Girl's actions...
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From what you described, here's my intepretation.
She likes the feeling of being loved. At the moment, she is not that into you since she claims you and her are just "brother" and "sister".
And if you really wanna have a BGR with her, don't remain too long as "brother" and "sister", otherwise, it will be just that. -
Haha...maybe this is how she treats me bah though we onli know each other for 3 years plus. Anyway she's loves ppl's attention alot and needs her partner to 'hong' her everytime. But i be embarking my career with SIA as flight officer very soon. I think with the shift work and other commitments that come along with it, i afraid i may not give her the time and attention she needs if we go into a relationship. i got a feeling maybe she's doing this just for my attention and love temporary while still searching for her real 'bai ma wang zi'. I certainly don't wish to be made used of.Originally posted by Princess FLuFFy:It's really hard to say really, sometimes we girls are very comfortable with our very good male friends, the physical contact ain't a sexual nor sensual one anymore...
I can cling on to my male buddy in town and we are really really close. The @@ thing sometimes happens but the trust i have for him doesn't take it too heart.
Our friendship has remained plantonic for 7 yrs, and honestly, if he suddenly says he wants to be with me, i might just faint on the spot. -
Well, maybe not make use la... i'm sure she finds you a nice guy. Girls don't anyhow make guys our buddy... Actually, it can be a beautiful relationship too... Coz sometimes the buddy knows more than a boyfriend!!! Ha...
It really depends on you, whether you want to take the chance... Four possible outcomes:
1) You keep quiet and remain as friends and few years down the road, you wonder "if only if I had..."
2) You express yourself and she feels otherwise and avoids you, and you wonder "if only i didn't..."
3) You express yourself and she rejects, but still on very good terms and become close buddies... Nice ending...
4) You express yourself and she feels the same... Share a strong bond that withstands all odds... PERFECT ENDING!
Hope you don't find this a bit fei hua, coz if you knew what to do, you wouldn'r be here asking...
So well, bottom line, you hold the key!
Do update us about your decision!!!
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buddies huh
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Easy. You ask her want to have sex or not? If she slaps you, then most likely she is not interested in you. If she says okay, then you buy me lunch.
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Haha...hope i will buy u lunch then...LolOriginally posted by kecang_puteh:Easy. You ask her want to have sex or not? If she slaps you, then most likely she is not interested in you. If she says okay, then you buy me lunch.
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sekali there might be a chance you can ask her to be your f-buddy.
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+1 again...
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ahem... have sex not equals loverOriginally posted by milk_milk:Haha...hope i will buy u lunch then...Lol Anyway thanks alot for all your precious comments.
have sex can still be a buddy => SEX buddy.
anyway, good luck. But really, rather than keeping quiet, you should really make an attempt, coz if you don't try, there are too many 'what ifs'
but if you try, then you know the result.
regardless of the result you would have closure in this chapter of your life and you can move on (CLOSURE is VERY IMPT) -
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