what do guys think of girls who make the first move ?

• Boo777

  15 Mar 06, 16:12

  First, I'm going to feel impress by her courage, but at the same time shocked.
  
  If she's a looker, I'll consider going out once just to see if we "click". If we dun, too bad, can still be friends.
  
  And if making the first move is a "total embarassment", wat about us guys? As if we dun feel embarassed. A little bias on tat comment, dun u think ?
  
  

  Originally posted by yoghurt:

  on the part for the guys, wont it be annoying when a girl keeps perestering u and u dun feel the same way as she does for u? or finding a way to avoid her?then makin the first move would be a total embarassment for the girl isnt it?
  
  unless u feel the same for the girl would it then be pleasant.

• alexkusu

  15 Mar 06, 16:13

  Originally posted by lalala1999:

  as above.
  i'm sure many girls would like to know this as well.
  i've seen that some guys get kind of turn off when girls make the first move , whereas some guys feel that the girl is brave and feels flattered.
  what's your opinion ?
  

  if gal does that, she definately got chance. I would certainly date her!
• SMAPLionHeart

  15 Mar 06, 16:23

  first move second move
  i use secret move
• yoghurt

  15 Mar 06, 16:24

  Originally posted by Boo777:

  First, I'm going to feel impress by her courage, but at the same time shocked.
  
  If she's a looker, I'll consider going out once just to see if we "click". If we dun, too bad, can still be friends.
  
  And if making the first move is a "total embarassment", wat about us guys? As if we dun feel embarassed. A little bias on tat comment, dun u think ?
  
  

  well it's better tat the guy go thru tat "embarassment" stage instead of the girl. sides, society see it as guy go for girl not the other way round.
• lalala1999

  15 Mar 06, 16:25

  Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:

  first move second move
  i use secret move

  what secret move ?
• NewAge

  15 Mar 06, 16:25

  Originally posted by rainee:

  yea...if he rejects means he wun contact me anymore, then good oso lor, i will remain in my hometown wich is 5 hours away from his

  At the most u just take dunno which girl advice and send him the crush calculator thing loh
• kopiosatu

  15 Mar 06, 16:30

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  That context is on HUNT....and chase subsequently.
  
  But this one is Initiate which is *like my friend's case*
  Different context.

  same same but different la
• M©+square

  15 Mar 06, 16:31

  Originally posted by kopiosatu:

  same same but different la

  Same same but different. But he don't believe me lor.
• SMAPLionHeart

  15 Mar 06, 18:10

  Originally posted by lalala1999:

  what secret move ?

  dun tell u
  
• lalala1999

  15 Mar 06, 19:03

  Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:

  dun tell u