letting me wait..
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i pity you. I think to him, his bike a non-living thing is much more important than you......Originally posted by BaBy_JaP_WaWa:he always let mi wait.. i stays west area n he stays north area.. it often took mi an hour to get to his place.. n before i goes out i would give him a call.. n after i reached his place i called him again to tell him i've already reached.. he said ok.. after 15 mins mins he's not down yet i called him again he siad ok again.. he came down after 30 mins.. my bus journey is more than enough time for him to prepare n get down when i reached.. he's always like that.. when i ask him to wait for mi a while at my void deck he would complain that the weather is hot n ask mi to go down immediately.. when i get down he talk to mi in a unhappy manner.. saying y so long one u.. very hot leh..
he let mi wait most of my time for him.. even thou he has a bike n i m meeting him some where n i take bus.. after i reached he hasn't even reached yet n had to let mi wait again.. then after waiting for so long ur temper will sure go up.. n i started to talk to him in an angry manner.. then he will say.. y u so angry? everytime i meet u u everytime buay song mi.. he's jus too much n doesn't noe how to manage his time n wasting my time n end up puts the fault at mi.. i duno when will he stop all this.. i told him the nest time i meet him again if i dun see him within 15 mins i will go home without telling him..
everytime i ask him to come over my place to pick mi up he would stay my bike not enough oil.. most of the time also like that lor.. realli very sick n it seems like he onli cares abt his bike.. everytime ask mi if i do this do that will it be nice? he's talking abt his bike everyday.. i dun mind him talking abt his bike but not everyday..
is this wat a real guy does? let a gal wait n wait n wait..
if someday you and his bike at the same time gone missing. who or wat will he be looking for first ? i just wonder........
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n now he's working.. working so hard that he dun have time to meet mi except midnight.. there's a time he wasn't wokring cos he quarrelled with his previous boss.. as his family isn't doing that well financially during the time when he wasn't working i tried to helped him in any way to not let his parents noe that his not working.. i tried finding n saving money for him n his family.. even after i quit from my job i still have a remaining for 190 bucks that i have to collect n i gave all to him.. i told him i would look for a job n will still help him when ever i can but i'm not ready to work cos of some personal reasons.. n now he working n has totally no time.. i told him to get a half day off n he say " i jus worked onli for a week n u ask mi to take off " he has been working for more than a week with no offs..
before he enter this job he told mi that he can take off when ever he wants.. i jus ask for a half day off n he wouldn't give it to mi.. n he msg mi this " i noe i can't depand on u cos u can't be trusted.. " wat is this man.. i gave up so many things for him n end up i get this reply from him.. i feel that i got cheated.. jus so disappointed.. -
aiya...both must give and take mah...u give in this time then he gives in next time...
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he's not giving mi anything.. 2 days earlier i was sick n i told him.. n he didn't even ask mi whether i got take medicine a not.. jus ask mi go n rest.. then after asking y dun he ask mi those q he jus plainly say u have hands n legs u can see a doc urself.. when he's sick i worry for him so much n end up wat i get.. he take mi for granted that i will get well.. sometimes i realli wanna tell him this if one day i will not get well or i met with an accident will u worry for me or u jus treat as i will recover..Originally posted by kaobeikaobu:aiya...both must give and take mah...u give in this time then he gives in next time... -
I think he's not a real guy.. thats why make u wait and wait and wait..
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personally..u think too much.Originally posted by BaBy_JaP_WaWa:he's not giving mi anything.. 2 days earlier i was sick n i told him.. n he didn't even ask mi whether i got take medicine a not.. jus ask mi go n rest.. then after asking y dun he ask mi those q he jus plainly say u have hands n legs u can see a doc urself.. when he's sick i worry for him so much n end up wat i get.. he take mi for granted that i will get well.. sometimes i realli wanna tell him this if one day i will not get well or i met with an accident will u worry for me or u jus treat as i will recover..
he alrdy asked u to go rest le..wad more do u wan?
quote"nv ask mi whether i got take medicine a not.."
dun u feel that ur placing too high expectations on him as ur bf?u wan him to keep asking u qns to show that he cares for u?
actions r alwaes louder than words.let wad he does be proof of his love for u.
time will prove it.
no man would wan their gfs to be clingy.
and by asking him why he nv asked those..u have actually irritated him.
however, if u still feel that ur bf is in the wrong after reading all these..why not tell him how u feel?
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talk to him abt it.
seriously it's quite tiring to travel ard sg..
but then again i think he shouldn't lie on u