Criteria for a good gf/wife to be ?
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u funny guy... i dont know whether to take u seriously.Originally posted by Marco_Simone:Nowadays gals talk so much about equality with guys,so next time go date,can pay for your own meal?
How about when you find a girlfriend you tell us what she looks like, whether or not she fits your profile and what mail order company you used.
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He is looking for barbie doll ...Originally posted by Kuali Baba:Have you examined yourself yet? Do you know what you're really looking for? 
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i agree with Kan_i. not gentleman at all. very petty and narrow-minded thinking leh.Originally posted by Marco_Simone:Nowadays gals talk so much about equality with guys,so next time go date,can pay for your own meal? -
lol..
GENDER WARZ !!!
anyways.. my gf still young n in National Service. So i think.. that to solve ur problem, look for a sweet young thing.. bend n mold her to ur likings. Its like tree's. Bonsai tree's u know ? good.. i know what u think i am thinking.
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Which unit your gf in? How long until she ORD?Originally posted by BadzMaro:lol..
GENDER WARZ !!!
anyways.. my gf still young n in National Service... -
ROD....Originally posted by SilverPal:Which unit your gf in? How long until she ORD? -
Looks may grab my attention but often take the back seat. I'd listen at her voice, words, thoughts and look at her deeds.
Zoe Tay type ranks bottom.
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i do. so shut up.Originally posted by Marco_Simone:Nowadays gals talk so much about equality with guys,so next time go date,can pay for your own meal? -
hey if you pay for my expensive dinner does that mean i have to "put out"?Originally posted by JennTS:i do. so shut up.
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No offences to any sex here..
but i tink it`s oerfectly alrite for a person to think like that...
don tell me gals don wanna marry good too??
when most of us are looking for potential life time partner,
the most basic of all attributes should be TRUST
and it should be from both sides
and ya the 1st post does trigger some thoughts in my head
subconciously, when i`ll be lookng for a partner the next time
these criterias will come back to me..
and it`ll depend on the future performances to eliminate these for-created criterias..
not having too much experinces in r/s, but what i can feel is that gals, on the more general side, are more materialistic and ready to `jumpship` when the oppertunity comes...
maybe tt`s from my perspective
but at least tt`s how i feel n no amount of flaming from any gal is gona change my mind set...
Cheers,
BaByBoY -
anyway jus wanna add on the money side..
when we guys spend money ( lots of it ) on the gal
they think that they deserve it..
but when we ask them to pay for the minute things
they`ll start to ask ` why should i??`
this really beats me
can some ppl try to explain this phenomena to me?? -
not all gal r like that.... my bf spent really alot on me.... if he ask me 2 pay 4 something if he happen 2 forget 2 withdraw cash, i will pay 1... no big deal....Originally posted by BaByBoY:anyway jus wanna add on the money side..
when we guys spend money ( lots of it ) on the gal
they think that they deserve it..
but when we ask them to pay for the minute things
they`ll start to ask ` why should i??`
this really beats me
can some ppl try to explain this phenomena to me?? -
will have a gd talk with u next time if i happen to see u online.Originally posted by BaByBoY:No offences to any sex here..
but i tink it`s oerfectly alrite for a person to think like that...
don tell me gals don wanna marry good too??
when most of us are looking for potential life time partner,
the most basic of all attributes should be TRUST
and it should be from both sides
and ya the 1st post does trigger some thoughts in my head
subconciously, when i`ll be lookng for a partner the next time
these criterias will come back to me..
and it`ll depend on the future performances to eliminate these for-created criterias..
not having too much experinces in r/s, but what i can feel is that gals, on the more general side, are more materialistic and ready to `jumpship` when the oppertunity comes...
maybe tt`s from my perspective
but at least tt`s how i feel n no amount of flaming from any gal is gona change my mind set...
Cheers,
BaByBoY
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that's juz ur girl ba.Originally posted by BaByBoY:anyway jus wanna add on the money side..
when we guys spend money ( lots of it ) on the gal
they think that they deserve it..
but when we ask them to pay for the minute things
they`ll start to ask ` why should i??`
this really beats me
can some ppl try to explain this phenomena to me??
pls dun generalise.
i nv asked my exs to pay for anything.
in fact for my first guy, im the one who pays most of the time. -
hahaOriginally posted by browniebaobao:that's juz ur girl ba.
pls dun generalise.
i nv asked my exs to pay for anything.
in fact for my first guy, im the one who pays most of the time.
sry i forgot to add a few things...
well there`re always exceptions...
always..
