Is it very common for couple now to stay together
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now without getting marry at all
Because it seems that i came to know a lot
of my couple friends , they move out from their
own parent house , and rented one house or a room
and then just simply stay together , well of course without
getting marry lor
So I ask them why?
REasons..........
Got freedom ..........
Everday see my gf / bf
No need marry lar , for wat just a paper
o......... very good mah , you see
no need to sent my gf back lar
save money and time
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i think its a good way to see if ur other half is what you imagined him/her to be.
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common.....
this should be the way of coz... I tink should move out once gotten 1st job, single or attached -
SOD - Sex On Demand.
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very common in hk.. coz most ppl dun buy house.. but rent them... so alot easier to move out..
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But dun the guy feel no freedom
such as the girl will know the guys;s move
by day or night , like go where now hor
the girl will surely know one
haha esp in the middle of the night
try to sneak out from the room
The girl will ask
Where you going ar , ????????
Go out to meet chio bo is it har knn
Nabei you come back and sleep with me -
Originally posted by noahnoah:But dun the guy feel no freedom
such as the girl will know the guys;s move
by day or night , like go where now hor
the girl will surely know one
haha esp in the middle of the night
try to sneak out from the room
The girl will ask
Where you going ar , ????????
Go out to meet chio bo is it har knn
Nabei you come back and sleep with me -
then l will sayOriginally posted by noahnoah:But dun the guy feel no freedom
such as the girl will know the guys;s move
by day or night , like go where now hor
the girl will surely know one
haha esp in the middle of the night
try to sneak out from the room
The girl will ask
Where you going ar , ????????
Go out to meet chio bo is it har knn
Nabei you come back and sleep with me
Cannot ah? Lin bei wan go out, buay sai iszit ....lai lai lai, wuji come hook wo la!!! -
it is very common for ppl to move out after they finish school and get a real job in the states. In fact they'll think you are a loser if you still stay with your parents after college.
personally, i think i'll want to move out if i can afford to at some point of time. But you don't want to just share an apartment with anyone! (trust me on this!). So in the end, it seem like a couple renting an apartment is the best deal somewhat? -
agree! You also get to learn ALOT about the other person...Wedding and Divorce need money leh...might as well get to know the person better before committing your whole life...Originally posted by Ito_^:i think its a good way to see if ur other half is what you imagined him/her to be. 
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but cohabiting will tend to make the guy take the girl for granted leh...
I mean, he is already living with her, and prolly having sex with her, is there now a need to get married? -
if he juz wan piak piak and think of nothing else..Originally posted by rainee:but cohabiting will tend to make the guy take the girl for granted leh...
I mean, he is already living with her, and prolly having sex with her, is there now a need to get married?
den muz have second tots le mah.
wait after marriage, show true colours, go everywhere else piak piak very cham. -
Rainee sounds experience...Originally posted by rainee:but cohabiting will tend to make the guy take the girl for granted leh...
I mean, he is already living with her, and prolly having sex with her, is there now a need to get married? 
Anyway...economically speaking...renting a flat in sg might as use the rental fees to buy a flat...more worth. -
Its common la.. i also live together with my wife before i got married..
Its good to cohabit as you can find whether you can live together before married.. call it a trial run.
I managed to survive without any probs and we got used to each others likes and dislikes.. so now we got house also no problem living together and no quarrels.. -
no need loh ......Originally posted by rainee:but cohabiting will tend to make the guy take the girl for granted leh...
I mean, he is already living with her, and prolly having sex with her, is there now a need to get married?
but still can get married if both want it after test water -
just based it on the experience of othersOriginally posted by Mid9Sun:Rainee sounds experience...
Anyway...economically speaking...renting a flat in sg might as use the rental fees to buy a flat...more worth. -
So from wat you sayOriginally posted by Urroh:Its common la.. i also live together with my wife before i got married..
Its good to cohabit as you can find whether you can live together before married.. call it a trial run.
I managed to survive without any probs and we got used to each others likes and dislikes.. so now we got house also no problem living together and no quarrels..
Maybe it is really good to cohabit before to see whether both are
really suitable for each other a not
Like that , Goverment should promote more couples to cohabit sia
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you will get bored before you marry her.Originally posted by noahnoah:now without getting marry at all
Because it seems that i came to know a lot
of my couple friends , they move out from their
own parent house , and rented one house or a room
and then just simply stay together , well of course without
getting marry lor
So I ask them why?
REasons..........
Got freedom ..........
Everday see my gf / bf
No need marry lar , for wat just a paper
o......... very good mah , you see
no need to sent my gf back lar
save money and time -
Haha then u go try cohabit with your dar then tell us from ya own experienceOriginally posted by rainee:just based it on the experience of others
Marriage is a form of manifestation of love, trust, commitment and faith
and is binding while cohabiting tends to lack such attributes. -
but will if cohabit tool long will bring a new
small "member" between them
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like that the girl is on losing end lehOriginally posted by InnoHippo:no need loh ......
but still can get married if both want it after test water -
its a sick world
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Wah... Staying together even though not married. They so fast give entry to opposite gender juz liddat.
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yea.. very common... to me, i don mind cos at least u noe how the person is before marriage then after marriage u regret living with him, then it will be too late..
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treat it like an investment ........Originally posted by rainee:like that the girl is on losing end leh
after all, the girl might just hook the guy for life