Just got into a fight, need help.
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Ok, this problem is more or less I start one.. but please help me k?
I am in Sec 3. Recently there was a DotA match between my ex class and another ex Sec 2 class. There are no prizes for the winner, it's just for the pleasure and fame. Our class won and they were not happy, they started spouting nonsense and said "my face very kiam pah (have a temptation to hit my face)" and I am very "kao peh (irritating in a more vulgar way). Ok I admit I did laugh at them when we won...
Obviously my classmates and I were not very happy. I went to his class to find him. He is now in a NA class. Got a lot of pai kia friends I presume. I said something along this line "Eh Jack(Coded for confidential purposes), why you scold me? Can come out explain anot?". Suddenly out of nowhere, his "pai kia" friend started spouting nonsense like "Eh boy who you think you are? You know who I am anot? You think you big gangster arh? KNNBCCB **^#$%@##$%@#$" Then I gave a firm reply which is like "I not talking to you, I talking to Jack." Then he goes "KNN $#%!#$$#@%!#@" and he spits on me.
I was ****ing unhappy and was about to spit back until a teacher pulls me away and wanted all of us to write a reflection and hand it up to her. After some crap talking with her, he forced all of us to apologize, the pai kia apologized in a very sacarstic way and went away. I knew this would not end like this..
After school, I was on my way to the basketball court to watch my friends play bball. Then another distant friend of mine came to me and said "Oi, they camping for you outside the General office.. Say what want to beat u up." I said "Dun care la.. I go bball court." then his reply was "Oh I told them you were going there too.." I heed his words no more and I went to the bball court. I was confronted by many friends and started giving me crap ways to solve this problem. A few others also confirmed the fact they were outside the GO waiting for me. After like around 20-30 mins, I decided to go home. My friends accompanied me. We went to the GO and no one was there. Heard rumours they went home already and will take me on later.
Now what?? He is a pretty famous Pai Kia in our school. He seen the DM more then I see my grandma. Some say he is a pretty good fighter, took down a sec 4 or 5 guy from other classes. Almost ear off someone's ear, need go to hospital for some stitches. Any solutions to this matter? -
lol dota...
rawr! -
you got any gangster friends anot? if not really jialat liao leh.. just like your nick..
if you happen to survive this ordeal, next time try not to mix with people like them.. some can be quite unreasonable de..
i seriously wish you good luck.. -
Wah really siao liao... =,= I no gangster friends... got friends but not so power one... Can I trick them like "Eh you got brothers around, I call mine la den we settle" den I go call police??
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Refer to your nickname on what to do.
Why only he target you? I thought you were with your classmates when you go find Jack?
Aiyo...the paikia no matter how pai also cannot win the biggest gang in Singapore...Waiting for you at General Office? If they do that again, just go in General Office lor, what can they do? Beat you up in front of all the academic staffs?
There's no way he can beat you up when there are people of higher authority around, unless he is that stupid enough.
Other than that just ask your parent to come fetch you home everyday until that guy find new people to play with. Or just ask your parent to come and find this guy (or principal) to settle his egoistic balls, see he will still dare shout or punch ur parent. Highly unlikely. =D -
one more thing.. since they already knew that you would be going to the basketball court, how come they never go confront you leh..
anyway when you talk to them, try to be as soft toned as possible. dont make it sound as though you are picking a fight..
hope they only want to scare you.. -
tell the DM...if he is not going settle the matter for you...then you will call the police..
the only people some gangsters are afraid of are the police... -
+1Originally posted by R3SsH|n:tell the DM...if he is not going settle the matter for you...then you will call the police..
the only people some gangsters are afraid of are the police...
Just go find police if you feel unsecure. -
He may big in the inside school world but outside?See who big.This fighting stuff is so childish playing because of DOTA game summore.Ignore this guy bring some parangs or what meet outside haha jk.This stuff secondary too common like last time staring stuff bo chap lar..Leave him what he is.If he threatens you,call for help teachers,parents,counseller.They can deal with him.If not talk one on one MAN to MAN.Settle this matter straight.But don't exchange punches lar.
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DOTA ruins lives. I play CS so many years also no such problems. n00bz man you all.
