Valentine Day - i think i broke her heart
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have you ever thought she might also have had a bad day at work yesterday?Originally posted by forum_man:Well, was not in a good mood yesterday Valentine Day, things dun get well in the office...Late evening i brought my gf to dinner, and honestly confessed that i didnt have any roses....i can see her quite upset, but she hid it.
So called my buddy to buy secretly on my behalf and deliver to me, thinking that this should be a good surprise for my gf, but when i present the roses to her, she say no need oreadi, and didnt even want to hold the bouquet...
I was so furious that i chucked it into the bin in front of her ($100/- gone), seeing this she cried non-stop and i pulled her back to my car, wanting to go back home, she refused and cried even louder hugging me...and wanted me to bring back the roses...well i did then, i got it back from the bin and threw it to her then drove her home...
She embraced my bouquet and still weeping silently....
Did i hurt her badly?? Im feelin so guilty
One possiblity.
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haha u are used n abused.. like a dog. My gf walked out on me at a restaurant.. i just sat there.. took my time eating my steak, i know ppl watching .. i just kek .. then payed the bill n left. Then she automatically come looking for me under the rain.. i did not even allow the ppl to let her into the club let her stand there. She can either leave or apologise. dun get tricked by them. No flowers so what! cau 78. .. tell her dont be so lan si k. Sometimes u just gotta slap some sense into them .
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whatta man!!!Originally posted by BadzMaro:haha u are used n abused.. like a dog. My gf walked out on me at a restaurant.. i just sat there.. took my time eating my steak, i know ppl watching .. i just kek .. then payed the bill n left. Then she automatically come looking for me under the rain.. i did not even allow the ppl to let her into the club let her stand there. She can either leave or apologise. dun get tricked by them. No flowers so what! cau 78. .. tell her dont be so lan si k. Sometimes u just gotta slap some sense into them .
i feel these wussy guys have to wake up their senses. crying in front of a gal asking her to come back does not always work. it only make her feel a sense of satisfaction of dumping u.
be HARSH!
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One way to really break a girl's heart..
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NPNT
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Dont give in to them too often, it makes u a real big fat @ss pathetic loser.
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i understand. don't feel guilty. it's her fault anyway. You did try to cover your mistake by asking friend to buy flowers.. and she didn't appreciate it.Originally posted by forum_man:Well, was not in a good mood yesterday Valentine Day, things dun get well in the office...Late evening i brought my gf to dinner, and honestly confessed that i didnt have any roses....i can see her quite upset, but she hid it.
So called my buddy to buy secretly on my behalf and deliver to me, thinking that this should be a good surprise for my gf, but when i present the roses to her, she say no need oreadi, and didnt even want to hold the bouquet...
I was so furious that i chucked it into the bin in front of her ($100/- gone), seeing this she cried non-stop and i pulled her back to my car, wanting to go back home, she refused and cried even louder hugging me...and wanted me to bring back the roses...well i did then, i got it back from the bin and threw it to her then drove her home...
She embraced my bouquet and still weeping silently....
Did i hurt her badly?? Im feelin so guilty
Sometimes, i think you should be harsh on your gf... then she will know how important you are to her.....
don't feel guilty.. she made mistake by not accepting your roses.... -
Well, it's ok, sometimes cnt treat gf too gd, since u oredi bought roses for her, and she giv xiaojie pi qi, if i were u, i oso angry !!!
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although her temper not good... but of cos lah. valentine day ma...
she also got wrong by giving u the attitude but after that it ur fault le....
my bf on 13th feb nite tell me he no time buy flower also like that... LL loh.... but on 14th feb just 3 mins before i knock off, 1 bouquet of 12 stalks of blue roses arrive in my office.... heee
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if i were ur girl, i'd haf gave u a BIG TIGHT SLAP and kick ur bloody dick and make u drink rat poison !!!
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i wouldnt bother abt the roses, its the fark attitude that would piss mi off.Originally posted by so_what:Well, it's ok, sometimes cnt treat gf too gd, since u oredi bought roses for her, and she giv xiaojie pi qi, if i were u, i oso angry !!! -
Of all days... Anyway, if you want to make up with her, apologise to her sincerely, explain that you had a bad day at work. Hopefully, she's understanding...
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it's really harsh of u to do something like that. chuck it into a bin? I believe u did it in the heat of the moment... but it shows u dont think or u just act on ur emotions... i know u feel upset too that u made an effort to get ur roses then she gave u the snub. but u should hold on to ur emotions a little better. just a little bit more.
