Originally posted by gohkatkat:
emotional intelligence book.....becausr you need that to say i am SORRY to anyone if you have an awesome ego!
Well, sorry must come with sincerity, no matter the ego
My take on sorry is that to say sorry, you must either acknowledge there is something fully wrong with what you have done or said, or you wish to cool a potential conflict that is really not important.
If not, I think the value of sorry is diminished. I should know, someone I know apologised to stall for time before reigniting the conflict at an opportune time. i think sorry has just begun to become a new useful tool to further self interest.
Sigh