Making yourself more popular socially?
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It's pretty easy.Originally posted by Xephone_xenon:Are there anyways to it? Other then being a hypocrite?
When i was in my sec1~3 life. I always express my views to my friends.
They didt like it if my views are different from them. And most of the time my views are. And sometimes for the things they say are totally off and absurb. Things like "Eh that teacher damm bitch leh confiscate my handphone" And when i say "Who ask you use your phone in class" Which i think is perfectly right. They dislike it, and they think i am so "WRONG" for saying that. And they will say "Eh you so bad leh." And when i continue to add on they will be like "Ya la ya la you clever la"
I told them copying of homework is retarded. They did not like it.
I told them stop copying in test its not good for them. They did not like it.
I told them not to bitch at certain stuff cause it pointless. They did not like it.
Slowly they start to dislike me.
During sec4. For whatever they say. I will "ya correct." And i am more well liked. LOL
So whats wrong with the world?
If the same thing was spoken from another person. The result might be, people will respect him.
It tells quite alot about you.
There's nothing wrong with the world? You just have to figure out the right approach to the right crowd. -
Originally posted by Xephone_xenon:
There is a sure fire way to do it. Start giving away money!!!!! you can start with small notes, $1 coin is nice too. Give money to everyone you meet. Soon you will find yourself very popular.
[b]Are there anyways to it? Other then being a hypocrite?
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Why do pple get so frighten by the fact of getting ban? No big deal.Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Ya.. It's very scary because she holds the mighty ban button.
Back to the point. Sometimes you have to be like ur friends to be liked by them. If u are different from them they will outcast you.
So either u dun befriend them or you be one of them.
Simple social logic -
This, though is an expensive way, but I'm sure it's going to be very useful hahaha...Originally posted by crispylips:There is a sure fire way to do it. Start giving away money!!!!! you can start with small notes, $1 coin is nice too. Give money to everyone you meet. Soon you will find yourself very popular.
but no, we can't encourage such behavior, not in a forum..shhhh -
I know the right approach towards to right crowd.Originally posted by M©+square:It's pretty easy.
It tells quite alot about you.
There's nothing wrong with the world? You just have to figure out the right approach to the right crowd.
I just dont see the point of doing it, its not me. Its not going to benefit them as in they are not going to learn anything. And i got to be a fucking hypocrite forever in class then.
In fact its the attitude of 95% of the teens now a days. Its not wrong but just not benefitial to them in a way.
Yet they dont want to learn. So when i give constuctive comments they dislike me. I dont see the point talking and interacting with them if its only laughter and laughter with nth else.
No exchange in opinions, not clever conversation being involved. Whats the point?
It tells quite alot about me yes. -
Why do pple get so frighten by the fact of getting ban? No big deal.
No Loss to you and your Friends....
Back to the point. Sometimes you have to be like ur friends to be liked by them. If u are different from them they will outcast you.
So either u dun befriend them or you be one of them.
Simple social logic -
I see, you take your comments seriously. Considering that you're being straightforward with your words and bearing no pretense.Originally posted by Xephone_xenon:I know the right approach towards to right crowd.
I just dont see the point of doing it, its not me. Its not going to benefit them as in they are not going to learn anything. And i got to be a fucking hypocrite forever in class then.
In fact its the attitude of 95% of the teens now a days. Its not wrong but just not benefitial to them in a way.
Yet they dont want to learn. So when i give constuctive comments they dislike me. I dont see the point talking and interacting with them if its only laughter and laughter with nth else.
No exchange in opinions, not clever conversation being involved. Whats the point?
It tells quite alot about me yes.
Those people who package their comments towards the right crowd and get audience are hypocrites?
Unless you decide what is best for yourself and stick to your values. You should learn how to win people and YET NOT BE A HYPOCRITE.
Like i've mentioned before, you might say the right things. But you didn't get their respect in the first place. Which was why your words bounced back at you.
In short, They don't respect you and whatever you said.
If you really think the people you're mixing with isn't the right one for you. And you've realised by now.
You should move on?
But your topic question is, how to be socially popular?
Being socially popular is to become many people's friend and harness energy and respect.
How to go about it?
Your way of approach to people makes decision. -
No what i am trying to say here is that. It is hard not being one if you wanna gain social status within a group of teens. As teens nowdays would detect any form of insult in your sentence. Even if you tell them nicely or what.Originally posted by M©+square:I see, you take your comments seriously. Considering that you're being straightforward with your words and bearing no pretense.
Those people who package their comments towards the right crowd and get audience are hypocrites?
Unless you decide what is best for yourself and stick to your values. You should learn how to win people and YET NOT BE A HYPOCRITE.
Like i've mentioned before, you might say the right things. But you didn't get their respect in the first place. Which was why your words bounced back at you.
In short, They don't respect you and whatever you said.
If you really think the people you're mixing with isn't the right one for you. And you've realised by now.
You should move on?
But your topic question is, how to be socially popular?
Being socially popular is to become many people's friend and harness energy and respect.
How to go about it?
