Originally posted by ditzy:
Its a summon right?

I believe that answers your question.
frm www.dictionary.com,
summon -
1.To call together; convene.
2.To request to appear; send for. See Synonyms at call.
3.Law. To order to appear in court by the issuance of a summons.
4.To order to take a specified action; bid: summon the captain to surrender.
5.To call forth; evoke: “He summoned up a smile, though it seemed to take all his strength” (Colin Turnbull).
your friend's summon is the number 4 one. must go, understand? if she want to save her face or what.. better to protect her assets and go to the court and put the man in jail!