till like that.. gals with bad family badground doesn't mean she will be like their parent wat.... a gal who has more guy fren also nothing wrong wat.... more den 5 bf also nothing wrong wat.... cant cook can learn wat, provided she willing... not all gal r so materialist... we can just eat $2 chicken rice... no big deal....
so gals, we shd filter guy like that also.....
guys with bad family badground (NO)
Guys with lots of Gals fren (NO)
Guys with 5 or more gf (NO)
GUYs who cant cook (NO) (Y,because fair ma... sometime gal cook sometime guy also cook)
Guys who spend alot (NO)
GUYS who club (NO)
I'm on my 5th relationship... and counting.
I can't cook.
I like clubbing and plan to club like 3 times a week once i grad.
You're right in saying not all gals are materialistic, but from personal experience, I've encountered so many materialistic gals that I'm beginning to wonder is it the local culture. I do not experience the same money minded attitude from malaysian and indon gals i have dated.
I do hope to find a good local gal one day though. -
1.My family background is good.My parents are blue collar workers but they managed to produce 2 middle class kids.
so gals, we shd filter guy like that also.....
1.guys with bad family badground (NO)
2.Guys with lots of Gals fren (NO)
3.Guys with 5 or more gf (NO)
4.GUYs who cant cook (NO) (Y,because fair ma... sometime gal cook sometime guy also cook)
5.Guys who spend alot (NO)
6.GUYS who club (NO)[/b]
2.I got 1 serious and 1 not so serious gf b4.
3.As in 2.
4.I can do simple cooking(Not maggie mee please or hard boiled eggs please,I can fry fish/eggs.My mom taught me before.
5.I can spend a lot if I want.
6.I went clubbing 2x in my life.The first time in 1999 during army,the second in 2002 in my uni.Don't intend to go again anytime soon.I rather sleep.