Your way of approach to people makes decision.
As for finding the right crowd. Its impossible unless i start to find adult friends. Or as i have said 95% of the teens nowdays are all the same. I have been finding for the right audience within my age for a long time. But it seems that i only have merely 2 of them. I do have adults friends but i when school is concern i wont be able to mix around with them daily. And in school, other then teachers, the rest of the people around you are teens.
So if i cant find the right crowd in school i shutup? Cause for everything i say truthfully will be regarded as wrong? That sounds logical but dumb in a way.
They dont respect me for whatever i said. I dont think i can do anything about this. Then to STFU. -
If you really want to know.Originally posted by Xephone_xenon:No what i am trying to say here is that. It is hard not being one if you wanna gain social status within a group of teens. As teens nowdays would detect any form of insult in your sentence. Even if you tell them nicely or what.
As for finding the right crowd. Its impossible unless i start to find adult friends. Or as i have said 95% of the teens nowdays are all the same. I have been finding for the right audience within my age for a long time. But it seems that i only have merely 2 of them. I do have adults friends but i when school is concern i wont be able to mix around with them daily. And in school, other then teachers, the rest of the people around you are teens.
So if i cant find the right crowd in school i shutup? Cause for everything i say truthfully will be regarded as wrong? That sounds logical but dumb in a way.
They dont respect me for whatever i said. I dont think i can do anything about this. Then to STFU.
Many times i've observed, a person with little words. When asked to speak.
His words are like weapons or medication to many.
When he speaks, people listens with delight.
Once again, it's how you say it.
No one would shun from right sayings. But people will shun from who speak with sharp tongue, or with a air of superiority(arrogance).
I don't know you situation, i apologise for any offensive post which you may find personal.
So i'll stop here. But 1 thing i need to caution you is. If there's a few people whom you find are wrong audience. It's normal.
If almost everyone in your school, you think are the wrong audience, then i suggest you do a check on yourself. -
I see that u are a serious person. Perhaps too serious. Talk with a lighter heart instead of being blunt and straight. The truth hurts and people usually find it hard to accept it.Originally posted by Xephone_xenon:No what i am trying to say here is that. It is hard not being one if you wanna gain social status within a group of teens. As teens nowdays would detect any form of insult in your sentence. Even if you tell them nicely or what.
As for finding the right crowd. Its impossible unless i start to find adult friends. Or as i have said 95% of the teens nowdays are all the same. I have been finding for the right audience within my age for a long time. But it seems that i only have merely 2 of them. I do have adults friends but i when school is concern i wont be able to mix around with them daily. And in school, other then teachers, the rest of the people around you are teens.
So if i cant find the right crowd in school i shutup? Cause for everything i say truthfully will be regarded as wrong? That sounds logical but dumb in a way.
They dont respect me for whatever i said. I dont think i can do anything about this. Then to STFU.
Like someone advise, it's how u put it. The effect can be totally different. However, this is sth most ppl including myself who dun really know how to put it. It's difficult skill.
This is really part of life and I myself find it tiresome that interaction with ppl is like that.
I find that bluntness can only be taken with someone who is very close to u because these are the ones who truly understand ur intention.
Life sux really in this sense -
I have never had friends/ classmates like your type (not that its bad). Most of the time, I have a heck care attitude. Friend lost HP => His / her problem. But i think its good to have your own opinion, but your friends may think you are "Atacking" them. Imagine u lost your HP out on the streets, and your friend says "you deserve it for being careless, its stupid of u to...." (something like wat my mom will say). Its very pissing lor
ts not necessary to be hypocrite, and no need to be a "YES man". But just keep quiet lor. Keep your mouth shut. And if you can ever manage 
, force yourself to say "ya...the teacher should not have confiscated the HP, give warning can liao mah". Hope u get the drift. Coz u are still studying its still ok (At most no friends), but if working, u can easily offend people, and it can affect your own work performance.Originally posted by Xephone_xenon:Are there anyways to it? Other then being a hypocrite?
When i was in my sec1~3 life. I always express my views to my friends.
They didt like it if my views are different from them. And most of the time my views are. And sometimes for the things they say are totally off and absurb. Things like "Eh that teacher damm bitch leh confiscate my handphone" And when i say "Who ask you use your phone in class" Which i think is perfectly right. They dislike it, and they think i am so "WRONG" for saying that. And they will say "Eh you so bad leh." And when i continue to add on they will be like "Ya la ya la you clever la"
I told them copying of homework is retarded. They did not like it.
I told them stop copying in test its not good for them. They did not like it.
I told them not to bitch at certain stuff cause it pointless. They did not like it.
Slowly they start to dislike me.
During sec4. For whatever they say. I will "ya correct." And i am more well liked. LOL
So whats wrong with the world? -
Think twice bef you speak...
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its like that one lah. you don't go around telling people he/she doing this/tht arent good... they will also think the same way as what u thought.. can't click is the word. it can't be possibly 10 guys agreed to what they did and u're there saying its not good. much more like the one who commented was a weirdo ?
