I will never forgive my mother because of this
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Kitty, u r vicious huh?Originally posted by viciouskitty74:hate mother.
Made my fourth police report against her yesterday.
You guys think you got issues. You havnt known mine yet.
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and unfortunately, the children are always the ones who would have suffer and pay for the sins of their irresponsible parents.Originally posted by Bontakun:You do know that in the current society, many have pre marital sex, unprotected sex and others. So what you have said is only valid for those who take precautions in all aspects too.
Unfortunately many people are curious about the human anatomy and having raging hormones, human urges and such... All they can say after they did it was, "Oops, I did it 'again'..."
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Yes I am lucky, but that does not mean you all should give up on your mums or dads. Give them a chance. Give yourself one too. Talk to them. Do not wait till one fine day when they are gone then you start to feel weird about it.Originally posted by Rock^Star:U r lucky. My mum first read my diary when i was 14. Well, i have had a lot of skirmishes with my parents. So i can identify a little of myself with Simon Dean.
Anyway, my conclusion is, i have never been a good son, so i dun expect them to be gd parents. Simon Dean is saying that his parents have never developed his talents, it shd be true but he's got to bear in mind that he has never developed his parents' talents too.
I too am not exactly from a happy family either, I came from a single parent enviornment and I can never taste the feeling of having a father at least until my mum remarried. Its not easy for me to be on very good terms with my current dad, but I am trying. -
Sighz, every family has thier troubles
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my mum always curse me when ever i'm having exams so i will hide from my mum everytime i'm having exams
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Well... unfortunate but nonetheless they have a chance to be here and experience many things. Good and bad.Originally posted by An0nym0us:and unfortunately, the children are always the ones who would have suffer and pay for the sins of their irresponsible parents. -
Originally posted by Ristar:
In that case, we just make sure we do NOT follow in their footsteps then, else our kids will post similar topics here cursing us for our irresponsibilities and raging hormones.
im not too sure about this raging hormones thing. they can control themselves, its just that they [b]CHOSE not to, instead they just use their "raging" hormones as an excuse.
pure unadulterated cowardice, irresponsibility, and f***ing horniness.[/b] -
Agree.Originally posted by Bontakun:In that case, we just make sure we do NOT follow in their footsteps then, else our kids will post similar topics here cursing us for our irresponsibilities and raging hormones.
And I advised my sister who now have kids.
Never ever become too free. Once the kids are older, get a job, go for more further studies. Never ever become too free to daydream/fantasise/imagine up stupid stories to make your children find out you lied and hate you with.
And never ever be so free, that you become a person who does 'bo liao' things that makes your children hates you.
Get a life, make sure your own life is full of interesting issues and activities and you wont want to borther with your childrens life. They have to make their own lives count for themself. Not YOU. -
your mother doesnt need a son like uOriginally posted by Simon Dean:nvm i am living separate from her.
God bless me
on the other hand can FI be my mother ? 
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Yes very.Originally posted by Rock^Star:Kitty, u r vicious huh?
And I got good genes to thank for it. -
those critics who are never in the shoes of someoneOriginally posted by SixSentinels:your mother doesnt need a son like u -
won sprinting competition in pri 3(sports day), track instructor wanted to train me.Told my mother, she said no and warned me not to practise sprinting.
aiya a few others la -
Shall I mention that I was and still am in that pair of shoes which you are standing in now.Originally posted by Simon Dean:those critics who are never in the shoes of someone
I've outgrown them.
And you are just whining? (Me critic also.) -
And THAT MEANS YOU!Originally posted by viciouskitty74:
Agree.
And I advised my sister who now have kids.
Never ever become too free. Once the kids are older, get a job, go for more further studies. Never ever become too free to daydream/fantasise/imagine up stupid stories to make your children find out you lied and hate you with.
And never ever be so free, that you become a person who does 'bo liao' things that makes your children hates you.Get a life, make sure your own life is full of interesting issues and activities and you wont want to borther with your childrens life. They have to make their own lives count for themself. Not YOU. -
You must be an ah lian..Originally posted by viciouskitty74:And THAT MEANS YOU!
my mum in a way ruin my life.... somehow I have lotsa hurts against her... alittle hatred... but I just try my best to relax over it... -
Wow.....you are sooo intelligient.Originally posted by banzie:You must be an ah lian..
my mum in a way ruin my life.... somehow I have lotsa hurts against her... alittle hatred... but I just try my best to relax over it...
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Sorry.....but but are u a lao ah lian.....cos ur nick says "74".
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i have a great mum
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neither have you in your mom's shoes.Originally posted by Simon Dean:those critics who are never in the shoes of someone
so stfu, go out and stand! -
Lao ah lain also an ah lian.Originally posted by Rock^Star:Sorry.....but but are u a lao ah lian.....cos ur nick says "74".
why? You age discrimination? -
Very very TRUE!Originally posted by Ito_^:neither have you in your mom's shoes.
so stfu, go out and stand!
Ito has very good insights.
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i have never forgive my parents for what they did to me.
they have been very harsh to me everytime.
no matter what i did, i am always wrong.
cane me no reason (using telephone wire) even i am 15!
no freedom in both home and outside.
wanna change phone? use your own captial.
exam, got improve but ended up scolding hurtful remarks from them.
wanna do something? always give negtive remarks.
and they did that to me just now. i went around the house yelling turnning table over, throw stuff that block my way, kick chair, bang my head and etc. then i ran into my room, slam my door, lock it. and sit on the floor.
am i suffering from server depression?
i just wanna let go my harted for them over 15years. and i suppose i cant take it anymore.
from what i stated above, is what they actually treating to me now.
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I understand some of your shoe in some ways... My esteem, life and future were somehow destroyed by her..... Sometime I really felt very annoyed and irritated when talking to her... somehow in my heart I am blaming her for what she had done which i TRIED SO HARD TO CHANGE BACK... even for now that I past my mid 20+ the effect is still there very much and in a way impossible... To say that I dont hate her at all... is a lie... sometime I do... I felt very hurt too... I just hope God would change things for me... and wish one day Ill leave this sh-it once and for all...
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my parents FORCE me to go for piano lessons... and it's not my interest. sorta hate them for that.
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what sort of extreme sports U do?Originally posted by FireIce:me mom was oso frowning when i wanna do extreme sports..........