x2Originally posted by dragg:selling dignity comes in many forms, not just the body.
if your customer yell and shout at you for no reason at all what can you do? LL right?
this is in one way selling your dignity to keep your job. it is just a matter of how much you are willing to forgo.
But people will sure speculate about how u got a house, car and cash through what means.. a uni undergraduate wont have so much cash unless parents are damn rich.. if poor lei? People will ask.Originally posted by dragg:it is just a way to say people only see things on the outside, not the inside.
nobody cares or bother how you make your money. what they see is how big your house is, what car you drive and how much cash you have.
isnt it so?
Not really. Some people like me, look down on those who do anything for money.Originally posted by dragg:it is just a way to say people only see things on the outside, not the inside.
nobody cares or bother how you make your money. what they see is how big your house is, what car you drive and how much cash you have.
isnt it so?
some people do, like me. I will not be with a drug trafficker, and i believe i am not alone.Originally posted by dragg:it is just a way to say people only see things on the outside, not the inside.
nobody cares or bother how you make your money. what they see is how big your house is, what car you drive and how much cash you have.
isnt it so?
You dun have to sell your dignity to keep your job, really. i dont. and i hav friends who dont too. in this situation, you really need some tact, respect and good reputation that have been built over the years.Originally posted by dragg:selling dignity comes in many forms, not just the body.
if your customer yell and shout at you for no reason at all what can you do? LL right?
this is in one way selling your dignity to keep your job. it is just a matter of how much you are willing to forgo.
it is just a matter of interpretation.Originally posted by blu_sky:You dun have to sell your dignity to keep your job, really. i dont. and i hav friends who dont too. in this situation, you really need some tact, respect and good reputation that have been built over the years.
Some of my friends who do not sell their dignity to keep their jobs, are actually doing much better than alot others in their industries.
which is why i say it depends on how much one is willing to forgo.Originally posted by LazerLordz:Not really. Some people like me, look down on those who do anything for money.
social escorts?Originally posted by pwnz0r:Hmm, too bad Singapore got no strip clubs. In Aus, a similar study was undertaken, but a lot more girls chose to be 'dancers'. They dun sell their body like that, so they perceive they dun lose anything.
Too bad SG girls must resort to prostituting for money. No middle line to toe.
I rem the article stating that in the uni, ads looking for dancers are abound.
CCA is not compulsory in uni.Originally posted by pbeyondp:Firstly, local uni girls are very very busy. Whoever is an undergraduate here can attest to this, even if their workload is manageable, they still have stuff like cca, hostel activities etc to attend to. EVEN if they dont have such stuff (which is unlikely becos they'r so pretty and guys will pester them to join), their free time will be so busy with guys asking them out, for those pretty ones.
isnt that,in a way,=prostitution???Originally posted by pbeyondp:Yes I agree with one of the reply that finding a sugar daddy is more likely than to engage in prostitution
There are indeed many! but frankly, they aren't the pretty ones.
But I believe many of the undergrads do have some part time job such as giving tutions or working in the F & B line, etc. Comparable to these jobs, private solicit may actually lead to a higher income and lesser time required.
Well,I was in NUS arts last time,I know quite a number of pretty gals...none of them were in any cca.Coz 1)most of them dont come to sch 2) even if they come,they wanna go shopping or go back for their beauty sleep straightaway after lessonsOriginally posted by pbeyondp:Also, yes CCA is not compulsory, but just go to any local university, NUS, SMU or NTU and ask the pretty girls if they join any CCA.
Why do they join? Becos they'r like socialites, they wan to mix with many pple and the cute guys. they are pretty, they wan to flaunt it. Jade Seah from SMU is one example. I'm referring more to those sport types which guys our age always fetish over.
They may not the prettiest, but they really want to sell, there will be the demand.Originally posted by pbeyondp:There are indeed many! but frankly, they aren't the pretty ones.
I wonder if these university gals joined the profession during their school holidays, they not afraid they will bumpred into somebody familiar likeOriginally posted by babymac13:They may not the prettiest, but they really want to sell, there will be the demand.
I guess most important will depend of their moral, dignity and own up-bringing.
Unfortunely, these people choose to take the shortest path of their life to trade themselves.
After 20 years, when they are the parents of their childen, wont they be hiddened by guilt and shame for rest of their life?
I like to add another point. Sekali the guys they need to meet those psychotics cause in other countries, some of these ladies were killedOriginally posted by LazerLordz:They don't have a strong set of values with them. And they think that money is the new God.
It's this endless pursuit of wealth at the expense of our values that will be our downfall.
This might also increaed the chances of people getting AIDS cause if u looked at the report on the AIDS situation in Spore, it is getting more jialat.Originally posted by binZ:ladies, gents..
im not promoting prositution here.. but to me, as long u dun cheat, lie, smuggle, steal & rob as a job, i consider it a decent job.
example: is working in a funneral parlour a decent job or towards one's moral values?
if u really think of it, no job is really above or beneath others.. every job or skill is needed for the society to run smoothly too..
at least this decrease our crime rates for rape or molest cases..![]()
most likely bump into another NTU don.Originally posted by will4:I wonder if these university gals joined the profession during their school holidays, they not afraid they will bumpred into somebody familiar like
their frens, classmates, lectureres, relatives or male frens?