He flouts it, and she becomes pregnant. now, she hates son f
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Such things only happen to people who least expects it. if such women (women who hate sex) meet impotent men, wouldnt that be perfect?Originally posted by mistyblue:kids nowadays should have no such issues. All so eager to try and get pregnant. Only frighten if their sessions are videoed by their BF and then passed around on the net... -
what does the woman expect?if she dont like sex, what should the man do , go out to look for sex with her sanctions?
she is equally guilty and selfish when she is not trying to fix the situation, understand that her husband as a man have his physical needs too.
they should get divorce. and she should marry a man that dont have sexual needs. but rape is not the answer too but i felt that he has reached his peak of frustration.
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damn i will think that this case V poor thing leh... i'd think that its the both of them at fault... the husband shld just listen to her.. and slowly slowly ma...
as for the wife... i think she shldnt do that to the kid... cos the kid is still young... the kid is innocent... because of these kinda parents... we have more young ah bengs and mats..
damn...
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Originally posted by mistyblue:kids nowadays should have no such issues. All so eager to try and get pregnant. Only frighten if their sessions are videoed by their BF and then passed around on the net...
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What I find odd is that throughout the interview the wife does not mention that she should address her aversion to sex. Instead she is of the opinion that it's ok not to have sex . And that life is better when the husband stops asking for it.
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hahaha spot-on!Originally posted by mistyblue:kids nowadays should have no such issues. All so eager to try and get pregnant. Only frighten if their sessions are videoed by their BF and then passed around on the net...
can imagine how the husband must be thinking.... kaneenah those gi-nah (teenagers punks) also enjoy sex & bj everyday, lim-peh marry alredy, provided so much & let get treated like some kinda of fugly tiko-pehs?!
on a serious note, i can sympathize with the husband's frustration. let's put it this way, it's not about the sex itself... anyone can easily have their sexual needs fulfilled... somemore now got so many part-time local FL, chio 18 yo satisfy all ur fantasies for a few hundred dollars...
what breaks him is his wife's reaction when he tries to be intimate.... like what he said, he felt like some fugly beast..i mean, if u can't even have sex with ur wife, then who else??!!
She said: 'When we were dating, he never indicated that sex was critical. The furthest we indulged in was kissing and petting.
'I have a conservative family background. My mother had always warned me not to engage in pre-marital sex.'
??!! to which man is sex NOT critical... yeah go marry a enuch or somethk
'The first two months after I gave birth were terrible,' said the petite woman, who works as a clerk. 'I could not even bear to bring myself to &^@&**feed the baby. I didn't want to have anything to do with him.'
actually u cld tell the woman herself has some serious emotional issues ... which mom wouldn't love her child? but see the way she describe her feelin towards the poor baby... i could understand if the pregnancy was a result of her being raped by a criminal... even then, there are still victims who actually love their baby very much despite what happened. here we are talking aout her baby with her own husband... ?? -
They dated for 2 years, and had been married for more than a year before all these took a bad turn. how much more 'slowly' should the man take? Will it make any difference?Originally posted by Cpt.ZR:damn i will think that this case V poor thing leh... i'd think that its the both of them at fault... the husband shld just listen to her.. and slowly slowly ma...
as for the wife... i think she shldnt do that to the kid... cos the kid is still young... the kid is innocent... because of these kinda parents... we have more young ah bengs and mats..
damn...
wad a tregedy
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They did go for professional help be4. But things did not get any better.
Yes, marriage is about respecting each other but she did not try to compromise his needs.
And you talk about him RAPING her! A joke man. He had stated that he did not go out to find other girls even tho he could. This clearly state that he respect the marriage. And during the 2 years courtship, they did not engage to sex because he respected her wish.
And using the word rape in a married couple is _______. (Dont know what word to put in) He did not slap or punch her, just forcing himself to her. And what he get is a court protection against him. Like what he said, he felt betrayed. -
In accordance with www.dictionary.com:Originally posted by Rustyhong:They did go for professional help be4. But things did not get any better.
Yes, marriage is about respecting each other but she did not try to compromise his needs.
And you talk about him RAPING her! A joke man. He had stated that he did not go out to find other girls even tho he could. This clearly state that he respect the marriage. And during the 2 years courtship, they did not engage to sex because he respected her wish.
And using the word rape in a married couple is _______. (Dont know what word to put in) He did not slap or punch her, just forcing himself to her. And what he get is a court protection against him. Like what he said, he felt betrayed.
rape1 /reɪp/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[reyp] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation noun, verb, raped, rap¡Eing.
