Are all dads the same as mine ? ):
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okay.. the method 3 is abit lame
Yeah,i know i had to bear it.
I am o.o
I just need to vent out my emotions sometimes right.
Im a human also,i have my feelings too
If i avoid him,or keep quiet,the things got worst.
& i didnt curse my dad =='
Although sometimes I wna talk back,but i didnt.
& i always forget these in less than a week.
But sometimes,i just need to vent it all out. -
If what you said is true, I think it's ridiculous that your dad is still caning you at your age. And where's your mum throughout all this?
If your dad can't control his anger, it's best for you to not be defiant. Just endure, keep quiet and walk away, and hope that soon, he will realise what he's done. -
i think your dad is silly.Originally posted by jassiee:yes,i did =='
i told him i didnt wna eat rice,'cause he said he wna boil the soup.
& then he didnt boil the soup,so i ate the rice after my parents had ate it.
then he started to scold me o.o
& i just stood up,& he went to the cane.
& cane me,I just got pissed,& i finished up my rice & washed the plate
then he screamed what don't wash the plates so noisy.
tht's it.
maybe it is your family culture,
eat must eat properly, wash must wash quietly.
when you started to earn, leave home. but take care of your parent at your own discretion.
any sibling? -
I've a sis. She left home years back.
But thts when she started her Poly.
Yeah.
But if i walk away,i will kena cane.
I just keep my mouth shut,so yeah.. -
not just that lah...some kids get their maids to do EVERYTHING for themOriginally posted by kopiosatu:i don't think, i know.
and i certainly didn't behave like the current bunch of pansies or youths like people call them.
the ill-discipline derives from the fact that their parents didn't punish them enough. i've seen kids demanding their maids pick up stuff they dropped on the floor, what is he going to grow up into?
alot of them have maids now, get driven to school, lead the comfortable life and when they are thrown out of it, they whine and complain about the tiniest things... there's a whole lot more to list.
i've seen my cousins go from spoilt brats, when they had maids. to more logical and sound human beings after all that "support" was taken away from them.
being rebellious is always part of a teenager's phase. you can tell when one is rebellious OR just plain lacking basic discipline/respect.
even simple things like getting a glass of water!
and if the maid doesnt, some kids complain to the parents.
and the BEST thing of all is that some parents scold the maid for not doing what the kid wanted the maid to do -
thank u ah cool~Originally posted by Cool-gal:/me pat pat on bbb's shoulder.
tomolo will be better, ok..