GF chatting with other guys?

• technoboy

  3 Oct 06, 00:14

  Guys, would you allow your GF to chat with other guys on the phone? Especially if the guy isn't very familiar with her. And what would you do if she does that?

• borgkilla

  3 Oct 06, 00:19

  if she is chatting with guys in front of you,'
  dump her and move on she is probably dating other guys at the same time
• Quinsy

  3 Oct 06, 00:23

  I chat online and on phone with other guys. And my BF gets darn angry and jealous.
  
  I suggest you get your girl to talk less with this guy. He might be out to snatch heraway/
• Komon

  3 Oct 06, 00:25

  I always talk to other ppl 'gf
• technoboy

  3 Oct 06, 00:27

  Originally posted by borgkilla:

  if she is chatting with guys in front of you,'
  dump her and move on she is probably dating other guys at the same time

  Haha true

• I-like-flings(m)

  3 Oct 06, 00:27

  Originally posted by Komon:

  I always talk to other ppl 'gf

  i always talk to other ppl's wife...
• sinicker

  3 Oct 06, 01:09

  chat with other guys can.
  
  go out with other guys can. but tell me beforehand. but i must know the guy.
  
  but if too close den she leave me and go with that guy, then she's in the wrong.
• SGpork

  3 Oct 06, 01:10

  hmm chatting is ok lei
  but then gotta see chat simi also
  
  
  
  
  
  
• monoslayer

  3 Oct 06, 01:14

  Originally posted by technoboy:

  No, she chats with him on the phone. And she tells me about it. But I'm still VERY angry about it. So hope people here can gimme some mean suggestions for revenge!

  okok.. cool down.. i will try to call her discreetly.. okie?
• aRcTiC_sTaR

  3 Oct 06, 01:15

  Call other girls lor. Revenge.
• monoslayer

  3 Oct 06, 01:16

  Originally posted by aRcTiC_sTaR:

  Call other girls lor. Revenge.

  2 wrongs =/= 1 rite
  like tat will only worsen the situation.
• Quinsy

  3 Oct 06, 01:25

  Originally posted by technoboy:

  No, she chats with him on the phone. And she tells me about it. But I'm still VERY angry about it. So hope people here can gimme some mean suggestions for revenge!

  ACtually, don't revenge. Just tell her how you feel. Like me Bf tell me how he feel, I stopped giving numbers liao.
  
  He chat with girls online too. So he allow me to do that too.
• alvin-ncs

  3 Oct 06, 02:03

  i will let her...
  
  cause its her choice...
  
  i will trust her to do the things she want to do...
• Ito_^

  3 Oct 06, 02:31

  i dun usually say this but u gotta trust in her.
  
  but when she say things like.. "hello dear, you eat breakfast already..?" den u better get worried.
• CrimsonDeath

  3 Oct 06, 04:41

  Firstly..react how normally a guy would...all jealous and pissed...
  Then after awhile..give her the feeling of.."i don't give a shit anymore" feel..
  she will tend to get more or less a little worried..
  if that doesn't work...
  simply just call another girl infront of her and chat your happy head away..
  or...
  just screw it..and tell her you're going off..
• BrUtUs

  3 Oct 06, 05:20

  Originally posted by technoboy:

  Guys, would you allow your GF to chat with other guys on the phone? Especially if the guy isn't very familiar with her. And what would you do if she does that?
  
  There's one guy who always calls my GF to talk. It gets so fustrating for me at times. Any people can give me any suggestions for revenge?

  keyword here is 'trust'... do u trust her in the first place? y not jz ask who this guy is and his purpose of those calls? but most likely he is interested in ur gf... if u scared jz tell ur gf tat u r concerned abt this... revenge? u n her how old?
• FBI

  3 Oct 06, 05:28

  Originally posted by technoboy:

  Guys, would you allow your GF to chat with other guys on the phone? Especially if the guy isn't very familiar with her. And what would you do if she does that?
  
  There's one guy who always calls my GF to talk. It gets so fustrating for me at times. Any people can give me any suggestions for revenge?

  no way, she will get a hell scolding frm me if she did
• manjieass

  3 Oct 06, 08:59

  then talk to other gals lor.. let her noe also.. if break then find new one lor.. so easy..
  
• pwnz0r

  3 Oct 06, 09:12

  Nothing wrong mah. Don't be a hardassed jealous idiot. Just because she's with you doesn't mean that she cannot have other guy friends.
  
  Even if you don't trust the guy, you should at the bare minimum trust your GF. If your relationship cannot even have this simple level of trust, how do you expect to progress further with her.
  
  I suggest that you do some soul searching.
  
  Do remember that even if your GF really wants to fool around, there's nothing you can do. Either grin and bear it, or move on.
• technoboy

  3 Oct 06, 10:03

  

• BadzMaro

  3 Oct 06, 10:39

  man.. come on , its o.k to chat with other guys.
  
  its liek i dun get it why some guys gets so worked up when ppl look at thier gf or bio thier gf.
  
  Normally if they look at my gf.. i even give them a smirk n grab her @ss. Cause i know they can only see see , watch watch... but i'll be tapping her sweet sweet @ss tonite. isnt that a consolation to u guys ? sigh...
• ShutterBug

  3 Oct 06, 10:43

  Originally posted by technoboy:

  Guys, would you allow your GF to chat with other guys on the phone? Especially if the guy isn't very familiar with her. And what would you do if she does that?
  
  There's one guy who always calls my GF to talk. It gets so fustrating for me at times. Any people can give me any suggestions for revenge?

  Well lemme share:
  
  One time, a guy my wife knows, his GF ran off with someone else... and it turned out his GF ran off with another GAL! He was so down and out, he called my wife every night to talk things over. I didn't minded at all.
  
  She even went out to meet him for long talks.
  
  I mean, it all boils down to TRUST in any relationship. If you know the ship you built is captained by people of worthy experience and skills, your ship will not go down like the Titanic.
  
  
• BadzMaro

  3 Oct 06, 10:51

  Originally posted by ShutterBug:

  Well lemme share:
  
  One time, a guy my wife knows, his GF ran off with someone else... and it turned out his GF ran off with another GAL! He was so down and out, he called my wife every night to talk things over. I didn't minded at all.
  
  She even went out to meet him for long talks.
  
  I mean, it all boils down to TRUST in any relationship. If you know the ship you built is captained by people of worthy experience and skills, your ship will not go down like the Titanic.
  
  

  GF ran off with a gal ? DAMN..that gotta SUCK! big time man... moral will be at an all time low man...
• pie

  3 Oct 06, 10:56

  Trust is the word. Start worrying when she doesn't tell you.
  
  Really.
• tortoise55

  3 Oct 06, 11:16

  Trust is the keyword here, but sometimes you do have to keep a hand in it.
  
  I knew how you feel right now, cos I fully trust my gf, and to the extend that I allow her to go out 1 - 1 with other guy, cos its her gan didi, so i thought nothing will happen. I was wrong big time. In the end, she and he really did something wrong (nono, not sex) to me. Although she said she still love me and do not have any feelings to her gan didi, but she called for a time out as she said she want to find out if she had any feelings for me anymore. I still love her, thats why although I was hurt badly, I still am waiting for her ans on this friday. And I hope the ans will be the one I really wish to heard de, and that is she still have feeling for me.
  
  So my advise to you is, trust her enough that you will know she will not betray you, but at the same time, do remember to keep a hand on her. Remind her that she is attached and the up most impt thing to her is you. Good luck to you, do not fall into my foot steps