¡Vnoun 1. the unlawful compelling of a woman through physical force or duress to have sexual intercourse.
2. any act of sexual intercourse that is forced upon a person.
The key word is force (ie without consent). Whether he punch or slap her or not, is not relevant.
ie. Even if the man did not slap or punch a woman, "just" forcing himself sexually on her, it is still rape. -
indeed.Originally posted by M©+square:First, i say - Poor wife...
further reading....Poor husband
the husband is wrong definitely. but the wife is selfish to an extent. -
wife not happy when husband has sex with her..
wife WONT be happy if husband has sex with hookers...
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Fix'dOriginally posted by viciouskitty74:these kinda of women.
might as well dont marry. -
These kind of woman ! may well not marry !!!Originally posted by viciouskitty74:these kinda of men.
might as well dont marry.
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so bad
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just because she dont enjoy sex , she expect her husband not to do so-Originally posted by JJxJJ:wife not happy when husband has sex with her..
wife WONT be happy if husband has sex with hookers...
sibeh troublesome wife..
for the rest of his married life with her.
thats so selfish isnt it?
i cant even not do it for more than 3 days...
poor man
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So you are saying it is ok for a man to rape a woman under the context of marriage? It is just like saying it is ok for men who whack their wives in marriage- after that they sayang sayang and the poor woman thinks it is her who is at fault and he is a good husband since he is not sleeping with other women and buys her anything she wants . Abuse - sexual or physical, is still abuse.Originally posted by Rustyhong:They did go for professional help be4. But things did not get any better.
Yes, marriage is about respecting each other but she did not try to compromise his needs.
And you talk about him RAPING her! A joke man. He had stated that he did not go out to find other girls even tho he could. This clearly state that he respect the marriage. And during the 2 years courtship, they did not engage to sex because he respected her wish.
And using the word rape in a married couple is _______. (Dont know what word to put in) He did not slap or punch her, just forcing himself to her. And what he get is a court protection against him. Like what he said, he felt betrayed.
Sexual abuse is one crime where most people blames the victim and not the perpertrator .
The way I see it - if it happens to a loved one like your sister ...you will be singing a different tune .
He had the choice to annull the marriage - he has the choice to divorce her . Instead he CHOSE to rape her. In fact I don't even blame her for hating her child (pity the kid but such is life) - it was by her husband's choice that he is to be blamed for this predicament and he is the one to be blamed . Why do you think even the catholic church now allow fruits of transgression ( conception by rape) to be aborted? -
Can anyone tell me which married couple dun have sex? If like that, the man should become monk already. I agreed that the wife has some serious mental problems and need to undergo therapy. I feel sad for the man.
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We are not saying it is normal not to have sex in a marriage. Rather, even in a marriage, sex must be with consent (includes rape roleplay). But if you think your wife cannot and refuse to satisfy you, it is still wrong to rape her. You can of cos annul the marriage or divorce her.Originally posted by NUS_Superst@r:Can anyone tell me which married couple dun have sex? If like that, the man should become monk already. I agreed that the wife has some serious mental problems and need to undergo therapy. I feel sad for the man.
Turn the table around. If it is a woman complaining husband cant and refuse to satisfy her in bed, you think it is right for her to satisfy her appetite outside? No right? What she can do, after exhausting all other means, is divorce. -
divorce lah...nabei... no sex wan him to go masturbate izzit?
siao char boh...siao mata...siao zheng hu
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Huh? I think make love is a form of love... everyone have its needs... If the husband go out find other women, doesn't it make things worse?
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wife is also human. Treat wife and all people with decency. Do not automatically assume that under marriage, the wife's rights are subjugated by the husband.
Love and Sex are 2 different things. She prove it by still loving her husband even after all the nasty things he did. She just didn't like the sex part which can be slowly fixed or accepted as it is. Husband can play a part and go counselling with her and husband can also learn more about her. There are other means to be intimate. Forcing another person is just not right. Its like telling someone their whole life is wrong and the woman must change just to fit the guy.
If that's the case, the women might as well stay single. Having a guy who rape you is very very bad. Have a child cause of the rape is even worse. -
tink this woman is abit psycho and needs help. the man is at fault as well for 'raping' her.
but doesn't everyone need it at least sometimes? -
perhaps she meant everyday of the weekOriginally posted by NT2:sex every week is ok mah.... -
i feel sorry for the guy as the wife is treating him tis way. if any guys cant have tis basic needs wif their wive, soon they will become impotent or find affair outside. same goes to the ladies as well.
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Will you guys marry a woman who denies u sex ?