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Tell u a true story of what happen to my friend
well,I will summarise it
He offended a gangster's girlfriend that he knows on the internet but the girl know him in real life..then the boyfriend went to warn him to leave his girl alone and my friend went ahead and scolded him.After school one day,I was in the general office and the vice-principal was questioning my confident level about the up coming GCE o level exams.At that particular moment,my friend was surrounded by a group of gangsters outside the school gate without any friend.He was then forced to apologize to the girl and the matter was put to rest.Unfortunately,he said after a few days of this incident..he recieved virus through an email and he cleared it with Norton anti-virus.I have a feeling that he might get into trouble when he return to school this February to collect his results
apologize and let the matter rest..and the police cant always protect u for the rest of your life 24/7..the best is ..to solve this with words..and face to face..until both party is happy -
kids...
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You think they give you chance meh?Originally posted by DieLiaoLa:Wah really siao liao... =,= I no gangster friends... got friends but not so power one... Can I trick them like "Eh you got brothers around, I call mine la den we settle" den I go call police??
Talk to your DM lor. But tell your parents first. When your parents pressurise the school side, it's more effective. The worst case, mata.
Sorry har, I must first. Got into fight over DoTA. What's next? -
can the police protect you 24/7? if so, go ahead and call the police.. but i assure you that they wont let the matter rest.Originally posted by DieLiaoLa:Wah really siao liao... =,= I no gangster friends... got friends but not so power one... Can I trick them like "Eh you got brothers around, I call mine la den we settle" den I go call police??
no point getting into a fight with him coz even if you win, he will definitely take revenge.
when he confronts you, talk to him nicely. explain why were you looking for that guy in his class.. -
The guy that lost the DotA match siam away den I need to deal with this guy... zzz whats up with him men? I got de zui him meh?? Anyway I dun wish to tell my parents about this... dun wan them to get pressured.. they very pressured and stress already cos we moving house soon... haix...
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vicious cycle...
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tell that gangster your intention is not to pick a fight. you just want to know why is that guy picking on you..Originally posted by DieLiaoLa:The guy that lost the DotA match siam away den I need to deal with this guy... zzz whats up with him men? I got de zui him meh?? Anyway I dun wish to tell my parents about this... dun wan them to get pressured.. they very pressured and stress already cos we moving house soon... haix...
if he still is unreasonable, then follow what others say lor.. tell you DM or parents..
but my advice is still to talk to him nicely la.. if you tell you DM and get them into trouble.. when no one is there to protect you, see how you die.. -
i never understood how come they must go look for someone else to back them up...
why don't tell that gangster..you settle one on one with jack...since he is sec 2..and u are sec 3...you will probably win him... -
thats why always have a few gangster friends... in case u need backup then they will always be linked to each other in the end settled..
now u should just try apologize to him lor.. dun care la -
Tell that dumb paikia that since the conflict started in DOTA, then end it in DOTA lah.
Challenge him 1v1 in DOTA. -
Fight liao then say lah.
No fight no talk. -
Nah he is sec 3.. But I would most probably win him anyway.... =,= but this pai kia damn fierce leh.. I tell him I want settle alone with Jack he sure say "he my friend etc etc" I talk nicely to him later he kp me guniang or what den still wan hantam me how?
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X2Originally posted by mhcampboy:kids... -
then you tell that gangster...u give him 2 choice..either let you settle with jack one on one...or tell the gangster to settle with your friend...999...Originally posted by DieLiaoLa:Nah he is sec 3.. But I would most probably win him anyway.... =,= but this pai kia damn fierce leh.. I tell him I want settle alone with Jack he sure say "he my friend etc etc" I talk nicely to him later he kp me guniang or what den still wan hantam me how?
if he say you ah gua call police...then u say jack is ah gua oso... -
if he die die wan whack you.. then just let him whack for onceOriginally posted by DieLiaoLa:Nah he is sec 3.. But I would most probably win him anyway.... =,= but this pai kia damn fierce leh.. I tell him I want settle alone with Jack he sure say "he my friend etc etc" I talk nicely to him later he kp me guniang or what den still wan hantam me how?
after that sure over de..
but then your pride also no more..