i hope ..Originally posted by missqi:she will push you a cheque and....![]()
plus one future sister in law that command that i meet my future mother in lawOriginally posted by mistyblue:take it easy...
there is no point worrying about it..
What will happen, will happen... jus take it in stride..
coz she is poorer than you.Originally posted by margarita:i hope ..
but i know she won't
wat she say is not important but wat she does i sian liao .. the SIL commanding tone very boiling .. feel better to remain single ..Originally posted by missqi:dont think so much la
maybe she just wants to get to know you better?
u r one of the amazing womenOriginally posted by mistyblue:I live with my MIL...
take it easy.. you done no wrong, so there is nothing to worry about. Worry is a great waste of time
tat's easy to settle ... i got many cheque book, can all give her . still keeping the old ones tat cannot use anymore ..Originally posted by dragg:coz she is poorer than you.
maybe she will ask you for a cheque.![]()
not that great, she also has to put up with my obessive need to be organized and cleanOriginally posted by margarita:u r one of the amazing women
doesn't give her rights to poke into our business ..Originally posted by mistyblue:not that great, she also has to put up with my obessive need to be organized and clean
I put up with her forever messy, unwash and to me, rather scary habits ...
we are all humans ...
a little give and take...
so don't be so scared of meeting your future MIL..
she is after all another person, and the one who bring up you future husband...
SILs, MILs .. all complicate issues ..Originally posted by margarita:wat she say is not important but wat she does i sian liao .. the SIL commanding tone very boiling .. feel better to remain single ..
scare lah .. later quarrel then no good. i temper no good also ..Originally posted by mistyblue:SILs, MILs .. all complicate issues ..
maybe its just a small thing. Maybe all the while these people talk like this..
so take it easy and don't think to much into it...
cos no reason to meet n talk alone wif her ..Originally posted by SingaporeMacross:youll have to go sooner or later, why delay?
its never this simple.Originally posted by margarita:doesn't give her rights to poke into our business ..
i'm marrying him not his mother n sisters ..
must marriage be so troublesome?
can't stand the tot of she "measure" me ...Originally posted by mistyblue:its never this simple.
You are taking a space in her son's heart..
If I were the MIL, I would like to ensure the woman is a good one ...
however, how each MIL goes about finding out is different.
I met up with my MIL and known her for as long as I had been with my husband, so throughout, she had the time to measure me up.
hahaha...Originally posted by margarita:cos no reason to meet n talk alone wif her ..
i not marrying her
agree.. MIL are just someone's mother.Originally posted by SingaporeMacross:youll have to go sooner or later, why delay?
ya .. too complex. must think properly while still can pull outOriginally posted by SingaporeMacross:hahaha...
you marry the man, you marry the family also...![]()
insisted he go ..Originally posted by haaaaater:your man should insist to go as well
its HIS mother![]()