how to NOT defer from NS?
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don't bluff lah. it's u yourelf right? cos no one will go forum write such a long story just to ask for a friend.Originally posted by Wega007:Helping a friend to ask this...
next time just say the truth lah. what's there to hide? -
If you don't have a scholarship, then it's next to impossible to defer.Originally posted by Wega007:Helping a friend to ask this...
friend's parents found a job overseas and will be relocating for 4yrs.
Parents want him to follow them there and defer his NS for 4 yrs after finishing his poly this yr.
Their Family plan was when he is there, he will attend University there and get his degree in Business.
The main issue is family wanted him to enroll in the University that is a stone throw away from where they are. However around that city there are no well known Universities in Kunming China. Degree might not be recognize in Singapore but Dad don't care.
His Father will be submitting his deferment, but he don't wish to defer and there is not way to reason with daddy. Only way is stay is deferment application get rejected. What can he do to ensure deferment get rejected?
Generally, they will only allow you to defer up to JC/poly level. Otherwise, you can't. Even if you are on a scholarship, they may only grant you deferment after you finish your BMT. -
can unless you are MO ... 3 months BMT and after that go uni
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To be in self-exile for life just for a Yunnan degree, that's the peak of stupidity.
And that chap's father is utterly insane. Just serve NS first. Don't tell me the family can't do without the son for 2 years?
He can always live with relatives if they're not comfy with him living alone what. -
ask ur fren stay in sg, dun follow parents la....hes not a small kid or baby anyway
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He wanted to finished his NS, family wanted to treat him like baby what to do.Originally posted by Stooky:ask ur fren stay in sg, dun follow parents la....hes not a small kid or baby anyway
Father is unreasonable.
Mum felt China Uni is as good as local Uni since China is becoming a super power. Don't believe in any ranking surveys to "explain" reputation of Uni.
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lai lai lai lets all start betting whether his friend can defer.
I tik surely cannot de -
don't worry, no matter what your friend's dad do will be rejected by the MOM, because the highest qualification allowed for a guy to study up to is max JC/Poly only, if want to study Uni, can WAIT til SERVE NATIONAL SERVICE and ORD first than others can talk.Originally posted by Wega007:Helping a friend to ask this...
friend's parents found a job overseas and will be relocating for 4yrs.
Parents want him to follow them there and defer his NS for 4 yrs after finishing his poly this yr.
Their Family plan was when he is there, he will attend University there and get his degree in Business.
The main issue is family wanted him to enroll in the University that is a stone throw away from where they are. However around that city there are no well known Universities in Kunming China. Degree might not be recognize in Singapore but Dad don't care.
His Father will be submitting his deferment, but he don't wish to defer and there is not way to reason with daddy. Only way is stay is deferment application get rejected. What can he do to ensure deferment get rejected?
Short and Sweet
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Both parents are out of touch with reality. Explain to them bluntly that going down that path will make him a criminal if they decide to force him to go even after the deferement is rejected, which is almost a certain thing.Originally posted by Wega007:He wanted to finished his NS, family wanted to treat him like baby what to do.
Father is unreasonable.
Mum felt China Uni is as good as local Uni since China is becoming a super power. Don't believe in any ranking surveys to "explain" reputation of Uni.
any good solution to offer?