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personally, i feel some gals really do not appreciate how well a guy treat them. they love to act dao.
well, i feel the less attention or affection u treated them, the more they beg for u. -
hahar !! i cant be bothered with anyone who cant be bothered with mi... so, ur recipe of getting girls wouldnt work on mi..Originally posted by 798:personally, i feel some gals really do not appreciate how well a guy treat them. they love to act dao.
well, i feel the less attention or affection u treated them, the more they beg for u. -
well, you definitely will not be my cup of tea either, muhahaha!Originally posted by carpe diem jur:hahar !! i cant be bothered with anyone who cant be bothered with mi... so, ur recipe of getting girls wouldnt work on mi.. -
can i ask u wat u say to her when u presented the roses? something like:
"here r the roses u wanted." or
"i am sry for saying i din get u any roses juz now."
or u juz give to her wifout saying anything?
wat u said could hav pissed her even more after initially hearing the words tat u din get her any roses. she could hav snubbed ur roses after seeing ur body language or hearing wat u said. -
congratulationsOriginally posted by forum_man:Well, was not in a good mood yesterday Valentine Day, things dun get well in the office...Late evening i brought my gf to dinner, and honestly confessed that i didnt have any roses....i can see her quite upset, but she hid it.
So called my buddy to buy secretly on my behalf and deliver to me, thinking that this should be a good surprise for my gf, but when i present the roses to her, she say no need oreadi, and didnt even want to hold the bouquet...
I was so furious that i chucked it into the bin in front of her ($100/- gone), seeing this she cried non-stop and i pulled her back to my car, wanting to go back home, she refused and cried even louder hugging me...and wanted me to bring back the roses...well i did then, i got it back from the bin and threw it to her then drove her home...
She embraced my bouquet and still weeping silently....
Did i hurt her badly?? Im feelin so guilty -
nv check her out today?
i bet she muz have cried till her eyes swollen. -
5 dog cane leh uOriginally posted by 798:u did the rite thing!
if i were u, i'll make sure she's crying in pain bonking her all nite long.
cheers! -
Seriously u bastard, u must be a freaking idiot to believe her when she said she didn't want the roses, AND THEN u had to go screw it up totally by throwing them in front of her.... Jeez, and we wonder why girls are so emotionally erratic? Seriously, unless u never want to talk to her again, go and make up for ur dumb mistake
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rule #1 : never admit your mistake, its never ursOriginally posted by Spugnardi:Seriously u bastard, u must be a freaking idiot to believe her when she said she didn't want the roses, AND THEN u had to go screw it up totally by throwing them in front of her.... Jeez, and we wonder why girls are so emotionally erratic? Seriously, unless u never want to talk to her again, go and make up for ur dumb mistake
rule #2 : always accuse her its her fault, its always hers
rule #3 : deny that u are in the wrong, u are always right
u must always win, winning is all it matters... -
Stupid stupid stupid.
She say she dun wan roses u believe her?
Please lah.
Sometimes must read between the lines right?
When she said she didn't want the roses anymore, and then u throw away, she might have felt u are not sincere.
and for all the MCPs who say it is the gals fault...f.uck you all. U dun understand ppl dont you? -
You had a bad day at work. Then you were honest to her about not getting the roses. Then you felt bad about it and decided to get her roses. What more she want? I think she should be glad that her boyfriend is honest to her, and still try to make up for it. She should reflect on her own attitude.Originally posted by forum_man:So called my buddy to buy secretly on my behalf and deliver to me, thinking that this should be a good surprise for my gf, but when i present the roses to her, she say no need oreadi, and didnt even want to hold the bouquet...
I was so furious that i chucked it into the bin in front of her ($100/- gone), seeing this she cried non-stop and i pulled her back to my car, wanting to go back home, she refused and cried even louder hugging me...and wanted me to bring back the roses...well i did then, i got it back from the bin and threw it to her then drove her home... -
should feel guilty...never give wife flowers ... gave to gf instead.Originally posted by forum_man:Well, was not in a good mood yesterday Valentine Day, things dun get well in the office...Late evening i brought my gf to dinner, and honestly confessed that i didnt have any roses....i can see her quite upset, but she hid it.
So called my buddy to buy secretly on my behalf and deliver to me, thinking that this should be a good surprise for my gf, but when i present the roses to her, she say no need oreadi, and didnt even want to hold the bouquet...
I was so furious that i chucked it into the bin in front of her ($100/- gone), seeing this she cried non-stop and i pulled her back to my car, wanting to go back home, she refused and cried even louder hugging me...and wanted me to bring back the roses...well i did then, i got it back from the bin and threw it to her then drove her home...
She embraced my bouquet and still weeping silently....
Did i hurt her badly?? Im feelin so guilty