He flouts it, and she becomes pregnant. now, she hates son f
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arh so you also broke the law i see. and you are telling me about how the laws shouldn't be changed when one sees something wrong with it?Originally posted by Space1999:yeah , i do the ass just to be safe...
and wearing two condoms?that is a joke 
the things you said just made us guys look bad.
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So much talk about complain and change.Originally posted by hisoka:your eyes are the ones with problem. you quoted my post twice in 2 different posts and then came up with a completely unrelated argument when i asked you about it.
the law can be changed which is why i am point it out. nature cannot be , or is hard to change and i never said anythign about wanting to change them. you idea is interesting, so you would advise just running and not even try to change things when you encounter things that are wrong with your country? don't you realise that changing things is also a valid way to go about it? perhaps the country would be better without pple who just run at the slightest problems and have no grumption, loyalty or inclination to work towards the betterment of the society
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easier said than done, trick is to find somebody who is willing to accept your flaws and vice versa. and to find somebody who is looking at the whole package rather than just the surface with a squinting eyes. and in return the more difficult part, making yourself learning to accept his /her flaws in return and vice versa too .thats why the yin and yang is a balance. life is a balance too.Originally posted by blu_sky:I agree with you.
make the relationship a very happy one, that would be the way to keep both parties in the relationship happily.
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x2Originally posted by Space1999:not to mention stretchmarks, sagging breast, hormonal imbalance, yucks, how could be fair, by the way did you thank your mother for giving birth to you ?
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im a man who is willing to bear the consequences of his action. are you ?Originally posted by hisoka:arh so you also broke the law i see. and you are telling me about how the laws shouldn't be changed when one sees something wrong with it?
what you have put forth doesn't make guys look bad. that i'm glad to say because we know that one person shooting his mouth off here doesn't make a good representation of mankind.
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Thank you!Originally posted by Space1999:easier said than done, trick is to find somebody who is willing to accept your flaws and vice versa. and to find somebody who is looking at the whole package rather than just the surface with a squinting eyes. and in return the more difficult part, making yourself learning to accept his /her flaws in return and vice versa too .thats why the yin and yang is a balance. life is a balance too.
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one more tip for youOriginally posted by blu_sky:Thank you!
forget the bullshit find somebody who loves you more than you love him , if you abide by that, you will find yourself not putting in any efforts to try to love the other party at all, and be lazy in love and expect him to do all the work.
remember balance.
now i am more happy to elaborate on the points. because you are kind enough to listen
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as i said the right to what should be done to the women's body should be with the women, but the caring for the child is another problem. when one has a child would you agree that you need to consider the resources you have to take care of the child? is a unilateral decision to leech off another person's resources a right thing to have happen? what if the resouces are scheduled for other purposes?Originally posted by blu_sky:Yes, i would agree with you that the decision is with the child, not the mother. But now, the woman is carrying the baby in her body, who should have the rights to say what is to be done with the woman's body? After all, please bear in mind, it is the woman's body we are talkin about. There are alot of risk with abortion, which include permanent ones like difficulty for future pregnancies, please be more caring to your girlfriends when it comes to this.
Yes, the "initial decision to fxxk" is a joint one. but during that "decision makin process" (if there is one), did both discuss "if pregnant --> abort"?
i understand about the stress on women's health which is why i say the other party hold partial responsibility but reduced because of the lack of consultation and free will.
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Honestly, i dun think love can be really measured by who love who more rite? i dunno, thats wat i think. i have to agree with what you said, balance is very important. Any huge disparity will throw a relationship off the balance.Originally posted by Space1999:one more tip for you
forget the bullshit find somebody who loves you more than you love him , if you abide by that, you will find yourself not putting in any efforts to try to love the other party at all, and be lazy in love and expect him to do all the work.
remember balance.
now i am more happy to elaborate on the points. because you are kind enough to listen
this is from my wife.
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im disgusted by this statement, no yes or no, you fuck you pay, if no money , dont take the thing out, what can be more important than another human life?Originally posted by hisoka:as i said the right to what should be done to the women's body should be with the women, but the caring for the child is another problem. when one has a child would you agree that you need to consider the resources you have to take care of the child? is a unilateral decision to leech off another person's resources a right thing to have happen? what if the resouces are scheduled for other purposes?
i understand about the stress on women's health which is why i say the other party hold partial responsibility but reduced because of the lack of consultation and free will.
i don't think they did discuss that if pregant --->abort, but neither did they aagree or discuss if pregnat ---> not abort.
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You call maintaining for your own kid, your own flesh and blood leech offOriginally posted by hisoka:as i said the right to what should be done to the women's body should be with the women, but the caring for the child is another problem. when one has a child would you agree that you need to consider the resources you have to take care of the child? is a unilateral decision to leech off another person's resources a right thing to have happen? what if the resouces are scheduled for other purposes?
i understand about the stress on women's health which is why i say the other party hold partial responsibility but reduced because of the lack of consultation and free will.
i don't think they did discuss that if pregant --->abort, but neither did they aagree or discuss if pregnat ---> not abort. 
What can i say -
I really find this appalling
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4.the mountain somehow changes its own environment to help the man stay there. less snow, more greenery(very rare)Originally posted by blu_sky:Honestly, i dun think love can be really measured by who love who more rite? i dunno, thats wat i think. i have to agree with what you said, balance is very important. Any huge disparity will throw a relationship off the balance.
