Punishments you were given as a kid

• udontknowme

  27 Sep 06, 10:26

  Originally posted by Ponders:

  Now if i think back, i also dunnno why when they cane me i just stand there to be caned. haha
  
  Now, knowing how "mentally weak" they are, i should have like run to the window ledge when the cane me..
  
  would like to see that sudden change in their face from anger to fear and make them realise what they have done to make me take that alternative.
  
  

  erm....its better that you didnt
  sometimes it would actually make them more angry...
  and they might say the wrong things and in situations like that, the outcome might have been even worse
• udontknowme

  27 Sep 06, 10:29

  Originally posted by sohguanh:

  The threat to commit suicide is on the rise with nowaday kids and usually the kids win so now parents had lost an edge to punish their kids.
  
  For some ppl thinkin is if you wanna die die lor. Rather you die then later you get into drugs or any other vices that make your whole life miserable and society unsafe. Not to mention parents can save hellavu money to feed you cuz you are still dependent on parents for your living as a kid

  you know what....please shut up.
  
  id rather my kids get involved with drugs and i figure out and help them then to have them commit suicide
  id rather spend all the money that i have than to have my kids commit suicide.
  
• Ponders

  27 Sep 06, 10:35

  Originally posted by udontknowme:

  erm....its better that you didnt
  sometimes it would actually make them more angry...
  and they might say the wrong things and in situations like that, the outcome might have been even worse

  Ya...
  
  scenario 1)
  They challenge my bluff, saying "jump lah, i bet you don't dare"
  
  scenario 2)
  They realised to what point they driven me and would use psychology.
  
  You know, it is how i grew up... that in NS, i think i was one of the most caring commanders around. I don't tekan my men, i punish them to make them realise how their actions have created a chain-linked effect. This way, they accept the punishment better and try their best to prevent it in future.
• elitefella

  27 Sep 06, 20:53

  I remember the time when i was rude to my mom, she took a fork and poked my cheeks till it sorta bled... Tried to bang my head against the wall... Wanted to take a knife and stab me.
• Pitot

  27 Sep 06, 21:04

  Not much caning.
  But i got lotsa slaps from my dad. damn pain ah his palms.
  He stopped when i reached sec sch.
  
  Mum terror. Step on me.. slap me.
  
  But when my size became bigger than her. The hitting mysteriously stopped.. hmm wonder why...
• NT2

  27 Sep 06, 21:13

  Originally posted by elitefella:

  I remember the time when i was rude to my mom, she took a fork and poked my cheeks till it sorta bled... Tried to bang my head against the wall... Wanted to take a knife and stab me.

  she's satanist?
  
  
• NT2

  27 Sep 06, 21:16

  Originally posted by RaTtY8l:

  kenna caning on hands n leg, got hit on the back of my hand for bugging my dad to buy a storybook, the scar is still ard , got hit by chair...

  porn story book ah? if not y so fierce?