Bachelor Life Vs Married /Family Life
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getting married is just signing on a piece of paperOriginally posted by jacqn:getting married id just like organising a show to let people see. you may hold a grand wedding many people may never forget, but in the future who knows what will happen to the couple?
to keep a marriage going takes a lifetime of commitment n care. -
who can promise lifetime??Originally posted by Kenashi:getting married is just signing on a piece of paper
to keep a marriage going takes a lifetime of commitment n care. -
a promise is easy to make just difficult to keep.Originally posted by jacqn:who can promise lifetime?? -
Commitment is a big word, it can be $,time and effort. And it mean different to diff ppl. Eg if you earn $3k a mth ~take home $2.4k. to some gal this is not enough even she is working.
For those who had made the effort and fail the first time will understand how difficult it can be. Both parties must work towards the same direction and understanding on many aspect. IQ/EQ play a big part to a happy marriage.
Not only commitment and $. freedom can also be the main factor ppl giveup their marriage.
Family life is still the best choice to many cos together u achieve more thing.
Whether to have children is one thing, family do motivate one to work hard. -
ppl dont always practice what they preach. sorry if sound offensive, just thought of it. true we know theres a lot of effort to be made, but how many ppl really make it a point to work towards it? it can be tiring.
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you're better off dead if you keep thinking like that...Originally posted by jacqn:ppl dont always practice what they preach. sorry if sound offensive, just thought of it. true we know theres a lot of effort to be made, but how many ppl really make it a point to work towards it? it can be tiring.
whether or not one has a grand or perfect wedding is not essential, i think no matter what happens in future, one can never forget that day...not me, at least...
it's true nobody can tell what lies ahead, but, if you never try, i guess you'll never know...i don't believe in holding back in a relationship, cos, i think if you really fall in love, you'll never know when to hold back...
if working towards what you want is tiring, do you expect life be served to you on a silver platter? open mouth got food, stretch your hands got money...
it's important to have a dream, set a target, even if you fall short, at least, there's something to live for... -
Indeed, married life is not easy...
dont know why, after married, couple seems got pressured to have kids...
married life already not easy... they thought having kids will be merrier...but that dont seems to be but add on burden, esp. when their kids did not live to their expectation ie bringing them joy. Am i right?