Originally posted by edemonda:I think this all boils down to Asians being a very narrow minded bunch. When someone makes a statement which somewhat projects an individual in a negative light, his immediate reflex action would be to challenge those claims in order to maintain his own dignity. Better-learned pockets will provide the same old universal sure-fire rebuttal " You should not generalise. What you said is not entirely true."
What I feel is that the reason why countries like Singapore, China and Malaysia will never catch up with the current giants is that very negative mentality we have. Our immediate reflex towards conflict should be one of reflectual analysis rather than hostile rejection. Upon criticism we should immediately access the areas where it is justified, rather than splitting the ends and finding all ways to discredit the claims. In this case, I think that whoever wants to defend the IJ girls should first wonder why such things are said of IJ girls and not of the other girls schools. There are more than 20 girls schools in Singapore and if IJ girls have been singled out for this behavior by more than an individual then there must have been a very good reason.
I disagree with u. Single sex school is better cos the kids can concentrate on their studies.Originally posted by freakass:I agree with SPH... Sometimes I really wonder why parents want to send their daughters to single sex schools... What is wrong with having boys around? Especially primary school where all are just kids! Growing up without proper interaction with boys may have some side effects... The same goes for boys who have been in single sex schools.... when these people go to JC and they start to mix around with frens of the opposite sex, things start to go wild... and this is how the "IJ girls are easy with guys" mentality came about....
The point is: The more parents want to restraint their kids from mixing around with the opposite sex, the more things will go wrong when they grow up...
I was from a Average Boys School.. it depends.. yr kids doesnt means the whole of SG Students in Single Sex school.. We had seen RI, RGS and MGS girls with opposite sex around town too.. arent they dating or hanging out with opposite sex? You go to far east plaza then you will know.Originally posted by gerrykoh:I disagree with u. Single sex school is better cos the kids can concentrate on their studies.
My kids don't have gf/ bf till in JC. In fact my friends' kids studying in mixed sch. started dating in Sec. 1/2.
That is why the kids from single sex schools like RI, RGS, MGS all produce top students
Originally posted by ditzy:okok, we get the message, quit editing already.![]()
Pls post both your kid's and your friend's kids o level results here for comparison.Originally posted by gerrykoh:I disagree with u. Single sex school is better cos the kids can concentrate on their studies.
My kids don't have gf/ bf till in JC. In fact my friends' kids studying in mixed sch. started dating in Sec. 1/2.
That is why the kids from single sex schools like RI, RGS, MGS all produce top students
There's a difference in self discipline between a 13 yr old sec sch student & a 17 yr old JC student. At 13, you are still a child to be exact, how mature can one get after their pri school 5-stones & zero-points?Originally posted by Urroh:I was from a Average Boys School.. it depends.. yr kids doesnt means the whole of SG Students in Single Sex school.. We had seen RI, RGS and MGS girls with opposite sex around town too.. arent they dating or hanging out with opposite sex? You go to far east plaza then you will know.
Those schools accept top PSLE students of coz they will produce good students and better results than all due to their better school system. You cant just say single sex school are better.
Then those teenagers from Elite Single Sex Schools go into JCs, then their study will suffer right since all JCs are mixed colleges.![]()
There some elite schools that are mixed as well.. such as Dunman High and River Valley High. They score high in results. Whether in single or mixed schools, as long the will to get good grades are there and the school system is good.. there is no difference.Originally posted by VaNiLLa CReAm:There's a difference in self discipline between a 13 yr old sec sch student & a 17 yr old JC student. At 13, you are still a child to be exact, how mature can one get after their pri school 5-stones & zero-points?
My parents sent me to girls' school to protect me. You should know how curious sec school guys use girls to do biology experiment right? They are trying to minimise the chances.
In a girls' school, the disciplinary system, the rules and the influence is very different from a mixed school. And like any teenagers, we have fun, but we know the importance of getting good grades as well.
Parents are not dumb to send their children to single sex schools... Most girls' parents would want to protect their daughter to the max, but of coz, you need good grades to get in too... So for those who didn't send, perhaps it's not because they are smarter than my parents, but coz I am smarter than their daughter?![]()
You better not offend her, wait she scold you moron.Originally posted by Urroh:There some elite schools that are mixed as well.. such as Dunman High and River Valley High. They score high in results. Whether in single or mixed schools, as long the will to get good grades are there and the school system is good.. there is no difference.
Your remarks smacks of Eliteism.
Hey!!! Shhhhh....Originally posted by ditzy:You better not offend her, wait she scold you moron.![]()
The issue dies out ... but the problem doesn't ...Originally posted by larrenV2.003:Aiyoh quit sia i read until eyes pain pain...
This issure will die out in a months time so no point argueing...![]()
Why bother to read? They already went out of point.Originally posted by larrenV2.003:Aiyoh quit sia i read until eyes pain pain...
This issure will die out in a months time so no point argueing...![]()
What did i do to deserve this?? Her post warrant such a reply mah..Originally posted by ditzy:You better not offend her, wait she scold you moron.![]()
er, but you not in KC anymore liao leOriginally posted by BizarreRocksD12:well now u know me![]()
wah terrorist network also into school girl's conduct arOriginally posted by hisoka:hope the JI's lose and have to pay costs instead![]()
Hanor hanor, it just one of those tongue in cheek articles that get printed regularly in the sunday times, that you forget the next day after reading. It only sparked my interest again when I saw the rebuttal letter in the ST forum the other day.Originally posted by pwnz0r:The truth is, if IJ management board actually just ignored that statement, this would probably fade away very fast. But now that they are ardently pursuing this lawsuit, it now becomes a matter of public record.
Most people (readers) would just glance through it and that statement probably would not imprint itself into their memories. Now with this thing blown up, everytime someone sees an IJ girl, immediately that statement will come to mind.
The IJ management board kinda kicked themselves in the arse.