Bachelor Life Vs Married /Family Life
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Wat are the pros and cons
of being stay single and there after
get marry and with kids etc
Single Life..........freedom , no commitment ....less $$$ burden
MArried/w/o kids ..... Less freedp, ... more responsible....
More $$ burden....... Enjoy the life of happiness with kids ....
Share your views
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Ppl start telling me regrat getting married.
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not married = no more next generation of you = one branch of the big family line ends here
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I asked a lot of girls
always say told me like kids a lot
leh
then when ask guys say
prefer not to have kids
true a not ar
wonder do your gf or wife tell you ppl
i want to have kids
I Love kids...........
then you remain silent
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my preferred choice will b to get married but with no kidsOriginally posted by noahnoah:Wat are the pros and cons
of being stay single and there after
get marry and with kids etc
Single Life..........freedom , no commitment ....less $$$ burden
MArried/w/o kids ..... Less freedp, ... more responsible....
More $$ burden....... Enjoy the life of happiness with kids ....
Share your views 
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it's definitely no good (at least for me) for married life ....
i just dont see anything good bout it? -
u nid a companion at some stages of ur life..Originally posted by Lorry`:it's definitely no good (at least for me) for married life ....
i just dont see anything good bout it?
to share ur sorrows and worries and burden -
finding the right one is very important.
so its better late than sorry. -
i wish to get married soon but still financially not stable yet.
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I think when one reach 30 years old
you will start to tink about family life
Wehn you see ppl with kids
you will start to think how nice sia
if i have a family like this
But when you think about $$$
it might set you back
But a lot of ppl told me having a children
wil really help to make the married relationship
better and close -
hmm...i've always wanted a family of my own...being able to settle down with someone you love and who loves you is a blessing...
when i was single, i lead a carefree life...going anywhere i want, doing anything i want...the power of freedom...but, when i go out with friends who are married, sometimes for coffee or sometimes to overseas, i felt lonely...when special occasion comes around, i felt lonely...and when couples tell me the things they did together, i envied them...how i wished i had someone special around my arms...
and now, i'm happily(really!!) married and trying for kids...i don't deny that there are times where there's more than just friction, be it financially, difference in opinions, or just plain PMSing, but somehow, things just works out... -
When u r 30 and not marry. Ppl will keep asking u "when getting marry yeah?" Then u will start to think about marriage life.Originally posted by noahnoah:I think when one reach 30 years old
you will start to tink about family life
Wehn you see ppl with kids
you will start to think how nice sia
if i have a family like this
But when you think about $$$
it might set you back
But a lot of ppl told me having a children
wil really help to make the married relationship
better and close
When u r married w/o kid. Ppl will ask you "when are u planning to have children huh?" Then... u start to think of having children.
Actually, just follow the process and want those ppl to shut up.
When u have children liao... of course better relationship lah. Coz u want to give them the best and do not want your children to live in a family with lot of problem.
Children is like a glue that glue the family together. -
and before long your kids turns teen to twenties and its their turn to be asked the QUESTIONS againOriginally posted by csp3976:When u r 30 and not marry. Ppl will keep asking u "when getting marry yeah?" Then u will start to think about marriage life.
When u r married w/o kid. Ppl will ask you "when are u planning to have children huh?" Then... u start to think of having children.
Actually, just follow the process and want those ppl to shut up.
When u have children liao... of course better relationship lah. Coz u want to give them the best and do not want your children to live in a family with lot of problem.
Children is like a glue that glue the family together. -
NORMALLY
girls are more hurry into marriage one
because they scare later when they turn old
no ppl want them anymore haha -
My view is....Originally posted by noahnoah:NORMALLY
girls are more hurry into marriage one
because they scare later when they turn old
no ppl want them anymore haha
Value will start to drop when they reach 30... but for men 35 are just starting. Thats why women wanted to get married when they still have the value. -
Your view is fully supported.Originally posted by Cool-gal:finding the right one is very important.
so its better late than sorry. -
married life is more fulfilling.. if you are living a bachelor life for 10 years.. YOu will think of settling down.
I feel having kids bonds the marriage closer.. If both parents are working, there shouldnt be any prob supporting the households.. IF you budgeted yr money well, going for holidays every half year shouldnt be a prob.
Marriage means at least you have company. Friends will have their own commitments with work and family. -
until now im still thinking abt this question, haiz...dunnoe how to answer..im still speechless leh...even if call helpline also useless bah...cos . . . . . . . . .
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It is interesting to note that divorce rates are on the rise, with cheating, adultery among the reasons why early couples choose to annul their marriages instead of working on rekindling them.
More and more among the local Chinese population are either staying single or getting married at a later date; is that any wonder why Chinese nationals with a simple degree and stable job are getting citizenship faster than every before?
In any case, the pursuit of money, and lots of it, has sparked off a fervent race to secure the golden egg nest and early retirement; people no longer derive satisfaction from a job well done. Instead of on-job passion, it has become a rat race for a fatter wage package. -
get married or attached when u are ready for commitment. those who get married because of shotgun etc.. will not be happy in the later stage, as they are not ready for commitment.
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hmm.. Its whether the couple wants to stay commited to each other..
Commitment is a choice.. you can choose not to stray or to stray..
It IF you want to stay commited to marriage.. doesnt depends on age.
If you are not ready commit then dun marry or even find a bf/gf. -
it takes a lot of effort for both parties to keep the relationship/ marriage going.i am the pessimistic type i am not cofident myself to make the relationship last too. people change, with environment and time.. dare not to put too much heart into relationship, cos afraid to be hurt. very sad hor.
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if u cannot find the one u want to spend the rest of yr life with, it is better to stay single.
i can't find someone who love me for who i am, they always want me to be someone that i ain't
what the point? -
Both just need to try their best...if cannot work out...no regrets....Originally posted by jacqn:it takes a lot of effort for both parties to keep the relationship/ marriage going.i am the pessimistic type i am not cofident myself to make the relationship last too. people change, with environment and time.. dare not to put too much heart into relationship, cos afraid to be hurt. very sad hor.
Like now..i always wonder abt this particular girl cos I didnt try my best back then.... -
getting married id just like organising a show to let people see. you may hold a grand wedding many people may never forget, but in the future who knows what will happen to the couple?