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I believed this is the way of life, the way of the world and the way of the universe. You are a person of strong opinions, with crowds of different views. I hope you're a capable, hardworking and intelligent person, if so, you will undoubtfully succeed in life.
Otherwise, looking at your situation, you could be more forgiving to other's viewpoints, to each his own as they say. Everyone has a choice of voicing their opinions, so do you. You did what you thought was right, to tell them what is right in your opinion, but also in a way curbing/stopping their opinions of what they feel was right. You could not accept their comments, you started the "war", don't whine.
copying of homework is not retarded, it is an absolute shortcut to lazy people.Originally posted by Xephone_xenon:I told them copying of homework is retarded. They did not like it.
I told them stop copying in test its not good for them. They did not like it.
I told them not to bitch at certain stuff cause it pointless. They did not like it.
Slowly they start to dislike me.
copying in test is not not good, it trains other aspects (stealth skills) its simply a test and display of how skillful are you to not get caught, except its a high risk affair especially if done on Exam papers.
bitching at stuffs is so important! it releases us of toxic that forces many depressed souls to commit the unthinkable..
Of course, I'm not trying to be funny or offend you, just to let you understand the many many viewpoints people has, had and will have in our life to come.
Be more understanding my friend. -
YOu are no different from them if you screw around with your first choiceOriginally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Ya.. Me too. it's their life what, copy copy lor. That's why I heck care them.
Then last friday their result all those 27 , 30, 32. I LOL_@_THEIR_FACE -
yaloh, they just afraid ur ban button, nothing more.Originally posted by Xephone_xenon:Not really.
People sometimes just try to por you cause you mod nia.
As for famous. Yeah you are famous ONLINE.
But I wish can see u on TV one day, interview by "Zhao an ni hao!" -
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Then I muz be emitting flake shells and smoke screen...Originally posted by M©+square:If you really want to know.
Many times i've observed, a person with little words. When asked to speak.
His words are like weapons or medication to many.
When he speaks, people listens with delight.
Me, "Yak yak yak yak yak yak yak yak.............."
The rest, "OMG......................." -
Originally posted by Bontakun:Then I muz be emitting flake shells and smoke screen...
Me, "Yak yak yak yak yak yak yak yak.............."
The rest, "OMG......................."
Then you got to find out what's the actual respond from 'OMG....'
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you have screwed up friends. hahaha
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yes i agree. some ppl haf diff viewpts in diff things.Originally posted by wavesofthoughts:I believed this is the way of life, the way of the world and the way of the universe. You are a person of strong opinions, with crowds of different views. I hope you're a capable, hardworking and intelligent person, if so, you will undoubtfully succeed in life.
Otherwise, looking at your situation, you could be more forgiving to other's viewpoints, to each his own as they say. Everyone has a choice of voicing their opinions, so do you. You did what you thought was right, to tell them what is right in your opinion, but also in a way curbing/stopping their opinions of what they feel was right. You could not accept their comments, you started the "war", don't whine.
copying of homework is not retarded, it is an absolute shortcut to lazy people.
copying in test is not not good, it trains other aspects (stealth skills) its simply a test and display of how skillful are you to not get caught, except its a high risk affair especially if done on Exam papers.
bitching at stuffs is so important! it releases us of toxic that forces many depressed souls to commit the unthinkable..
Of course, I'm not trying to be funny or offend you, just to let you understand the many many viewpoints people has, had and will have in our life to come.
Be more understanding my friend.
If i tink copying is ok, why should u reali care if it doesn't harm you?
Take a chill pill my fren. -
I belong to the other 5%.Originally posted by Xephone_xenon:I know the right approach towards to right crowd.
I just dont see the point of doing it, its not me. Its not going to benefit them as in they are not going to learn anything. And i got to be a fucking hypocrite forever in class then.
In fact its the attitude of 95% of the teens now a days. Its not wrong but just not benefitial to them in a way.
Yet they dont want to learn. So when i give constuctive comments they dislike me. I dont see the point talking and interacting with them if its only laughter and laughter with nth else.
No exchange in opinions, not clever conversation being involved. Whats the point?
It tells quite alot about me yes.
One thing that i don like abt my friends is that they will use a lot of vulgarities in their sentence. So everytime they use tt, i will just stare at them and they will just diam diam.
You dont have to change yourself to please the others. Its the personality in you that makes you special. This unique thing in you will just draw others to you. So if you think you cannot become one of them or think they will nv become like you, either leave them or search for friends who share the same ideals as you. -
ya...just mix wif them but then you rarely give your opinions then best liao..Originally posted by The man who was death:keep quiet....dun say right or wrong.....simi mi kia dun go and cha shou....and eberyone will like the quiet one..... -
Originally posted by M©+square:
Then you got to find out what's the actual respond from 'OMG....' -
Advise is to keeps comments to yourself and joke around.
I used to have alot of comments about everything, but i had learn from my friends that they dont like it, they used a indirectly way to made me realized they hates my comments. so i changed, now with less comments and well liked. Stay positive