can love exist if people can only hold hands..

• aku1b0d0

  11 Jan 07, 17:01

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  not selfless vs dirty or watever..
  
  when there's love, there will be lust.
  
  but when there's lust, will there be love?

  let me rephrase the last sentence.
  
  When there's only lust, will there be love?
• january

  11 Jan 07, 17:01

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  not selfless vs dirty or watever..
  
  when there's love, there will be lust.
  
  but when there's lust, will there be love?

  when there lust, it can lead to love or it may not.
  
  proof: the prostitution industry
• january

  11 Jan 07, 17:03

  Originally posted by aku1b0d0:

  let me rephrase the last sentence.
  
  When there's only lust, will there be love?

  love usually contains lust plus other things
  
  like care and concern,
• aku1b0d0

  11 Jan 07, 17:07

  Originally posted by january:

  love usually contains lust plus other things
  
  like care and concern,

  i'm talking about 100% lust, not love.
• (human)

  11 Jan 07, 17:10

  If love could only allow people to hold hands, it is too much of a constraint.
• Cystaire

  11 Jan 07, 17:13

  Originally posted by aku1b0d0:

  another vote for "without physical contacts, still can love mah" !!!

  Not really, I mean that there are people who can like to eat metal things or implant spikes under their skin to resemble wild animals.
  
  So since "love" is a fairly broad and diffuse term some couple somewhere can love without touching at all.
  
  This type of love is likely not what most people consider love though.
• Seth35

  11 Jan 07, 17:21

  ya i think lust is important , necessary condition for love to maintain

  I Personally Feel...Lust is What leads Relationships to a Full stop...If you Lust and Love... Soon enough your gonna get bored...So i believe Love than Lust..
• Cystaire

  11 Jan 07, 17:21

  Originally posted by aku1b0d0:

  i'm talking about 100% lust, not love.

  I don't believe 100% lust exists.
  
  When people boink each other regularly they usually have a warm "oxytocin" feeling for each other. I personally think that this sort of intimacy will lead to a level of mutual care and concern much higher than that of friends.
  
  But of course you can definitely find couples who have sex regularly and have no special feelings for each other, or even hate each other. I have no info on how prevalent that is.
• Wanda

  11 Jan 07, 17:23

  The answer depends on whether you're a man or a woman, coz both express love in different ways....generally.
• nww16

  11 Jan 07, 17:33

  Originally posted by january:

  i dun think so.. what about you guys?
  
  what does this tell us if love cannot exist if people can only hold hands?
  
  i talking about love between a guy and girl.

  to mi its will nv nv exist, because there muz be a balance between physcial and affection attraction like two way communication...