TERMINAL LOVE?
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Let's say... One day... If you're a guy and about to propose to a girl who you so much love each other.... Or you're a girl who your bf proposes to you for ROM....
But before the ROM, you find out that you've got an illness which probably means you'll be paralysed within a couple of months or within a year (likely) and be a burden to your other half.... With you still go ahead with the ROM..? Would you share this information with him / her? Would you still be around...
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Don't worry, I'll be at your funeral.
Don't take this seriously! -
She want to go ahead with the ROM first anot?
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SO WOULD YOU TELL HER...??Originally posted by Patrik:She want to go ahead with the ROM first anot? -
wht is ROM?
i ll probably tell her my ocndition..and c wht she decides. -
oui, an cua ur nick same as limpeh?Originally posted by new_b:wht is ROM?
i ll probably tell her my ocndition..and c wht she decides. -
at 1st i tot this thread got something do with love in airport
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Of course no la....Why drag her down with you???I dun tink anyone will want to lie paralysed with a sense of guilt of not giving your love ones the things she deserved.
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likely no, but talk to her first bah.
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IN all practicality so far as living in Singapore is concerned, in such a scenario, going ahead with the marriage is a bad idea. However, it is believed and proven that LOVE can indeed overcome immeasurable difficulties. So, I'd say this answer to your question is very subjective, depending on the priniciples & commitment of the parties involved.Originally posted by Devil1976:Let's say... One day... If you're a guy and about to propose to a girl who you so much love each other.... Or you're a girl who your bf proposes to you for ROM....
But before the ROM, you find out that you've got an illness which probably means you'll be paralysed within a couple of months or within a year (likely) and be a burden to your other half.... With you still go ahead with the ROM..? Would you share this information with him / her? Would you still be around...
Personally, I WILL still carry on IF I have the financial means to support a bed-ridden wife. Otherwise, I'd still stay in touch, and contribute financially on a regular basis.
Mindful also, that there will also be technical complications in the areas of Insurance policies. -
i will give her the best shag of my life and dump her the next morning....haha...Reasons being so obvious...Rather she hate me 4 a while after that than 2 be sad and suffering 4 the rest of our lives together....
P.S: Pardon my crap but this is sgforums...what do u expect??
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but the bed ridden person is u leh.Originally posted by ShutterBug:IN all practicality so far as living in Singapore is concerned, in such a scenario, going ahead with the marriage is a bad idea. However, it is believed and proven that LOVE can indeed overcome immeasurable difficulties. So, I'd say this answer to your question is very subjective, depending on the priniciples & commitment of the parties involved.
Personally, I WILL still carry on IF I have the financial means to support a bed-ridden wife. Otherwise, I'd still stay in touch, and contribute financially on a regular basis.
Mindful also, that there will also be technical complications in the areas of Insurance policies. -
i wun...if u love dat person mb u dun wish to be a burden to him or her
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I will just back out from the whole thing lah.
If I tell my condition, the guy may insist on going ROM out of sympathy for me. Even if he is doing it out of love, I will feel bad.... Why drag him into such burden, right? I will keep mum about my condition and tell him that I'm sorry. -
If you are planning to go through the ROM to take the vows etc.."through sickness and in health etc" i don't think this would be a question.
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of course i'd tell him about it but i wouldnt marry him. i dont want to be a burden.esp if he's very young, he has the right to be happy.
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I'll stop the ROM and wait or give time for my other half to leave me automatically during my couple of months or within a year.Originally posted by Devil1976:Let's say... One day... If you're a guy and about to propose to a girl who you so much love each other.... Or you're a girl who your bf proposes to you for ROM....
But before the ROM, you find out that you've got an illness which probably means you'll be paralysed within a couple of months or within a year (likely) and be a burden to your other half.... With you still go ahead with the ROM..? Would you share this information with him / her? Would you still be around...
Nothing is forever....only money can hold a relationship together with or without love. -
I will stop the ROM and tell her the truth...
The rest, I leave it to Fate... -
just wonderin
what is ROM?
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Your descriptions remind me of a korean movie: You are my sunshine or NI Shi Wo De Min Yun.
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ROM also dunno how to get married like that!!?Originally posted by alexkusu:just wonderin
what is ROM? 
Registry Of Marriage laaa -
Nowadays want find girl to go thru hardship with u is impossible.Originally posted by Devil1976:SO WOULD YOU TELL HER...??
Somemore u wil be a burden to her.
U want marry her,she might not want also.
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Go for a destiny analysis to confirm whether you will REALLY be paralysed or not.Originally posted by Devil1976:Let's say... One day... If you're a guy and about to propose to a girl who you so much love each other.... Or you're a girl who your bf proposes to you for ROM....
But before the ROM, you find out that you've got an illness which probably means you'll be paralysed within a couple of months or within a year (likely) and be a burden to your other half.... With you still go ahead with the ROM..? Would you share this information with him / her? Would you still be around... -
YOU THINK TOO MUCH DEVILOriginally posted by Devil1976:Let's say... One day... If you're a guy and about to propose to a girl who you so much love each other.... Or you're a girl who your bf proposes to you for ROM....
But before the ROM, you find out that you've got an illness which probably means you'll be paralysed within a couple of months or within a year (likely) and be a burden to your other half.... With you still go ahead with the ROM..? Would you share this information with him / her? Would you still be around... -
Originally posted by Patrik:Nowadays want find girl to go thru hardship with u is impossible.
Somemore u wil be a burden to her.
U want marry her,she might not want also. 