Originally posted by matleep:i feel like being make used.if he was beaten up outside or need some cash form me i will offer my help to him.even if i help him n tell his parents tat the cigarette was mine,do u think his parents is so stupid to believe?he is 18 u know. i cant cover his ass forever. he have to learn his mistake form here.
you call this a friend?
You are concern only about [b]YOUR impression with his parent. Its not as if you care about HIS inability to be responsible for his action or HIS problem with smoking.
I expect my friend to stand by me as I would stand by them. If they don't want to help me, I expect to have better reasons than my parents' impression of them. [/b]
yea.. i think he's making use of u also.. this is not call true friend.. hung ur phone call jus because u said those words?! wtf?! i think he's too much.. i dun think this kind of friend is worth u calling them as friends..Originally posted by JerFei:i feel like being make used.if he was beaten up outside or need some cash form me i will offer my help to him.even if i help him n tell his parents tat the cigarette was mine,do u think his parents is so stupid to believe?he is 18 u know. i cant cover his ass forever. he have to learn his mistake form here.
if your fren is worth helping than help them.do not help those friend that are making use of you.true friends are those who are always by your side no matter what heppen.Originally posted by huishan:by the way i have a same exp as you...then i dont even think that is call friend ship...when i was young...my fren always ask mi to help her hide anything from her bf...even money matter also..or she got husband but she outside got another part time bf...and i think she using mi and i tell her iam not going to help her anymore...but she way if i dont help her..means iam not friend and she say we can end our frenship alr...haiz even now and before..i also dont know what is true friends and best friends are about...can anyone tell mi what is call friends? can anyone give mi some advices and comment whether i should continue helping my friends or just hack care them?