Has anyone have this type of experience b4?
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You have a stable girl friend.
Then one day a new girl came into your life.
You get to see her everyday, and slowly day by day without realising, you are getting closer and closer into each other's life.
You know its not right, and you tried to pull yourself out, but seem to fall deeper in, just like into quick sand..
Anyone?? Pls share your sentiments on this...
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no, never.
normally i can't see anyone else. -
why are you seeing more of that girl than your gf?
Why did you allow that situation to occur in the first place ? -
Have you no faith in your relationship with your GF?
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wat abt the ger?
she fallen for u oso? -
You're so weak. -
You gotta do something to rectify the problem before its too late...
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flowery hearted sia....
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Because that gal is a new colleague from the same dept.Originally posted by mistyblue:why are you seeing more of that girl than your gf?
Why did you allow that situation to occur in the first place ?
Colleague = see everyday
Girlfriend see on weekends only.. weekdays seldom meet up.. -
i have plenty of faith in this relationship.Originally posted by Bontakun:Have you no faith in your relationship with your GF?
in fact we have plans to get married. -
actually u're right. it was a bad experience. my female colleagues like to make noise and giggle and try to tease me whenever i'm on the phone with her (sometimes it's urgent and she needs my advice).
didn't make my life with my gf easier. turns out one of them in the dept likes me. heng is temp job. but then, she kind of contacted me a year later but we didnt have chemistry at tat time cos our life paths are rather different. so there u go. contribute liao.... -
Erm.. as for this, i'm quite poor at telling this type of things lehOriginally posted by FireIce:wat abt the ger?
she fallen for u oso?
at times, i can feel it... -
u jerk.
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Such as??Originally posted by SMRT Buses:You gotta do something to rectify the problem before its too late... -
Then you have no worries when you meet this new person who entered your life. You do not even need to post here since you know what are you doing.Originally posted by Cristiano@Red_Devils.com:i have plenty of faith in this relationship.
in fact we have plans to get married. -
You can only choose one and let the other go.Originally posted by Cristiano@Red_Devils.com:Because that gal is a new colleague from the same dept.
Colleague = see everyday
Girlfriend see on weekends only.. weekdays seldom meet up.. -
learn from my experience leh.Originally posted by Cristiano@Red_Devils.com:Erm.. as for this, i'm quite poor at telling this type of things leh
at times, i can feel it...
to cherish ur r/s u need to be proactive..... dun be sitting duck or blur blur liao.... there is no second time.... -
if u gf is quite sensitive, think dun see her after work is the best la.Originally posted by Cristiano@Red_Devils.com:Such as??
if u wan to be frens with him only, then make sure she noes u have a gf. but i'd rather u play safe la, go with the option on top, esp when u wan to collapse liao. -
marriage is a big commitment.Originally posted by Cristiano@Red_Devils.com:i have plenty of faith in this relationship.
in fact we have plans to get married.
Do not go into it if you are unsure.
If such a small temptation already create this issue for you. Then you need to think hard if you want to get married at all or if you love your gf at all. Straying in marriage has a high consequence. -
She know that i have gf lah..Originally posted by ^tamago^:if u gf is quite sensitive, think dun see her after work is the best la.
if u wan to be frens with him only, then make sure she noes u have a gf.
For now, we are still in 'safe zone'.. and i hope it will maintain that way..
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Don't scare me pls...Originally posted by mistyblue:marriage is a big commitment.
Do not go into it if you are unsure.
If such a small temptation already create this issue for you. Then you need to think hard if you want to get married at all or if you love your gf at all. Straying in marriage has a high consequence.
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in any way, safe or not, make sure she does not come into ur plans with ur gf.Originally posted by Cristiano@Red_Devils.com:She know that i have gf lah..
For now, we are still in 'safe zone'.. and i hope it will maintain that way..
ok, dun think so much liao. set ur mind right on the right thing.
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why u cant see anyone???Originally posted by Ito_^:no, never. normally i can't see anyone else.
as for the threadstarter, pls be faithful..
i believe u do not wan ur gf to do the same to u.
since u noe that u r vulnerable, then keep a distance with that gal or try to think of her bad points???? -
no scary. it's the reality. put urself in ur gal's shoe (it's not easy, yeah) and u can feel the sense of insecurity.Originally posted by Cristiano@Red_Devils.com:Don't scare me pls... -
Oh no. Another problem...