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its beyond me how anyone can have someone else fork out so much money on them without feeling bad or guilty.Originally posted by BaByBoY:anyway jus wanna add on the money side..
when we guys spend money ( lots of it ) on the gal
they think that they deserve it..
but when we ask them to pay for the minute things
they`ll start to ask ` why should i??`
this really beats me
can some ppl try to explain this phenomena to me??
if a guy offers to treat me, i'd usually pay him back somehow, like buying him drinks or treat him to desert or something.
i think you just happen to be one of the unlucky ones who get all the selfish girls who have absolutely no conscience -
Three men were sitting together bragging about how they had given their new wives duties.
Terry bragged that he had told his wife she was going to do all the dishes and house cleaning that needed done at their house. He said that it took a couple days but on the third day he came home to a clean house and the dishes were all washed and put away.
Jimmy bragged that he had given his wife orders that she was to do all the cleaning, dishes, and the cooking. He told them that the first day he didn't see any results, but the next day it was better. By the third day, his house was clean, the dishes were done, and he had a huge dinner on the table.
David boasted that he told her that her duties were to keep the house cleaned, dishes washed, lawn mowed, laundry washed and hot meals on the table for every meal. He said the first day he didn't see anything, the second day he didn't see anything, but by the third day most of the swelling had gone down and he could see a little out of his left eye. -
Originally posted by Kuali Baba:Three men were sitting together bragging about how they had given their new wives duties.
Terry bragged that he had told his wife she was going to do all the dishes and house cleaning that needed done at their house. He said that it took a couple days but on the third day he came home to a clean house and the dishes were all washed and put away.
Jimmy bragged that he had given his wife orders that she was to do all the cleaning, dishes, and the cooking. He told them that the first day he didn't see any results, but the next day it was better. By the third day, his house was clean, the dishes were done, and he had a huge dinner on the table.
David boasted that he told her that her duties were to keep the house cleaned, dishes washed, lawn mowed, laundry washed and hot meals on the table for every meal. He said the first day he didn't see anything, the second day he didn't see anything, but by the third day most of the swelling had gone down and he could see a little out of his left eye. -
lmao.
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hi, tiger airways do have cheap tix to vietnam.
hope you can find what you are looking for there. -
Guys I'd never consider:
Those who think they're so good, they can pick & choose & list out so many criteria.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Marco_Simone:Hi ppl!
What criteria do you look for when looking for a good gf/wife to be?
Mine are...
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1. Other guy's girlfriend or wife/wife-to-be. Period.
2. Girls who has a bad family background. There will be a high chance that if the girl's siblings or parents are the unfaithful type... that girl will be the same too. It runs in the family.
3. Girls who can co-habit easily are out too.
4. Girls who frequent nightspots too many times a month or those who work in nightspot line.
5. Girls whose friends are mostly male. Girls who friendly to every male. There must be a strange reason why the same gender boycott her.
6. Girls who have more than 5 boyfriends in her life. 5 tries and none worked? Unlucky? I doubt so.
7. Girls who are jobless for a long time with no aspiration for life..aka lazy bum.
8.Girls who are constantly fed a diet of trashy female magazines, watch crap such as Desperate Housewives and like them are no-no either. You have been warned.
9.Girls who turn their nose up and get indignant at the mentioning of cooking and cleaning, thinking they're chores for 'lower class' people like maids - beware of the spoilt princess. It is the litmus test - mentioning cooking. It's not the ability to cook, it's her reaction and her attitude towards such things. The girl who can't cook but is willing to make an effort to give a try and treat her guy a nice homemade meal gets major points too. The girl who flys into a rage and automatically assumes you're going to make her your personal domestic slave deserves a bitchslap. Dining out is great too, but sniff out the princesses and cut them out from your life.
I'm not trying to be a sexist here... but good girls are really... really hard to find nowadays.
Cheers to all! Happy V-day advance! -
agreed.Originally posted by FeowFeow:Guys I'd never consider:
Those who think they're so good, they can pick & choose & list out so many criteria.
FeowFeow -
I am sure u have made such a list somewhere before in your life either in your mind or on paper or verbally.Originally posted by FeowFeow:Guys I'd never consider:
Those who think they're so good, they can pick & choose & list out so many criteria.
FeowFeow