Girls , what yr dream / ideal proposal?

• Hello Kitty

  6 Sep 06, 04:31

  kcuse me.
  
  pls geddit clear.
  
  me not askin fer juz diamonds.
• udontknowme

  6 Sep 06, 04:33

  my ideal is no proposal.
  
• 0lala

  6 Sep 06, 04:34

  U asking for diamonds + 5 c's + good hubby
  
  
• Hello Kitty

  6 Sep 06, 04:35

  5c not impt.
  
  tamade. u dun cm tok cok. who wan marry gd fer nutin husband.
• 0lala

  6 Sep 06, 04:38

  Originally posted by Hello Kitty:

  5c not impt.
  
  tamade. u dun cm tok cok. who wan marry gd fer nutin husband.

  I didnt say good fer nutin
  good fer nutin means lazy and rotten charecter
  
  I'm pinpointing that u wan diamonds + goodhubby + $ right?
• SixSentinels

  6 Sep 06, 09:03

  aiya u never read what the digital life article said meh. it said now women dont want those diamond rings le, buy them all the latest tech toys they be happy already
• carlsonxjd

  6 Sep 06, 09:21

  Originally posted by SixSentinels:

  aiya u never read what the digital life article said meh. it said now women dont want those diamond rings le, buy them all the latest tech toys they be happy already

  wad is tech toys? who si wu gu de xiao hai
• Hello Kitty

  6 Sep 06, 12:23

  Originally posted by SixSentinels:

  aiya u never read what the digital life article said meh. it said now women dont want those diamond rings le, buy them all the latest tech toys they be happy already

  dun geddit wrg. as presents nia hor.
• Hello Kitty

  6 Sep 06, 12:24

  Originally posted by 0lala:

  I didnt say good fer nutin
  good fer nutin means lazy and rotten charecter
  
  I'm pinpointing that u wan diamonds + goodhubby + $ right?

  den u tell me. who wan marry nogoodhubby.
• InnoHippo

  6 Sep 06, 12:28

  Originally posted by blowfish:

  Like when, where and how....
  
  

  during a lazy afternoon ....... in the bedroom ...... having a sweet dream
• 0lala

  6 Sep 06, 17:32

  Originally posted by Hello Kitty:

  den u tell me. who wan marry nogoodhubby.

  ur one is high expectation liao lo
• hisoka

  6 Sep 06, 17:36

  will some one pls set a good example and say no need proposal or jsut a simple question??
  
  think of the billions and trillions of pple that you will be saving and helping if the trend holds true!!
  
  all that talk about being charitable and helpful? this is the time to put the words to action!!
• bladez87

  6 Sep 06, 17:41

  females
  
  at 20 yo, they want 1carot diamond. worth 10-20k
  at 30yo they dont mind 0.5carot worth 5k?
  at 40yo they start to find any male who is available if they ever intend to settle down.
  
  so moral of story is. girls networth are dropping by the second.
  
  guy at 20, cannot afford much if he would be independent.
  guy at 30, probably can afford to buy a toyota car by himself
  guy at 40, should be able to get a BMW.
  
  moral of story is guys networth increase by the years.
  
  moral of the moral of the story, dream proposal differs during the age range.
• Diesel_Dimension

  6 Sep 06, 17:42

  a bowl of laksa...
  
  That will do the job
• 0lala

  6 Sep 06, 17:45

  Yea thats why i always question myself why do our local sg's claim to love their bf but wants diamond and cars as a prequiste for their hand in marriage
• Hello Kitty

  6 Sep 06, 22:23

  question ge pi lah.
  
  dun marry lah.
  
  if no ability take care of the whole household, fer wat wan implicate so many ppl.
• Hello Kitty

  6 Sep 06, 22:26

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  will some one pls set a good example and say no need proposal or jsut a simple question??
  
  think of the billions and trillions of pple that you will be saving and helping if the trend holds true!!
  
  all that talk about being charitable and helpful? this is the time to put the words to action!!

  save who?
  
  ok den. so here goes.
  
