Just got into a fight, need help.
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Leave him alone or smth, don't go find him
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jack ah guaOriginally posted by R3SsH|n:then you tell that gangster...u give him 2 choice..either let you settle with jack one on one...or tell the gangster to settle with your friend...999...
if he say you ah gua call police...then u say jack is ah gua oso... -
x2..pride important...very...Originally posted by mamamamama:if he die die wan whack you.. then just let him whack for once
after that sure over de..
but then your pride also no more.. -
Dun worry, just tell them. They might scold you lah, but it's nothing one. Tomolo they will forget about it liao. I think your parents rather scold you and push the school to take actions than risk of losing you, their children. Besides, When you have problems, shouldn't you talk to your parents first?Originally posted by DieLiaoLa:The guy that lost the DotA match siam away den I need to deal with this guy... zzz whats up with him men? I got de zui him meh?? Anyway I dun wish to tell my parents about this... dun wan them to get pressured.. they very pressured and stress already cos we moving house soon... haix...
First of all, it's out of responsiblity. They give birth to you and feed you for so long liao. Shouldn't you at least tell them what's going on?
Next, it's about your safety. When confronted with this type of situations, you dun have the experience on how to deal with it. So shouldn't you get some experience from your parents? -
Ask your father mother come down. serious. no joke. school gangster are always afraid of parents de.
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at least for some la..Originally posted by R3SsH|n:x2..pride important...very...
if i were TS, i'll rather get my lao peh to handle than to get whacked..
but strangely, i never kena this type of incident before..
maybe is because my face "ren jian ren ai"
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I dun go find them, they come find me... Yes, pride is pretty important... If I fight with him, I will most probably lose, but I will still do it if he assaults me. But after the fight over, den the DM find out I kena poor conduct my parents heart sure shatter one... I not like them NA can afford to play around.. (No hard feelings on the NA people, I've seen those who study and strive hard for success and I applaud you guys on your determination.) I tell DM the most he kena whack on the butt 3 times and suspend a few days.. after that I can go choose my coffin liao... =,= Tell mata like overcue leh, unless really he bring parang and friends come in to **** me upside down loh... Anymore suggestions?
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Go to the discipline master, tell him wat happen, since neither side has yet to fight, I am sure no punishment will be met out one. Get the DM as the mediator, the dude involved into a private room and settle the conflict there. If got more than one party, settle it one dude at a time.
Dun tell ur DM then make him punish them, will make things worst.
Dun settle it in public environment, us being Asians want to "save face", so instead of settling it, it can make things worst.
Dun settle it one-to-many, again the "save face" thing. 3 person enough, you, the mediator and the dude. Usually, with a mediator in a private setting, things can work out peacefully one. -
good suggestion..Originally posted by octega:Go to the discipline master, tell him wat happen, since neither side has yet to fight, I am sure no punishment will be met out one. Get the DM as the mediator, the dude involved into a private room and settle the conflict there. If got more than one party, settle it one dude at a time.
Dun tell ur DM then make him punish them, will make things worst.
Dun settle it in public environment, us being Asians want to "save face", so instead of settling it, it can make things worst.
Dun settle it one-to-many, again the "save face" thing. 3 person enough, you, the mediator and the dude. Usually, with a mediator in a private setting, things can work out peacefully one. -
First of all ,why did you even bother to confront him? You were asking for a fight. Just leave the namecallers alone next time.Originally posted by DieLiaoLa:Ok, this problem is more or less I start one.. but please help me k?
I am in Sec 3. Recently there was a DotA match between my ex class and another ex Sec 2 class. There are no prizes for the winner, it's just for the pleasure and fame. Our class won and they were not happy, they started spouting nonsense and said "my face very kiam pah (have a temptation to hit my face)" and I am very "kao peh (irritating in a more vulgar way). Ok I admit I did laugh at them when we won...
Obviously my classmates and I were not very happy. I went to his class to find him. He is now in a NA class. Got a lot of pai kia friends I presume. I said something along this line "Eh Jack(Coded for confidential purposes), why you scold me? Can come out explain anot?". Suddenly out of nowhere, his "pai kia" friend started spouting nonsense like "Eh boy who you think you are? You know who I am anot? You think you big gangster arh? KNNBCCB **^#$%@##$%@#$" Then I gave a firm reply which is like "I not talking to you, I talking to Jack." Then he goes "KNN $#%!#$$#@%!#@" and he spits on me.
I was ****ing unhappy and was about to spit back until a teacher pulls me away and wanted all of us to write a reflection and hand it up to her. After some crap talking with her, he forced all of us to apologize, the pai kia apologized in a very sacarstic way and went away. I knew this would not end like this..
After school, I was on my way to the basketball court to watch my friends play bball. Then another distant friend of mine came to me and said "Oi, they camping for you outside the General office.. Say what want to beat u up." I said "Dun care la.. I go bball court." then his reply was "Oh I told them you were going there too.." I heed his words no more and I went to the bball court. I was confronted by many friends and started giving me crap ways to solve this problem. A few others also confirmed the fact they were outside the GO waiting for me. After like around 20-30 mins, I decided to go home. My friends accompanied me. We went to the GO and no one was there. Heard rumours they went home already and will take me on later.
