Has anyone have this type of experience b4?
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tell you wad... dump the gal, and screw the other one. -
cant set hsi sights on anyone beyond his gf?Originally posted by Cool-gal:why u cant see anyone???
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friend, we are not playing with toys any more.Originally posted by Cristiano@Red_Devils.com:Don't scare me pls...
I don't think there are many things that are major decisions in life and there are not many life changing decisions as marriage. If you are not scared, then you should cause you don't seem to understand marriage.
Playing with other people's heart is the worse of all the things people do to each other. -
Originally posted by starblue:
tell you wad... dump the gal, and screw the other one. 
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oh.........this is common in workplace.....
bcos of the common topics and a good listening ear to work problems, u will find that she is oh-she-so-understand-me.......and it's very easy to cross the line.....
making u want the best of both worlds
which, at the end of the day, u can lose both..... -
/pah pokOriginally posted by FireIce:oh.........this is common in workplace.....
bcos of the common topics and a good listening ear to work problems, u will find that she is oh-she-so-understand-me.......and it's very easy to cross the line.....
making u want the best of both worlds
which, at the end of the day, u can lose both.....
well said. the guy's mind is so clouded.. -
i cannot stand this kinda guy.Originally posted by ^tamago^: -
in e first place, u luv ur gf? as in true really deep luv? bcos if yes, no one shld b able 2 hinder ur feelings be it u c everyday or u talk 2 everyday...
i c my gf oso not very frequent, oso got girls whom i c everyday n talk 2, even sensitive topics, at first tot falling for them but realise dat no lor, i really luv my gal, den no tinking abt straying liao! in fact, gonna get a flat wif my gal soon!
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congrat!Originally posted by life2121:in e first place, u luv ur gf? as in true really deep luv? bcos if yes, no one shld b able 2 hinder ur feelings be it u c everyday or u talk 2 everyday...
i c my gf oso not very frequent, oso got girls whom i c everyday n talk 2, even sensitive topics, at first tot falling for them but realise dat no lor, i really luv my gal, den no tinking abt straying liao! in fact, gonna get a flat wif my gal soon! -
why are we answering seriously to this kinda post???
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thanks thanks! but took a while b4 she agreed, at first she dun wanna... say still young, wanna play some more....Originally posted by mistyblue:congrat!
but really showed her dat i meant it, although some times kana scolded but it worth it lah (thread starter - so u shld ascertain urself if u luv her much much 2 sacrifice 4 her. wish u all e best!) -
dunno. to save a r/s, in case?
the threadstarter kinda get the idea alrd lah, i also wan to slp liao. *yawns* -
She's lucky to meet a guy so clear-minded about the relationship.Originally posted by life2121:thanks thanks! but took a while b4 she agreed, at first she dun wanna... say still young, wanna play some more....
but really showed her dat i meant it, although some times kana scolded but it worth it lah (thread starter - so u shld ascertain urself if u luv her much much 2 sacrifice 4 her. wish u all e best!) -
i want to thank everyone for your opinions and comments..Originally posted by life2121:thanks thanks! but took a while b4 she agreed, at first she dun wanna... say still young, wanna play some more....
but really showed her dat i meant it, although some times kana scolded but it worth it lah (thread starter - so u shld ascertain urself if u luv her much much 2 sacrifice 4 her. wish u all e best!)
Deep down inside, i know that i love my gf.. all i need to do now is to drive the 'satan' away from my heart.. wish me luck...
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I'm just like you. Now I'm going back to school and I know I'm gonna meet new friends and I'm the kind of guy who can't refuse a help from a girl, like give her a ride home or something, if I bring my car. But bottom line I know my heart is already given to my gf and I love her and everything. I treat other girls as just friends or normal friends but I'm scared I would give the wrong ideas to the other party and it might lead on to something more complicated. So should I just be like low-profile or something and not socialise?Originally posted by Cristiano@Red_Devils.com:i want to thank everyone for your opinions and comments..
