bgr at young age (13-16)
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are you ...
for, against or abstain?
I mean, yeahh, sure, it affects our studies and we dont know what love is yet and blahblahblahblahblah.
But how will we ever know what love is until we take the first step?
Btw, I am against, but my hormones are somewhat bleh.
Thank goodness I'm not in Singapore xD.
I'd be having a hard time controlling myself xD[/u] -
Take it as i nvr say....
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huh?
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r u from Estonia?
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eh, where is estonia? pardon my ignoranceOriginally posted by mr_sotong:r u from Estonia? 
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Juz dun regret when u grow Old...
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Originally posted by da-cheese-freakk:
well, i wun say against la. as long as, is chun chun de ai, no affect studies can lo.
[b]are you ...
for, against or abstain?
I mean, yeahh, sure, it affects our studies and we dont know what love is yet and blahblahblahblahblah.
But how will we ever know what love is until we take the first step?
Btw, I am against, but my hormones are somewhat bleh.
Thank goodness I'm not in Singapore xD.
I'd be having a hard time controlling myself xD[/u][/b]
but teenagers nowadays like so zao shou. hmmm. -
Originally posted by da-cheese-freakk:
The problem is, are you OLD and MATURED enough to differentiate between crush, love and lust?
[b]are you ...
for, against or abstain?
I mean, yeahh, sure, it affects our studies and we dont know what love is yet and blahblahblahblahblah.
But how will we ever know what love is until we take the first step?
Btw, I am against, but my hormones are somewhat bleh.
Thank goodness I'm not in Singapore xD.
I'd be having a hard time controlling myself xD[/u][/b]
That's something even many adults are bad at, and young kids thinks they can be better?
Besides, if someone as young as 13 is thinking of BGR, he or she is obviously on the wrong track. That's not what a child should be thinking about at that age. -
nvmind TS's last comments. TS is basically asking whether you are against BGR at age 13-16 or not.
I'm not against it because there's nothing I can do to stop it anyway. The BGR is more like monkey love. They probably just have a temporary crush on each other and just want to 'show off'. But there are some exceptions of course, my friend is still attached to this guy for 5 years already (since sec 1) and they get along just fine. -
yeah lah, but isnt that the current trend of teens or smt? I have friends who've been going out since EIGHT xD
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Then you have to consider if it's a good trend, or a bad one.Originally posted by da-cheese-freakk:yeah lah, but isnt that the current trend of teens or smt? I have friends who've been going out since EIGHT xD -
you sound like a reasonable and mature adult that I should listen to. actually, you sound like my friend. but he's not exactly a reasonable and mature adult. so whatever xD
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puppy love.
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agreed.Originally posted by Slipshade:The problem is, are you OLD and MATURED enough to differentiate between crush, love and lust?
That's something even many adults are bad at, and young kids thinks they can be better?
Besides, if someone as young as 13 is thinking of BGR, he or she is obviously on the wrong track. That's not what a child should be thinking about at that age.
wearing trendy doesn't mean mature, although many teenagers mistook that. -
we must ask darkness hacker~!! hes a pro at jioing girls
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I am for it.
Because it's kind of like a learning experience for them. -
true...Originally posted by Eternal-fire:I am for it.
Because it's kind of like a learning experience for them. -
i'm kinda against it. but i had bgr when i was as young as 12. it's an open secret that most teenagers nowadays are open-minded. you think it's hold hands and kissing? it's not anymore. it's more than that.
and i mean 13-16 yr olds. -
Originally posted by da-cheese-freakk:yeah lah, but isnt that the current trend of teens or smt? I have friends who've been going out since EIGHT xD
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my first puppy lub is oso 12 yrs old.Originally posted by dahliamorie:i'm kinda against it. but i had bgr when i was as young as 12. it's an open secret that most teenagers nowadays are open-minded. you think it's hold hands and kissing? it's not anymore. it's more than that.
and i mean 13-16 yr olds.
quarrel quarrel den become together liao.
we only hold hands. -
What kind of experience? Excuse me but you have your priorities wrong. At that young of an age, kids should be studying and playing instead of getting distracted by factors like relationships.Originally posted by Eternal-fire:I am for it.
Because it's kind of like a learning experience for them.
In my days, parents worry that we will neglect studies due to tv and playing. Now, parents worry about BGR instead.
What do you mean by 13-16 years old. You are forgetful. Remember the nine years old girl who got pregnant by a nine years old schoolmate?Originally posted by dahliamorie:i'm kinda against it. but i had bgr when i was as young as 12. it's an open secret that most teenagers nowadays are open-minded. you think it's hold hands and kissing? it's not anymore. it's more than that.
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how many girls get pregnant at 9 yrs old. i'd say maybe 1 in a million? i'm talking about 13-16 year olds. they are physically matured and they can get pregnant.Originally posted by Slipshade:What do you mean by 13-16 years old. You are delusional. Remember the nine years old girl who got pregnant by a nine years old schoolmate?
by open-mindedness, i mean touching each other in the privates, openly talk about sensitive topics.
you think 13-16yr olds nowadays are still naive as before? no, i don't think so. parents know that, and they still don't take any major actions.
so i'm against 13-16 yr olds having bgr(s). -
No, kids nowadays just aren't innocent anymore and that is what's so sad about it.
Anyway, my point is that even eight or nine years old kids aren't that innocent anymore. -
My take is Juz GO for it...
Remember to use protection when things get too hot.... Dun regret when u grow Old can le... Of coz... U must be constantly remind urself not to neglect other stuffs which are impt at ur age....
dun be like those 30++ still haven get married de... Enjoy...Sweet sweet Love
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hmm. what can you expect? it's sad, yes.Originally posted by Slipshade:No, kids nowadays just aren't innocent anymore and that is what's so sad about it.
Anyway, my point is that even eight or nine years old kids aren't that innocent anymore.
i guess it's the parents' role to enforce restrictions on the kids. if they don't do it, nobody else can. they school can only educate them.