is it true that..
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sometimes girls are not prepared to have sex with their bf, but their bf 'ying ying lai', hence the rapist term.
in fact a lot of girls are like tat, they love their bf a lot, but they cannot imagine having sex with them and those stuffs..... -
sex is part of love... imo..Originally posted by ^tamago^:sometimes girls are not prepared to have sex with their bf, but their bf 'ying ying lai', hence the rapist term.
in fact a lot of girls are like tat, they love their bf a lot, but they cannot imagine having sex with them and those stuffs.....
i don't mean love some1 means must sex...
don't say girls... what about boys? maybe boys too? -
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rape doesnt need 2 hands to clap. rape is rape. its wrong. the rapist is the one at fault, period.Originally posted by FadeToBlack:rape by bf?
one must understand that, whatever we do, whatever choices we make in life, we, ourselves bear the unforseen consqeunces.
if she make a rapist her bf, it's her choice and not mature enough to take more steps like understanding her bf.
Yes, of course she will hate him. But who is at fault? It's either both party's fault or none. It takes 2 hands to clap.
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True love : The deeper you love, the more painful it is for you when he/she dunp you.
A relationship in which you just wanna own that person : The deeper you love, the more you hate him/ her -
hmmm.. so u mean: true love => own that person (isnt that possesiveness?) => more hate you'll feel ?
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I think u are being very unfair with that statement.Originally posted by FadeToBlack:rape by bf?
one must understand that, whatever we do, whatever choices we make in life, we, ourselves bear the unforseen consqeunces.
if she make a rapist her bf, it's her choice and not mature enough to take more steps like understanding her bf.
Yes, of course she will hate him. But who is at fault? It's either both party's fault or none. It takes 2 hands to clap.
who would want to make a rapist her bf? If the bf deliberately act as a Mr Nice Guy and out to take advantage of her.. if he is so well disguised, can u say she's not mature enough?
So what if both really understands each other? If a man is desperate, he can do anything. -
well, at least we got to know what a guy's opinion of 'rape'...
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"the greatest evil is capable of the greatest love.." turn it around, you get the answer.
yes. but its not true hate imo. -
Originally posted by papercut87:the deeper u love the person, the more you'll hate him/her once he/she dumps you (or does anything to hurt you)? heard dis fr somewhere.
what are your views?
may have something to do with
the more one gives of oneself 'unconditionally',
the more he/she expects in reciprocation.
failure on the other guy's part leads to feeling short-changed,
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dat's not love. dat's an obsession.Originally posted by chenc:True love : The deeper you love, the more painful it is for you when he/she dunp you.
A relationship in which you just wanna own that person : The deeper you love, the more you hate him/ her
if you truly love someone, you do not want to possess that person. dats a rather selfish intention, and love is never selfish
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AHHHH.... SORRY. type wronglyOriginally posted by papercut87:hmmm.. so u mean: true love => own that person (isnt that possesiveness?) => more hate you'll feel ?
True love : The deeper you love, the more painful it is for you when he/she dunp you.
A relationship in which you just wanna own that person : The deeper you love, the more you hate him/ her when you got dumped -
Exactly what i mean.Originally posted by rainee:dat's not love. dat's an obsession.
if you truly love someone, you do not want to possess that person. dats a rather selfish intention, and love is never selfish