Originally posted by nanren4ever:Truer words have never been said.
[b]when u are young, around ur teens, u of course don't care about status or whether the guy is rich or not, coz everything is still provided for by ur parents. As long as the person handsome can liao.
But when u grow up, u start 2 have 2 pay ur own bills, pay ur own car and flat installments. Everything in Singapore so expensive nowadays, but only ur salary still stagnant. Of course one has 2 start 2 be realistic, and look for someone of equal qualification status or better, so that he can help contribute to the household.
Do not blame anyone for being materalistic, blame the society that we are in.[/b]
Originally posted by black.S:not just sex,marriage includes companionship,but gals these day beginning to follow western culture,they look out for fame,finance and power.These young undegrad gals dissapoint me from the way they talk.From my point of view,it is fine for gals to look out for fame and finance but then,seems like gals these days r getting really overbroad.When their bf is successful in his career,they blame their bf for not being romantic and not spending enuff time to accompany them,likewise if thier bf is romantic and spend time with them,they will blame their bf for not being career minded.Maybe somehow they get lucky and find a guy that its rich,successful,romantic, but hey wake up your idea,the chance r real slim,maybe 1 guy out of 100,and do u tink the lucky bastard will fall in love wif u,there will b plenty of gals queueing up to grab him.One advice,know where u stands in this modern society![]()
You can get sex without marriage. *shrugs* Some forumers make it sound as though gals wont get bfs and sex if the gals are career minded. I think it's possible to get bfs even if you are successful- we dont want wimps, we want men who are not afraid of successful womenOriginally posted by Disclaimer:Sex is God's creation and nature. Just like aging, it will eventually catch up with u no matter how much u avoid it.
Procreation is one of the duties of an earthly life form.Sex is the enlightment of humans. One procreation is achieved, the lifeform's birth and death cycle is complete.