What do you guys and gals look for in a partner!
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Actually.. as long as i feel comfortable being alone with him or talking to him, nothing else really matters.
of course, must have chemistry.. -
she must at least be presentable as in u like her appearance and got tons of topics to talk abt, able to share her problems wif u and trust u.
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As long as we can laugh together in each other's presence and enjoy each other's company together.
BUT, if you are looking for a wife, it's a totally different thing. More needed.
doko -
communication...
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with u very difficultOriginally posted by GHoST_18:communication...
u oni like to talk in emots........... -
coz i shy...Originally posted by FireIce:with u very difficult
u oni like to talk in emots...........
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Originally posted by littlefishtan!:
i'm suitable
[b]For me i will look for guys who are
1. decent- Cannot be those kind will look at other girls or be attracted to gals in skimpy outfits
<---very hard to find
2. affectionate- Someone who hugs and holds my hand a lot. Someone i can snuggle with on the mrt seat or the back of the bus
3. Caring- someone who says romantic stuff a lot, takes u to the doctor when u are sick, spends a lot of time with you
4. Nice to other people, have good social skills- offer to give up seats for people in MRT, no need to be super popular but cannot have too much enemie
5. Gentleman but not completely pushover until CMI- help people when in need but not overdoing it and letting them trample all over him\
6. Someone of a harmonious disposition
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How about u all? Add to the list leh! To me, appearances don't really matter a lot. How about you?[/b]
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Ahhhh the exact Q as a speech training course i attended in secondary. The speech is as follow:
I am a simple. Not very rich or poor. What i have in abundance is my loyalty, my honesty and sincerity to friends and aquantiance. However i reserve something important for my love ones: my love, my heart. I have many love ones, my parents are but 1 of them, my lover is another. I am but 1 person and cannot be with my true love every now and then. I hope and wish for her to be understanding of my situation. In times of war i need to go protect the country so i cant be with her. When my parents are sick i need to be besidde them thus being unable to accompany her. Therefore I want her to be understanding of my situation. A girl who understand me is all i need. -
AgreeOriginally posted by browniebaobao:Actually.. as long as i feel comfortable being alone with him or talking to him, nothing else really matters.
of course, must have chemistry..
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Got Feel~ no need to talk... No Feel~ got lots of reasons not to...
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lets say there is this guy/girl you really like and get along with very well.
BUT...he/she doesn not fulfill criteria number *. HOW????????
does that mean you will give up him/her??? -
Big boobs, long legs, sexy body, chio face............
not.
as long as catch my fancy can liao...and she must feel the same for me too!
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Honestly, first impression is usually looks.... must look presentable lor. Next is personality, I like girls who are direct. Finally, I like girls who are fun to hang out with. It's like a game... when you feel the spark... then you'll know she may be the one... it is fun!
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ya i concur too... if you list so many things out it will only obstruct you and end up might not be very happy.Originally posted by FireIce:frankly speaking, i have no idea
and i find it tiring to have a set of requirements and go try find one to fit
jus evaluate whoever comes along
eh sai means eh sai
buey sai then too bad, keep in view or ask him go find someone else -
Originally posted by littlefishtan!:
Girl, a guy can be decent but he will still take a 2nd look at the pretty girl in the short skirt sashying down the street.
[b]For me i will look for guys who are
1. decent- Cannot be those kind will look at other girls or be attracted to gals in skimpy outfits
<---very hard to find
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It's programmed in their DNA and I think you really need to give your guy some form of trust. Looking is ok. It's not like he is going to bed the girl or cheat on you just by looking.
The only guy who don't look at other girls are gay or they are so slick that they don't get caught (which really should worry you more) Other one which is rare is that he worships you But I think any girl will want a guy who loves her and not worship her
Anyway, I don't really have any specific traits that I look for in a partner
Come to think of it my ex-bfs are all as different as day and night
However the guy I married is loving, caring, trusting family kind of guy who knows how to cook and clean after himself and yes he has a career as well. -
i totally agree.Originally posted by fudgester:There is no such thing as a 'perfect guy', just as there is no such thing as the 'perfect girl'. If you're out to look for a perfect guy you'll be missing out on all the less-than-perfect-but-decent guys who come your way.
I like to see it this way: I'm not a perfect guy, so I don't deserve to have a perfect girl. -
Choosy choosy.
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Originally posted by littlefishtan!:
PM me your no. Thank you.
[b]For me i will look for guys who are
1. decent- Cannot be those kind will look at other girls or be attracted to gals in skimpy outfits
<---very hard to find
2. affectionate- Someone who hugs and holds my hand a lot. Someone i can snuggle with on the mrt seat or the back of the bus
3. Caring- someone who says romantic stuff a lot, takes u to the doctor when u are sick, spends a lot of time with you
4. Nice to other people, have good social skills- offer to give up seats for people in MRT, no need to be super popular but cannot have too much enemie
5. Gentleman but not completely pushover until CMI- help people when in need but not overdoing it and letting them trample all over him\
6. Someone of a harmonious disposition
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.
.
How about u all? Add to the list leh! To me, appearances don't really matter a lot. How about you?[/b] -
actually quite true, this kind of thing must see CASE BY CASE basis. =)Originally posted by udontknowme:lets say there is this guy/girl you really like and get along with very well.
BUT...he/she doesn not fulfill criteria number *. HOW????????
does that mean you will give up him/her??? -
Quite often I think the same way too.Originally posted by FireIce:frankly speaking, i have no idea
and i find it tiring to have a set of requirements and go try find one to fit
jus evaluate whoever comes along
eh sai means eh sai
buey sai then too bad, keep in view or ask him go find someone else -
*nod**nod* agree agreeOriginally posted by fudgester:There is no such thing as a 'perfect guy', just as there is no such thing as the 'perfect girl'. If you're out to look for a perfect guy you'll be missing out on all the less-than-perfect-but-decent guys who come your way.
I like to see it this way: I'm not a perfect guy, so I don't deserve to have a perfect girl. -
i feel the exact same way as she do ! Excellent Post
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Must have sense of humour.
Or else I cannot stand it. Whole life spend with someone who cannot make me laugh. -
no lor, i just listing things i will look out for in a partner. I mean of cos all of us have our own preferences right. I dn follow to these erm "rules" strictly. Like which one of uss here would like a person who sleeps around? So since we dun want partners like that.. the criteria will be "faithful" right?
So i think all of us look criterias in a partner but its a subconscious thing... just that most of the people out there dun list everything out. -
