testin my patience... still coping..
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you know what.. our rooms has NO LOCK.. just a door knob. no lock at all..Originally posted by lageihsif:anyway that place safe anot?
since its all guys going over there
and the toilet door cant be locked. so we jus close it if occupied. -
dun bow down to her attitude! she cannot go forever thinking she can bully other ppl juz because they are nice.Originally posted by ilovethesun:here for a couple of months only.
i told her once " how long is ur bf stayin with us?"
then she say " AT most 2 MONTHS wad... blah blah blah"
her tone realli veri rude !! i was so shock.
then the day before her bf came, i said " hm.. i think we shld clean the place up abit since ur bf comin"
then she " YAR.. i wAS planning to vacuum the carpet already WhaT"
but wad i meant was.. we can do some cleanin up together.. not askin her to clean or wad!!
u know her attitude.. i jus dun feel like talkin to her.. so hard to communicate! -
i tot so too.. coz utility bills are all paid for by the company.Originally posted by FireIce:i think u are not allowed to bring other ppl to stay in the apt rite?
it's paid by the company
u can go report her to the company
or u can try to live with it and stop being nice to her
she is quite smart. usin our hse as a motel.. wonder how much her frens pay her.. heheh -
Originally posted by ilovethesun:you know what.. our rooms has NO LOCK.. just a door knob. no lock at all..
and the toilet door cant be locked. so we jus close it if occupied.
i think u seriously better report to the company...ask the boss come spot check without letting her know. then u act surprised to see the boss or something. -
be a typical sgrean
COMPLAIN COMPLAIN AND COMPLAIN
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it's not u, it's her lah.Originally posted by ilovethesun:bingo!
last sat.. (the onli weekend so far that she had no frens over) ., she jus shut herself in her room WHOLE DAY!
haha. .i was amused coz its reali veri kua zhang.. .onli come out go toilet.. den go in liaoz..
i was in the livin room usin computer.
i duno why she dun like me so much.. (i feel) but i tot i was nice to her..
during our short company trip , she wil talk to everyone, laugh, "act cute" , giggle... haha.. den i tot abt her attitude at home.. when she walk past me and im like invisible... l
i find it quite amusing.. there must be something seriously wrong with me.. lolz..
maybe she needs time to warm up with u. -
u working which part of britain? work as what? work how long? r u chio bu?
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and she bought a water filter boiler and hide it in her room..
hmm.. as though i wan to benefit from it..
so i also hide my modem -
Originally posted by ilovethesun:and she bought a water filter boiler and hide it in her room..
hmm.. as though i wan to benefit from it..
so i also hide my modem
ok. i would hide everything. tidbits etc -
haha. i hid my shampoo n conditioner. coz she refuse to get one for herself. den i hide my expensive PANTENE.. lolz.. evil !! but she left hers in the toilet ... but its too smelly for me.. so i wun use it even if desperate..Originally posted by lageihsif:
ok. i would hide everything. tidbits etc
wa...
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Living with other ppl which u dun know well will surely have some conflict. At least count urself lucky that she share the sam culture with u. I have to work and live with ppl from other countries, tolerate their behaviour, hygiene and alttiude. I think my character is very simple...I will not care what the F u r doing in ur rm...but if u mess up the apartment without cleaning or hinder me to do something i wanted to do....example like occupying the table with all ur books where actually i using it for dinner....I gonna screw until ur ass bleed.Originally posted by ilovethesun:Actually its perfectly ok if frens comes to visit . stay while here, IF me n her gets along well and we are on good terms.
but things gets abit tough when i feel that she is selfish n inconsiderate.. i dun wanna give her friends/ bf the privilege of free accomodation .
you get wad i feel?
yea.. but we jus got here barely 1 mth, and im still tryin to cope with the change and there she is.. alradi announced and invited her frends before hand. hhaha.. haiz..
Living with someone is not simple, as what I learn now...and sometimes it need more than patience to overcome it. As for the bf part, I think u can talk to her directly since it bother u so much. Unless she is v thick skin, or else u can expect some changes from her. Whether she like u or not is another think..anyway u work there is not to please anyone but urself so no need to bother whether she like u or not.
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I tried talkin to her abt the bf part before he even came over, she either talk back at me in a veri defensive n rude tone, or she jus ignore me. quite kua zhang. but at work or infront of others she can reali hide it. I think she got split personality? i duno..Originally posted by SpeedStar:Living with other ppl which u dun know well will surely have some conflict. At least count urself lucky that she share the sam culture with u. I have to work and live with ppl from other countries, tolerate their behaviour, hygiene and alttiude. I think my character is very simple...I will not care what the F u r doing in ur rm...but if u mess up the apartment without cleaning or hinder me to do something i wanted to do....example like occupying the table with all ur books where actually i using it for dinner....I gonna screw until ur ass bleed.
Living with someone is not simple, as what I learn now...and sometimes it need more than patience to overcome it. As for the bf part, I think u can talk to her directly since it bother u so much. Unless she is v thick skin, or else u can expect some changes from her. Whether she like u or not is another think..anyway u work there is not to please anyone but urself so no need to bother whether she like u or not.
its hard living tog with someone whom u cannot relate to. i can empathise with u totally. it must have been much worse. i am particular abt the hygenie part.
i can be rude and bitchy if i wanted to.. but i jus tot that we had to work with each other when we return.. i dun wanna screw things up.
and complain to company is a gd idea. BUT.. i am afraid that i mite be deemed as tryin to start up company politics.. which isn;t reali a gd idea..
im stuck..
be positive--- i keep tellin myself -
hmm. go seduce her bf. den all of them will leave.
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Originally posted by eviljustice:hmm. go seduce her bf. den all of them will leave.
if he is not bad looking, charming, tall , fit, intellectual, gentleman,
jus ani 2 of the above.. maybe i can force myself to do that...
but too bad.. cant fit in any category... -
aww. come stay with me insteadOriginally posted by ilovethesun: if he is not bad looking, charming, tall , fit, intellectual, gentleman,
jus ani 2 of the above.. maybe i can force myself to do that...
but too bad.. cant fit in any category... -
ask ur management whether u can bunk frens there..if they say cannot...say ur housemate got leh..haha
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put some laxative into her drink and make sure she suffer. den if her bf cannot be there for her, den you be there for her. den she'll appreciate you.
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TS, you sound like your life is turned topsy turvy by an ordinary gal....some people are just plain petty. It shouldn't be this way......
Why don't u ask to change an accomodation or better still, pay your own and stay elsewhere. -
Hahahaha.. pay for my own because of her? no way! im going to fight this war.. lolz.. if i back out means she win ley.. how can!!Originally posted by Rock^Star:TS, you sound like your life is turned topsy turvy by an ordinary gal....some people are just plain petty. It shouldn't be this way......
Why don't u ask to change an accomodation or better still, pay your own and stay elsewhere.
and we are paid in S$ !! not ££ !!! everything here is so expensive..
1 return trip work n home cost S$15... *faint*