Girl's actions...
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I have known this girl karen* for more then 3 years already through my ex-gf.(karen & my ex are gd frenz). All along, me & karen can click with each other quite well and are gd Bro/ Sis relationship.
Ever since i broke with my ex, i feel that me and karen are getting closer and closer though we seldom talk on the phone. We mainly will meet up to chit chat or have meals together if we got time. Unknowingly, i developed some feelings for her. However my ex still pins for me to return to her side. I feel this is the main obstrucle between us. Moreover karen claim we r juz bro & sis mah so being close is ok and not 'jian bu de guan'.
Until 2 days ago, me and karen went to a esplanade(close to the sea) and chit chat for a few hours. For the first time, she lean her back towards me while sitting down and rest her head on my shoulder. I really feel happy when she does that as my feelings for her grew. Then just yesterday she jio me to beach to walk walk as she long time never been there already. So after dinner, we stroll down the beach and enjoy the cool breeze.
After some time, we sat down onto a beach. She started resting her head on my shoulders, chest(listening to my fast heart beat), and even lap while she rested her eyes. I sang some songs to her softly, tell her stories, stroking her hair,eyes,lips, etc etc. In the siting position, i even sling my hands around her neck and rested on her stomach(touching her @@) as a result. Passbyers who passed by us will definitely think we r a loving couple. The time we spent there was very enjoyable.
The thing is i doesn't know she got feelings for me or not or just treating me as a good kor kor. Can good friends spent their time together as what i had have described? I not so sure... she told me she got lie her head briefly on one other guy(whom she got no feelings but gd frenz) and her ex. So i dunno what her actions meant... Can anyone(esp gals) enlighten me on this? Thanks a million. Cheers...
* names have been changed to protect the innocent
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summarise in 10 words. thks.
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i'm a boy. by the way. when you accidentally touch her hor, is she awake or asleep?
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you and your summary crap.Originally posted by monoslayer:summarise in 10 words. thks.
*bongs Mono on the head* -
u shld know her better..if she's promiscuious or not....
other than tat, it only shows she's comfy w u....
to know her real feelings n wat she's thinking...use ur mouth....ASK her...
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of cos she's awake but closing her eyes to rest lah...lol... anyway she's the innocent and gentle type of girl... not the flirtous one... i admit i got no guts to ask her the question...scared of rejection man.... but i did ask her whether she's comfortable wif me... of cos she say yes.... anyway thank u all for replies...Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:i'm a boy. by the way. when you accidentally touch her hor, is she awake or asleep? -
i can only think of 1 possibility.
she likes you but doesn't want to say it out. she said she rested on other shoulders but that's probably just a lie. why did she lie? ask the women, i don't know. -
also, why did she only got closer to you after the break up?
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This i really dunno....my ex used to get a little jealous when she see us so close together...but now she gotten used to it...Originally posted by newcomer:i can only think of 1 possibility.
she likes you but doesn't want to say it out. she said she rested on other shoulders but that's probably just a lie. why did she lie? ask the women, i don't know. -
if you like her, go for it man. if you wait too long one day you'll find her telling you this,"i've got a bf now"Originally posted by milk_milk:This i really dunno....my ex used to get a little jealous when she see us so close together...but now she gotten used to it... -
here is goes.Originally posted by milk_milk:of cos she's awake but closing her eyes to rest lah...lol... anyway she's the innocent and gentle type of girl... not the flirtous one... i admit i got no guts to ask her the question...scared of rejection man.... but i did ask her whether she's comfortable wif me... of cos she say yes.... anyway thank u all for replies...
You : "erm__________(her name), is it comfortable"
Her : "yesh..."
You : "_________(her name), i'm willing to lent you my shoulder forever."
Her : "Arh...?!"
You : "I have fallen in love with you, will you let me have a chance to take care of you forever? I promiss my shoulder will be the most comfortable place to lie on"
Her : "_________(your name), am I dreaming?" -
i couple. i break up. i get a new girl.Originally posted by monoslayer:summarise in 10 words. thks. -
roger!Originally posted by aku1b0d0:i couple. i break up. i get a new girl.
forget old gal, get new gal, live happily ever after. -
What's wrong with 10 words or less?Originally posted by LazerLordz:you and your summary crap. *bongs Mono on the head*
You're the type who thinks bigger is better is it? -
the story couldn't possibly be summarised into 10 words. i think milk milk was str8 to the point, shortest and sweetest possible.Originally posted by charlize:What's wrong with 10 words or less?
