Future Mother in Law
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if you keep thinking negatively about the meeting and MIL,Originally posted by margarita:can't stand the tot of she "measure" me ...
sound like Indian arranged marriage. the mother see the gal first, approve then the son see her ..
you will find things difficult between the 2 of you.
Measure is not a good word. Its as mentioned, she would like to know you better.
Think positively, this is an opportunity to get to know this woman who brought up your future husband. I don't know if this applied to other guys, but I know my husband better after knowing my MIL. -
is the r/s so weak ??Originally posted by margarita:ya .. too complex. must think properly while still can pull out -
7777post.Originally posted by mistyblue:is the r/s so weak ??
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MIL scolded me once previously. She thinks Hubby not well and I drag him go out play .. Can guess wat she wan to sayOriginally posted by mistyblue:if you keep thinking negatively about the meeting and MIL,
you will find things difficult between the 2 of you.
Measure is not a good word. Its as mentioned, she would like to know you better.
Think positively, this is an opportunity to get to know this woman who brought up your future husband. I don't know if this applied to other guys, but I know my husband better after knowing my MIL. -
not breakup but jus KIV marriageOriginally posted by mistyblue:is the r/s so weak ?? -
Wow nice catch...Originally posted by seow:7777post. -
i wondering watOriginally posted by mistyblue:Wow nice catch...
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she is protective over her son. Not unusual.Originally posted by margarita:MIL scolded me once previously. She thinks Hubby not well and I drag him go out play .. Can guess wat she wan to say
I have to give way to my husband and his family regardless
That's the what mothers think, that's how most mothers function. I still feel as an outsider no matter how.
people do not always bear grudges. Look on the bright side, if she is really bad.. you can always avoid her next time. Anyways, worrying does not help.
Have some courage and face her lah... -
Maybe she want to tells your some dark secret of your hubby....
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not worrying jus dun like n dun wan to get deeper into this foreseenable mess .. see no reason to meet her alone. watever she wan to say why hubby cannot hear? Why she insist i meet her alone n this SIL commanding that i must go .. Hubby want date me out also mus see i got mood to go or not.Originally posted by mistyblue:she is protective over her son. Not unusual.
I have to give way to my husband and his family regardless
That's the what mothers think, that's how most mothers function. I still feel as an outsider no matter how.
people do not always bear grudges. Look on the bright side, if she is really bad.. you can always avoid her next time. Anyways, worrying does not help.
Have some courage and face her lah... -
then more hubby should be there to confirm ...Originally posted by banzie:Maybe she want to tells your some dark secret of your hubby....
so wat she expect me to do after she tell me all the dark secrets? to walk away? to conform hubby? to pretend nothing has happen? -
can't be helped. You are going to marry into his family.Originally posted by margarita:not worrying jus dun like n dun wan to get deeper into this foreseenable mess .. see no reason to meet her alone. watever she wan to say why hubby cannot hear? Why she insist i meet her alone n this SIL commanding that i must go .. Hubby want date me out also mus see i got mood to go or not.
any M&A lawyer will tell you, any merger is always a mess...
Take it in stride. DOn't let her affect you.
Be positive and things will be Ok..