  "okok, acherly no nit proposal at all. u can dun so fat hope anot. coz me dun intend to marry u."
• bladez87

  6 Sep 06, 22:31

  Originally posted by Hello Kitty:

  question ge pi lah.
  
  dun marry lah.
  
  if no ability take care of the whole household, fer wat wan implicate so many ppl.

  if 1 has the money to support the household, but have to utilize those savings just for a stupid stone, and a lavish wedding just to make the wife happy, whose fault is it?
  
  is like, i have 100k, enough to start a small biz, or to last for a while for rainy days, but because my wife wants 20k worth of diamond, wedding dinner at 5-6 stars hotel, which cost like 80k, etc etc.
  
  am i considered not capable of taking care of family?
  
  i think if my wife were to demand all those things mentioned about for the reason that to prove i have ability to take care of household. forget it marriage is off.
  
  lets say i save 500 per month. takes roughly 2 years of savings just to get a 10k worth diamond ring? wth sia...
• Hello Kitty

  6 Sep 06, 22:38

  Originally posted by bladez87:

  if 1 has the money to support the household, but have to utilize those savings just for a stupid stone, and a lavish wedding just to make the wife happy, whose fault is it?
  
  is like, i have 100k, enough to start a small biz, or to last for a while for rainy days, but because my wife wants 20k worth of diamond, wedding dinner at 5-6 stars hotel, which cost like 80k, etc etc.
  
  am i considered not capable of taking care of family?
  
  i think if my wife were to demand all those things mentioned about for the reason that to prove i have ability to take care of household. forget it marriage is off.
  
  lets say i save 500 per month. takes roughly 2 years of savings just to get a 10k worth diamond ring? wth sia...

  na bei lah. hong gan loh.
  
  me got ask fer 80k dinner anot.
  
  of coz got to save up fer marriage oso. u tink go mcdonalds drive thru izit.
  
  save 500/mth is beri lil loh. u tink big fark izzit. 500 leh. me buy specs oladi 600 ok.
  
  u one mth earn 800 nia izzit.
  
  pls go marry vietnam bride.
  
  we lealli dun mind losin u to dem.
• 0lala

  6 Sep 06, 23:58

  c ugly side of our local gals
• 0lala

  7 Sep 06, 00:02

  from my POV
  a good and able husband is one who can meet the basic expenses of the house hold and is of good charecter,dosent make the family worries bcuz of not meeting basic needs
  thats a good busband
  
  but if someone wants Rich hubby+diamonds+5's
  ok,it has already exceeded the basic requriement of what a good breadwinner shld be
  
  i call that high expectations or demanding
  whichever u prefer
• huy

  7 Sep 06, 00:10

  i don ask for diamond rings or great atmosphere.. most important is sincerity when he says this- no matter what happens, i will always be with u forever... pls marry me...
• rathcycle

  7 Sep 06, 00:12

  Originally posted by 0lala:

  from my POV
  a good and able husband is one who can meet the basic expenses of the house hold and is of good charecter,dosent make the family worries bcuz of not meeting basic needs
  thats a good busband
  
  but if someone wants Rich hubby+diamonds+5's
  ok,it has already exceeded the basic requriement of what a good breadwinner shld be
  
  i call that high expectations or demanding
  whichever u prefer

  best post done by you.
• Bontakun

  7 Sep 06, 00:14

  Originally posted by 0lala:

  from my POV
  a good and able husband is one who can meet the basic expenses of the house hold and is of good charecter,dosent make the family worries bcuz of not meeting basic needs
  thats a good busband
  

  What dat meant is: A husband who can lead and can give her security in all aspects.
• 0lala

  7 Sep 06, 00:14

  Originally posted by rathcycle:

  best post done by you.

  I cant resist the urge to post crap