Originally posted by nanren4ever:
I got into my 1st relationship when I was 13, so I think for 15, its quite ok lah. But then again, its not WHEN you get into a relationship, its WHAT you do during the relationship that matters. Be it 15 or 30, as long as you know how to treat the other person right, that's all that matters. Some people 20+ liao still look for ONS, or just flings, so there's never really a actual age when people should or shouldn't get into a relationship.
Going back to the TS, I know it is easier said than done, but asking her about what she thinks of u is the best thing to do. Because quite simply, we are not her. We can give u all the advice in the world, but we cannot answer her feelings for you, can we? Rather than letting us get your hopes raised to the sky, only to have the possibility of it being crushed later, getting an answer straight from her would be the ideal thing to do.
Good luck to you. I myself is also involved with a gal that is giving mixed signals. Ultra-friendly to me on MSN/SMS, but when we are in a group at class, she and I kinda don't really talk to each other, except when we are one-to-one. Would sms me to ask me why never go school, or ask about my father(recently kenna hospitalized). But whenever I reply or send her sms, she would take a long time to reply, especially in the morning and afternoon. Only when I sms her in the evening would the response time be faster. She is the ultra-friendly kind of gal, who can talk to everyone and anyone, and so I think that she treats me as just another friend. My friends encourage me to go for it, but I am afraid of reading the wrong signals. So I don't know what to do.
From my experience, mixed signals is never good.
You can still try. Ask her out. If she reejcts, you can delete her number.
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