Deep down inside, i know that i love my gf.. all i need to do now is to drive the 'satan' away from my heart.. wish me luck... -
Thats a tough question..Originally posted by dinky1409:I'm just like you. Now I'm going back to school and I know I'm gonna meet new friends and I'm the kind of guy who can't refuse a help from a girl, like give her a ride home or something, if I bring my car. But bottom line I know my heart is already given to my gf and I love her and everything. I treat other girls as just friends or normal friends but I'm scared I would give the wrong ideas to the other party and it might lead on to something more complicated. So should I just be like low-profile or something and not socialise?
if i know the answer, i wouldnt have posted this thread to ask for opinions
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Hi.. like to give everyone a quick update..Originally posted by Cristiano@Red_Devils.com:You have a stable girl friend.
Then one day a new girl came into your life.
You get to see her everyday, and slowly day by day without realising, you are getting closer and closer into each other's life.
You know its not right, and you tried to pull yourself out, but seem to fall deeper in, just like into quick sand..
Anyone?? Pls share your sentiments on this...
This colleague of mine, we are still getting closer to each other day by day.. as in we msn each other everyday, and we go for supper and la kopi after doing OT, etc.. but i can feel more and more that i'm only treating her as a close friend, as we have many common topics to talk abt and share with each other.. and i can feel that the same goes for her to.. just normal close frens..
but the problem is.. i feel rather guilty towards my gf, as previously we had an agreement not to hang out with a fren of opp gender alone, as in those just 2 persons type.. but i really treat this colleague of mine as just a normal close fren..
pls give opinions and feedback on what u guys feel abt this.. and what is the best way to approach this problem... thanks. -
knncb
even i dun hab one
now ppl discuss abt two
wa lau
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If u feel guilty, then stop meeting ur colleague and go home after work? Remember, paper cannot keep the fire wrapped.Originally posted by Cristiano@Red_Devils.com:Hi.. like to give everyone a quick update..
This colleague of mine, we are still getting closer to each other day by day.. as in we msn each other everyday, and we go for supper and la kopi after doing OT, etc.. but i can feel more and more that i'm only treating her as a close friend, as we have many common topics to talk abt and share with each other.. and i can feel that the same goes for her to.. just normal close frens..
but the problem is.. i feel rather guilty towards my gf, as previously we had an agreement not to hang out with a fren of opp gender alone, as in those just 2 persons type.. but i really treat this colleague of mine as just a normal close fren..
pls give opinions and feedback on what u guys feel abt this.. and what is the best way to approach this problem... thanks. -
But.. i treat her as good fren only.. and same goes for her..Originally posted by moongster:If u feel guilty, then stop meeting ur colleague and go home after work? Remember, paper cannot keep the fire wrapped.
is it wrong to hang out w gd frens??
i want to think of a solution, to make my gf accept that its okay to hang out w frens of opp gender.. so that i dont hv to keep hiding from her during those times that i'm with my colleauge.. -
u can't have the best of both worlds.....
make up ur mind
which one u want? -
I don't really see it as an issue if you two are friends and your girlfriend understands that. I'm good friends still with a girl I once wooed but was rejected.Originally posted by Cristiano@Red_Devils.com:But.. i treat her as good fren only.. and same goes for her..
is it wrong to hang out w gd frens??
i want to think of a solution, to make my gf accept that its okay to hang out w frens of opp gender.. so that i dont hv to keep hiding from her during those times that i'm with my colleauge..
My girlfriend actually sees two of us so much as friends, she does not see any problem with me meeting her or hanging out with her.
But if your girlfriend minds you meeting her, then you need to choose whether to loose a friend or make your girlfriend unhappy. I'm not saying it's right that you have to choose, nor am I saying it'd be easy, but sometimes you can't make everyone happy. The most you can do is try. -
I think he chose already, confirmed one is a friend. The other is gf. It's not a question of which one he want already. It's an issue of whether he can keep a friend or not.Originally posted by FireIce:u can't have the best of both worlds.....
make up ur mind
which one u want?