GF chatting with other guys?

• ShutterBug

  3 Oct 06, 11:20

  Yes some common sense and fair judgement must be used.
  
  Don't jump the gun on every man she talks to....
  
  Otherwise, you easily be categorized as Possessive.
• ShutterBug

  3 Oct 06, 11:21

  Originally posted by BadzMaro:

  GF ran off with a gal ? DAMN..that gotta SUCK! big time man... moral will be at an all time low man...

  Yeah sucks.. his GF suddenly got won over by a lesbian...
  
  ..phew... some situation there...
  
• technoboy

  3 Oct 06, 11:34

  Lol, the lesbian must have some kind of charm to win over a real guy...
• technoboy

  3 Oct 06, 11:35

  Originally posted by tortoise55:

  Trust is the keyword here, but sometimes you do have to keep a hand in it.
  
  I knew how you feel right now, cos I fully trust my gf, and to the extend that I allow her to go out 1 - 1 with other guy, cos its her gan didi, so i thought nothing will happen. I was wrong big time. In the end, she and he really did something wrong (nono, not sex) to me. Although she said she still love me and do not have any feelings to her gan didi, but she called for a time out as she said she want to find out if she had any feelings for me anymore. I still love her, thats why although I was hurt badly, I still am waiting for her ans on this friday. And I hope the ans will be the one I really wish to heard de, and that is she still have feeling for me.
  
  So my advise to you is, trust her enough that you will know she will not betray you, but at the same time, do remember to keep a hand on her. Remind her that she is attached and the up most impt thing to her is you. Good luck to you, do not fall into my foot steps

  Hi, thanks for the advise and all the best to you come Friday!
• de_middle

  3 Oct 06, 11:38

  Originally posted by technoboy:

  Actually I weren't angry with my girlfriend, but more on that guy. He only knew her while they were working together for 1 week or so.
  
  Now that guy is in the army and he calls her once in a while to talk about his army life. WTF?? Isn't there much more people who is suitable to chat about such things?
  
  If I am that guy, I would definitely call girls whom I'm interested in and chat, right? Who would just call any female friends and isn't even so familiar with each other?

  thats what he's doing mah........so what's so wrong about that?
• Lord_Of_Hayan

  3 Oct 06, 11:38

  Originally posted by technoboy:

  Lol, the lesbian must have some kind of charm to win over a real guy...

  
• technoboy

  3 Oct 06, 14:04

  Originally posted by de_middle:

  thats what he's doing mah........so what's so wrong about that?

  So that is to say he is interested in my GF?
• tortoise55

  3 Oct 06, 17:27

  Originally posted by technoboy:

  Hi, thanks for the advise and all the best to you come Friday!

  Sure no problem, but you have to gauge for yourself how much trust you can give to her. But in return, you also have to let her trust you that you wun be like her.
  
  Ask her to stand in your shoes to let her know how you feel. You can ask her this, if now, you kept talking to a gal on phone, how will she feel? Let her understand this.
• ¡ÚTearsofTheMoon¡Ú

  3 Oct 06, 18:58

  Just want to ask if a girl A, had a cousin B ,could the cousin B marry his cousin A?
• wonderamazement

  3 Oct 06, 20:43

  Ask her why is she doing it...
• Bontakun

  3 Oct 06, 20:51

  Originally posted by ¡ÚTearsofTheMoon¡Ú:

  Just want to ask if a girl A, had a cousin B ,could the cousin B marry his cousin A?

  It depends:
  
  IF they are related by blood... as in A's mother/father is B's father/mother's sister/brother. NO.
  
  IF they are DISTANT relatives... as in A's mother/father is a cousin of B's father/mother's uncle/aunty's cousin's grandmother/father's son/daughter's cousin's niece/nephew's brother/sister's wife/husband-in-laws. Yes.
  
  Or I may be wrong?
• dakkon_blackblade

  3 Oct 06, 21:51

  Originally posted by ¡ÚTearsofTheMoon¡Ú:

  Just want to ask if a girl A, had a cousin B ,could the cousin B marry his cousin A?

  I think legally it's possible, but the closer the blood ties between the couple, the greater the likelihood of genetic diseases surfacing in the offspring.
• <Precious>

  3 Oct 06, 22:06

  Wad's wrong wif that? She needs friends too rite?
  Being too possessive is one sure way to stifle her and murder the r/s!!
• Lord_Of_Hayan

  3 Oct 06, 22:15

  Originally posted by :

  Wad's wrong wif that? She needs friends too rite?
  Being too possessive is one sure way to stifle her and murder the r/s!!

  Yea. You should allow her some personal space, else she feel she's too controlled.
• Hellraiza

  3 Oct 06, 22:45

  Technoboy unless you don't chat with other girls besides your girlfriend, don't expect your girlfriend to do the same.
  
  And if i really manage to snatch another guy's girlfriend from him, well it only means she didn't really like him enough. All's fair in love and war.