Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:
If the guy say he is prepared for fatherhood, then he should be prepared to dole out money for a $12 test kit lah! Clinic test is about $30 I think
What for conjecture so much when not yet tested? Unless the test is in whether he WILL be responsible or not.
Don't you find it ironical that you find abortion 'irresponsible', but is not responsible enough to use contraceptives to begin with? I got nothing against abortions/pro-choice, or premarital sex with or w/o contraceptives but dont delude yourself by giving a moral judgement to one action and suspend it when it is something you desire.
If you ARE pregnant, then like stated above
1. Keep baby and give birth OR
2. Abort
There are only two choices. Why complicate it with things like marriage or whatever?
And please, TEST. Cos the longer you delay, IF you ARE pregnant, then you might not even have the option to go for a legal abortion if you so choose.
no more talking abt who made mi pregnant or y nv use contraception.. i tested it n i'm not pregnant.. my period came so guaranteed not pregnant.. so from now on no more jumping of conclusions