Now what?? He is a pretty famous Pai Kia in our school. He seen the DM more then I see my grandma. Some say he is a pretty good fighter, took down a sec 4 or 5 guy from other classes. Almost ear off someone's ear, need go to hospital for some stitches. Any solutions to this matter?
Just watch your back now in case someone decides to be stupid. Be careful when you enter boy's toilet also. I remember matters got settled in girls or guy toilets in secondary school.
Talk to your parents as well. And do not be afraid to ask for help from your teachers.
Not sure if Eu Tong Sen police station still houses the SS aka Secret Society branch but you are more than welcome to let the police know what is going on if that pai kia disturbs you.
The guys at SS branch are bigger pai kia - tattooes all over. All gangster chief like. I met them for my research project 9 years back ....wah lau ...they macham also talk the talk and walk the walk. Not sure if the eagle is still there. That guy is damn rough but he might talk down your good friends waiting outside the school for you. -
at time like this, all i can do is,
+1
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bring a pocketknife. and pay ahbengs to accompany u.
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Hmm thanks for the good suggestions... I think if I ask the DM as mediator, the pai kia oso not happy... they oso dunno whats mediator one.. the first thought that goes to their mine will be "KNNBCCB THAT CB KIA GO TELL DM? NB HE NO BALLS IZZIT? KNN AFTER SCHOOL LIMPEH GIO GINA DANG YI LAI" den i really screwed up le... I think the best thing now is to confront him, words to words, friends around, and settle the problem. Maybe I can get the friends around him to help me... But I oni noe one of them and we not very close
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wa lao, spit on your face. what an insulting act.
freaking hell. i make sure he eat one of my punch first. -
lol, this kind just tell that if i find another word of threat out of your mouth, i will sue you for kong he(Threats) at the police station. I always do that and problems always resolve by themselves.
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You are screwed either way. I suggest you lie low and hope the thing goes off. First of all if you get caught - you get punished by the school and by him later.Originally posted by DieLiaoLa:Hmm thanks for the good suggestions... I think if I ask the DM as mediator, the pai kia oso not happy... they oso dunno whats mediator one.. the first thought that goes to their mine will be "KNNBCCB THAT CB KIA GO TELL DM? NB HE NO BALLS IZZIT? KNN AFTER SCHOOL LIMPEH GIO GINA DANG YI LAI" den i really screwed up le... I think the best thing now is to confront him, words to words, friends around, and settle the problem. Maybe I can get the friends around him to help me... But I oni noe one of them and we not very close
If worse come to worse - ask him where he chap .
If he say one gang name - note it down and go make an appointment with SS branch at Eu Tong Sen. They will sure be happy to help u ...got someone to hantum bola.
Chap Eu Tong Sen is very big ok....don't play play. -
easy you all are still young.
You just apologize and pretend to give him cigarettes. But if you dont want, just heck care him la. Dont talk back too much. But if you still want to talk back, dont fight la... -
Malaysia rule ah? u dam stupid just like ur nick.Originally posted by aku1b0d0:bring a pocketknife. and pay ahbengs to accompany u. -
After I ask him where he chap if he say liao den what? He ask me where i chap i say what?? Den I walk away? Wun he wan to hantam me even more? But thanks for all your suggestions... good thing no one say something like "go lick his boots next time got tai chi can ask him help sumore" -
use my idea. NEVER fail before.Originally posted by DieLiaoLa: After I ask him where he chap if he say liao den what? He ask me where i chap i say what?? Den I walk away? Wun he wan to hantam me even more? But thanks for all your suggestions... good thing no one say something like "go lick his boots next time got tai chi can ask him help sumore" -
Yes, Malaysia rules. My nick sounds stupid, but you, your parents and your daughter that you have never seen since your ex-girlfriend moved to Africa when she discovered she was pregnant with your kid are all idiotic morons that can't spell 'stewardesses'.Originally posted by silvercap:Malaysia rule ah? u dam stupid just like ur nick. -
Aiya when he come to confront u again,just apologise to him lor.If he still not happy den let him whack u lar,after that this whole issue sure over already.Either that or if u got the balls,ask him for 1 on 1 if u still wanna save whatever pride that u have left.
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it's not his fault, so why should he apologize? only sissies and wussies do those things. call the police, threaten him and spit on his face. yes, call the cops first.Originally posted by SMLJ.sg:Aiya when he come to confront u again,just apologise to him lor.If he still not happy den let him whack u lar,after that this whole issue sure over already.Either that or if u got the balls,ask him for 1 on 1 if u still wanna save whatever pride that u have left. -
Rubbish Malaysian!Originally posted by aku1b0d0:Yes, Malaysia rules. My nick sounds stupid, but you, your parents and your daughter that you have never seen since your ex-girlfriend moved to Africa when she discovered she was pregnant with your kid are all idiotic morons that can't spell 'stewardesses'. -
That's all you got?Originally posted by silvercap:Rubbish Malaysian!
Really, I'm LOLing!!