[Poll] How many of you all could truly love a transsexual?
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Well, this is more of a spinoff from my other thread 'He doesn't love me anymore...'. What happened was that, my boyfriend left me because he couldn't accept me after I told him about my past. I know I posted the same topic a year ago, but it was half ment as a joke, but now I'm really serious about finding the percentage of people who can accept transsexuals as lifelong partners.
Note: This poll is referring to your acceptance of MTF (male-to-female) transsexuals only, and not the acceptance of FTM (female-to-male) transsexuals, as there is a difference in the rate of acceptance for both. Generally, FTMs are more accepted as compared to MTFs. So I'm more or less looking for the replies of straight/bisexual guys and lesbian/bisexual girls.
Males:
Yes: 2 (13.33%)
No: 8 (53.33%)
Females:
Yes: 1 (6.67%)
No: 0 (0.00%)
Undecided: 4 (26.67%) -
well ... this one reminds me of that series of episodes on Alley Mcbeal when Mark fell in love with a ... ermm ..... person with an appendage ..... (yes, I loved Alley Mcbeal ...
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would it be personally possible for me ? ....
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well ... to be perfectly honest here, I think if I were to fall deeply enough before i could extract myself .... yes .....
but I'd be very disappointed ... cos I'd really want to have little fatums in the future ....
anywhere before the stage where I could extract myself, no .... -
probably not me. no offence here but i think being a softy is much better than being a trans. same goes to ppl who change their looks with plastic surgery.
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i cannot. but i guess loving them is easier than loving u.
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i can't, sorry. Its just too much for me to accept a transsexual.
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jerkOriginally posted by NT2:i cannot. but i guess loving them is easier than loving u. 
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Originally posted by NT2:i cannot. but i guess loving them is easier than loving u.
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I am not good at speaking..so i try to make it understandable to everyone
Well..the answer would be a NO..but its hard to say...as the matters of the heart can make one love uncondtionally
so i would be Neutral
but being a trans isn't wrong..its your right to be who you want to be..dun worry
being a trans is not wrong...its being who you are for yourself
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but aint being who youself is also being..natural? no surgeries?Originally posted by StarPuppy:I am not good at speaking..so i try to make it understandable to everyone
Well..the answer would be a NO..but its hard to say...as the matters of the heart can make one love uncondtionally
so i would be Neutral
but being a trans isn't wrong..its your right to be who you want to be..dun worry
being a trans is not wrong...its being who you are for yourself -
but sometimes you are being forced to change even you want to be yourself..a HUGE part of the society does not look kindly upon transOriginally posted by aku1b0d0:but aint being who youself is also being..natural? no surgeries?
Lets face it..
when you were young..if you were a softie..a guy who not into rough sports but more inclined to the female side...you were most be liked picked on
and the girls?
well..girls need a guy who is more of a "man" to protect them..i dun think many will like a softie..
society is such where one is forced to make abrupt changes
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To have that coming from a Christian is totally unacceptable.Originally posted by NT2:i cannot. but i guess loving them is easier than loving u. -
but instead of changing their physical looks, why cant they change THEMSELVES? do they want to end up hanging out at changi and sell their body to get a few bucks?Originally posted by StarPuppy:but sometimes you are being forced to change even you want to be yourself..a HUGE part of the society does not look kindly upon trans
Lets face it..
when you were young..if you were a softie..a guy who not into rough sports but more inclined to the female side...you were most be liked picked on
and the girls?
well..girls need a guy who is more of a "man" to protect them..i dun think many will like a softie..
society is such where one is forced to make abrupt changes -
sigh... what can I say other than agree with you.Originally posted by kaister:To have that coming from a Christian is totally unacceptable. -
no , because i like to have my own babies.
i like a guy in dress b4 , and i told my friend i would turn gay for him and he is
the guy in "king n the clown'
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say what?Originally posted by givemeluck:no , because i like to have my own babies.
i like a guy in dress b4 , and i told my friend i would turn gay for him and he is
the guy in "king n the clown'
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sorry..i may sound blunt butOriginally posted by aku1b0d0:but instead of changing their physical looks, why cant they change THEMSELVES? do they want to end up hanging out at changi and sell their body to get a few bucks?
thats so damn stereotyping..doesn't mean trans will be those at changi
would you want to change yourself acting like a jerk just because the world prefer jerks?
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but what if it's wrong? i dont mean to stereotype here, but most trans would end up there since most ppl look down on them. and what would their parents say? "congrats"?Originally posted by StarPuppy:sorry..i may sound blunt but
thats so damn stereotyping..doesn't mean trans will be those at changi
would you want to change yourself acting like a jerk just because the world prefer jerks?
i am sure you would want to be who you are comfortable with....
seriously, being a trans is nothing better than softy. -
who are we to say what is wrong?Originally posted by aku1b0d0:but what if it's wrong? i dont mean to stereotype here, but most trans would end up there since most ppl look down on them. and what would their parents say? "congrats"?
seriously, being a trans is nothing better than softy.
the bodies are theirs.. if they wants to be trans..so be it..let them be happy for who they are
yes..the parents will be very upset..but i am sure..there are parents who want their child to be happy -
I cannot. If you want me to accept a girl born with a penis I might still be able to, but it will be impossible for me to accept someone who isn't a girl by nature.
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har?Originally posted by nonameguy:I cannot. If you want me to accept a girl born with a penis I might still be able to, but it will be impossible for me to accept someone who isn't a girl by nature. -
What's the difference?Originally posted by nonameguy:I cannot. If you want me to accept a girl born with a penis I might still be able to, but it will be impossible for me to accept someone who isn't a girl by nature. -
I also wonderOriginally posted by kaister:What's the difference? -
u noe the usual rule mahOriginally posted by Honeybunz:sigh... what can I say other than agree with you.
dont feed the troll
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What I believe he's saying, is that he's able to accept XXs (female) who are born with a umm...penis, but is unable to accept XYs (male) who are born male (duh!), but change their sex to female.Originally posted by kaister:What's the difference?
Well the thing is that, most of us change sex because basically, we don't feel like we're guys. We never did once identify ourselves as guys. Ever since young, we always knew that we're actually female in the mind and soul.Originally posted by nonameguy:I cannot. If you want me to accept a girl born with a penis I might still be able to, but it will be impossible for me to accept someone who isn't a girl by nature. -
no