I am always happy to learn
i.e a woman change part of herself for the man, it normal, we are equally dumb when we first met(my wife and me) but luckily we learnt fast, it was hell in the beginning. just sex (thats the good part) and quarrels (always over minor things) , but we have the same goals and aspirations in life, and as much as i change for her, she changed for me too.
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maybe he needs the money for playstation 3, and then wow , suddenly she became pregnant? what the hell!Originally posted by Space1999:im disgusted by this statement, no yes or no, you fuck you pay, if no money , dont take the thing out, what can be more important than another human life?
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when you are old, i hope for you that your kid do not think you are leeching on his money and poison you..just to rid of his responsibilities
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he is a selfish bastard, this is the type of guy you shouldnt date, he has no yin or yang, just ME ME MEOriginally posted by blu_sky:I really find this appalling
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Yes, I think adapting to each other's wants and needs are very important, and to adapt fast too, otherwise it can be quite frustrating.Originally posted by Space1999:4.the mountain somehow changes its own environment to help the man stay there. less snow, more greenery(very rare)
i.e a woman change part of herself for the man, it normal, we are equally dumb when we first met(my wife and me) but luckily we learnt fast, it was hell in the beginning. just sex (thats the good part) and quarrels (always over minor things) , but we have the same goals and aspirations in life, and as much as i change for her, she changed for me too. and now we enjoy quarreling with others together hehe -
*nodOriginally posted by Space1999:he is a selfish bastard, this is the type of guy you shouldnt date, he has no yin or yang, just ME ME ME -
from my perspective of manOriginally posted by blu_sky:Yes, I think adapting to each other's wants and needs are very important, and to adapt fast too, otherwise it can be quite frustrating.
1.opt to build a base camp at that mountain and try to make it inhabitable for himself until he cannot stand the harsh condition
yes, because man are not very patient creature, if they cant stand it, they will move on . we endure ..to a certain point , where even love is not enough to stand it anymore
case in point, in my early days with my wife, thank god i stay on( cause sex is good) there are times i was thinking "how can i endure this?day in day out?". it was frustrating because its always quarelling, i was enduring she scold and nag and i listen but soon i started to count days, but we sat down and sort out our differences, but no , rome was not build in a day,
but we both made CONSCIOUS EFFORTS to accomodate and accept each other flaws hence making my base camp very inhabitable, and to be honest i was planning to move out to the cantina where there is many nice mexican woman ...hehe -
Wah, a news in NEWPAPER becomes a personal matter.
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Think im quite lucky. the men i meet are usually more patient than meOriginally posted by Space1999:from my perspective of man
1.opt to build a base camp at that mountain and try to make it inhabitable for himself until he cannot stand the harsh condition
yes, because man are not very patient creature, if they cant stand it, they will move on . we endure ..to a certain point , where even love is not enough to stand it anymore
case in point, in my early days with my wife, thank god i stay on( cause sex is good) there are times i was thinking "how can i endure this?day in day out?". it was frustrating because its always quarelling, i was enduring she scold and nag and i listen but soon i started to count days, but we sat down and sort out our differences, but no , rome was not build in a day,
but we both made CONSCIOUS EFFORTS to accomodate and accept each other flaws hence making my base camp very inhabitable, and to be honest i was planning to move out to the cantina where there is many nice mexican woman ...hehe 
Maybe cos i am actually not so patient Usually i have the mindset that if i see what i dun like, i will say "next please". No need to 'ask him to change', so i wont even communicate with the person about what i dun like at times.
That said, i do try to accomodate to what they like. And of cos, thru my previous postings, you will know that i do have certain pet peeves that i am trying to manage. Still striving!!! -
aiyo, how can want to fxxk irresponsibly, yet still point the finger at women say women want them to be responsible one?Originally posted by M©+square:Wah, a news in NEWPAPER becomes a personal matter.
Chill leh
It is juz like, you refuse to pay for the bowl of noodles you ate, yet still scold the restaurant for holding you hostage.
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from wat i learnt last time, frigidity is actually a mental disorder, and also a sexual disorder...
the wife shud have discussed with the husband before they got married that she has this disorder...and if her husband accepted that during that time, the woman is not in wrong. It should be the husband's fault for going back on his words, he should have considered this carefully before marrying her...
Maybe should bring the wife for a therapy or something, so that slowly she can see sex as something that happens naturally between a couple, not something dirty and forbidden... -
thats why its fun in the forums isn't it?Originally posted by M©+square:Wah, a news in NEWPAPER becomes a personal matter.
Chill leh -
wow righteous statements.Originally posted by Space1999:im disgusted by this statement, no yes or no, you fuck you pay, if no money , dont take the thing out, what can be more important than another human life?
its your kid, simple ==you have the moral responsibility to raise him, even animals take care of their own !
morals? are you trying to say your morals are the right way to go? that you are the authority?
so whatever animals do is considered right? or jsut becuase animals do it we should? are then just common animals?
no yes or no? so you are now ambivalent about the responsibility? "you fuck you pay" means you are regarding it as a monetary transaction? now lets try to recall your comments regarding geylang. make up your mind man.