Guys shouldnt be too nice to gals
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Guys,stop treating your love interest as she is the universe!
Dont everything agree to her,dont everything say "you decide",have some backbone please!
And yes,stop buying expensive stuff for her,think that will win her heart? No chance in hell!
You wanna carry on being nice and remain on the shelf for a long time...up to u...
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you kena dump ar?
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there's a difference between being very good and being a doormat..
a doormat isn't being "nice" -
ok, so something happened to you, tell us about it.
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Usually nice guys=doormats.Originally posted by the Bear:there's a difference between being very good and being a doormat..
a doormat isn't being "nice" -
no,nothing happened to me.Originally posted by ditzy:ok, so something happened to you, tell us about it.
Just a late morning rant. -
turn that into an advantage..
a girl who is worth pursuing and cherishing will be one who will know that you will willingly be one for her, yet refuses to take advantage of that..
now, a girl like that... beat the competition away with a baseball bat
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The trick is to be 60% good guy and 40% bad guy
The cons of a good guy=too predictable=too boring/don't do exciting things,no backbone/every thing says "YES MDM!",tries too hard to get gal's attention by buying expensive stuff(idiot!)usually physical unappealing(eg dress too decently)
The pros of a good guy=gentlemanly,polite,caring etc etc
The cons of a bad guy=dont have the pros of a good guy
The pros of a bad guy=treats gals like normal(gals should'nt be worshipped like goddesses please!), do exciting things/unpredictable,dress sense is definitely not too "tu3".
Have the pros of a bad guy and a good guy then ho seh liao!:
As for my 60/40 formula:show your good guy side most of the time but show your bad guy side not always but frequently enough. -
Dont bluff..!! Come on.. Tell us your story in AA.. Maybe you'll feel better..Originally posted by Marco_Simone:no,nothing happened to me.
Just a late morning rant. -
I was a nice guy aka doormat 5 years ago,got reminded of this today while reading something so decided to post this.Originally posted by d3sT1nY:Dont bluff..!! Come on.. Tell us your story in AA.. Maybe you'll feel better.. -
Realise, resolve, respect, reciprocate, role.Originally posted by Marco_Simone:Guys,stop treating your love interest as she is the universe!
Dont everything agree to her,dont everything say "you decide",have some backbone please!
And yes,stop buying expensive stuff for her,think that will win her heart? No chance in hell!
You wanna carry on being nice and remain on the shelf for a long time...up to u...
The power of love.
If you grasp the meaning of the four words in their functions in love, you will find results at the end.
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This works quite well when it comes to dating. If its having the intention of getting married and start a family, this more or less has to change. I think alot of young ones will use the method you mentioned to date someone and enjoy the bliss in it BUT they most likely did not consider the responsiblilties and consequences that come along with it. I may be wrong. There are some couples who started very similar to this way and ended up a happily married couple.Originally posted by Marco_Simone:The trick is to be 60% good guy and 40% bad guy
The cons of a good guy=too predictable=too boring/don't do exciting things,no backbone/every thing says "YES MDM!",tries too hard to get gal's attention by buying expensive stuff(idiot!)usually physical unappealing(eg dress too decently)
The pros of a good guy=gentlemanly,polite,caring etc etc
The cons of a bad guy=dont have the pros of a good guy
The pros of a bad guy=treats gals like normal(gals should'nt be worshipped like goddesses please!), do exciting things/unpredictable,dress sense is definitely not too "tu3".
Have the pros of a bad guy and a good guy then ho seh liao!:
As for my 60/40 formula:show your good guy side most of the time but show your bad guy side not always but frequently enough.
Why it has to change? Sometimes many guys cannot control the "bad guy" part and may play it too far that it irks someone else. Keeping it under check requires updates and constant reflection of what you did and how the other person react and more.
But then you are talking about getting a date/SO/love interest/whatever. So its more complicated than simply 60% good/ 40% bad person.
Thank you for your 2 cents. -
Originally posted by the Bear:turn that into an advantage..
a girl who is worth pursuing and cherishing will be one who will know that you will willingly be one for her, yet refuses to take advantage of that..
now, a girl like that... beat the competition away with a baseball bat
agree
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Yes,I had merely the notion of wooing someone/dating when I wrote that.Originally posted by Bontakun:This works quite well when it comes to dating. If its having the intention of getting married and start a family, this more or less has to change. I think alot of young ones will use the method you mentioned to date someone and enjoy the bliss in it BUT they most likely did not consider the responsiblilties and consequences that come along with it. I may be wrong. There are some couples who started very similar to this way and ended up a happily married couple.
Why it has to change? Sometimes many guys cannot control the "bad guy" part and may play it too far that it irks someone else. Keeping it under check requires updates and constant reflection of what you did and how the other person react and more.
But then you are talking about getting a date/SO/love interest/whatever. So its more complicated than simply 60% good/ 40% bad person.
Thank you for your 2 cents.
So how does the formula/equation whatever change when it comes to serious stuff like marriage? -
treat it as investment la...
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i'm not nice to all girls, yet they still stick on to me!
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Then every mth must get back some dividends.Originally posted by TYING:treat it as investment la... -
Ok, the expensive gifts aren't necessary. If she loves you, she will understand that gifts aren't as important as spending quality time with you.
Sometimes, you should let the woman takes charge but not too often though. Compromise and take turns. -
guys should just carry on remaining the suckers that they are.
they should carry on buying gifts and being a doormat that they are. -
depends on what kind you invest too. must play smart if not will make a loss instead of reaping in profits.Originally posted by NUS_Superst@r:Then every mth must get back some dividends. -
girls don't mind but they will view you as the weaker species.Originally posted by digicharat:guys should just carry on remaining the suckers that they are.
they should carry on buying gifts and being a doormat that they are. -
To me love is about compromising..
If you compromise too much, they will climb over your head -
Originally posted by ifish:To me love is about compromising..
If you compromise too much, they will climb over your head -
if that's the case, means that the guy is jus pretending to be someone he's not? to me, i think if the guy is sincere and honest, it's enough. just be himself!Originally posted by Marco_Simone:The trick is to be 60% good guy and 40% bad guy
The cons of a good guy=too predictable=too boring/don't do exciting things,no backbone/every thing says "YES MDM!",tries too hard to get gal's attention by buying expensive stuff(idiot!)usually physical unappealing(eg dress too decently)
The pros of a good guy=gentlemanly,polite,caring etc etc
The cons of a bad guy=dont have the pros of a good guy
The pros of a bad guy=treats gals like normal(gals should'nt be worshipped like goddesses please!), do exciting things/unpredictable,dress sense is definitely not too "tu3".
Have the pros of a bad guy and a good guy then ho seh liao!:
As for my 60/40 formula:show your good guy side most of the time but show your bad guy side not always but frequently enough.