You're the type who thinks bigger is better is it? -
my ex company all the HR and purchasing/ buyer (ladies only) very chio...omg even the guy procurement colleague orso very handsome!
i day confirm with lape the ladies all and anal the guys
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*hide behind charlize n stick out tongue at LL*Originally posted by charlize:What's wrong with 10 words or less?
You're the type who thinks bigger is better is it?
>.<
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er xing.Originally posted by monoslayer:*hide behind charlize n stick out tongue at LL*
>.<
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How well do you know this Karen? All those you have said meant nothing UNTIL you confirmed it from her personally. But until then... enjoy your friendship with her.
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hmm may i know why you dont want to ask her straight ?
shy ? no right, you all know each other for years.
we're not her, we dont know what she's thinkin. you ask male or female we also cant give you accurate answer
next time she lie on your chest/whatever again, you push her away gently, look deeply into her eyes and asked "wait, letme ask you somethin, tell me, tell me honestly, do you love me ?" -
i seriously cannot understand this kor kor, mei mei business.
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i seriously believe that she treats u more then jus a bro, i think she has feelings for u. I mean it's way too close for close friends le.. haha good luck man, u are lucky dude.Originally posted by milk_milk:I have known this girl karen* for more then 3 years already through my ex-gf.(karen & my ex are gd frenz). All along, me & karen can click with each other quite well and are gd Bro/ Sis relationship.
Ever since i broke with my ex, i feel that me and karen are getting closer and closer though we seldom talk on the phone. We mainly will meet up to chit chat or have meals together if we got time. Unknowingly, i developed some feelings for her. However my ex still pins for me to return to her side. I feel this is the main obstrucle between us. Moreover karen claim we r juz bro & sis mah so being close is ok and not 'jian bu de guan'.
Until 2 days ago, me and karen went to a esplanade(close to the sea) and chit chat for a few hours. For the first time, she lean her back towards me while sitting down and rest her head on my shoulder. I really feel happy when she does that as my feelings for her grew. Then just yesterday she jio me to beach to walk walk as she long time never been there already. So after dinner, we stroll down the beach and enjoy the cool breeze.
After some time, we sat down onto a beach. She started resting her head on my shoulders, chest(listening to my fast heart beat), and even lap while she rested her eyes. I sang some songs to her softly, tell her stories, stroking her hair,eyes,lips, etc etc. In the siting position, i even sling my hands around her neck and rested on her stomach(touching her @@) as a result. Passbyers who passed by us will definitely think we r a loving couple. The time we spent there was very enjoyable.
The thing is i doesn't know she got feelings for me or not or just treating me as a good kor kor. Can good friends spent their time together as what i had have described? I not so sure... she told me she got lie her head briefly on one other guy(whom she got no feelings but gd frenz) and her ex. So i dunno what her actions meant... Can anyone(esp gals) enlighten me on this? Thanks a million. Cheers...
* names have been changed to protect the innocent -
Wow... dats a good one.Originally posted by Lorry`:hmm may i know why you dont want to ask her straight ?
shy ? no right, you all know each other for years.
we're not her, we dont know what she's thinkin. you ask male or female we also cant give you accurate answer
next time she lie on your chest/whatever again, you push her away gently, look deeply into her eyes and asked "wait, let me ask you something, tell me, tell me honestly, do you love me ?"
Wait... I can imagine two most possible results out of many:
1. She answered, "Yes, I have feelings for you." Then milkmilk reply by a deep hug then happy ending.
2. She answered, "I treat you like a brother." Then milkmilk reply, "Ok." and carry on let her lean against him.
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Haha...this is a very good idea and a sweet one too... Will try it next time... Thanks for the idea... Anyway knew her for 3 years plus...can say i know her personally inside out as i feel her character and thinking is quite similiar to mine...Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:here is goes.
You : "erm__________(her name), is it comfortable"
Her : "yesh..."
You : "_________(her name), i'm willing to lent you my shoulder forever."
Her : "Arh...?!"
You : "I have fallen in love with you, will you let me have a chance to take care of you forever? I promiss my shoulder will be the most comfortable place to lie on"
Her : "_________(your name), am I dreaming?" -
i think she has some feelings for u given wad u have said, " ur hands on her @@"
how long have u n ur ex broke off?