When u talk to a girl on the phone.....

• NeverSayGoodBye

  19 Apr 07, 14:33

  Originally posted by rainee:

  if my dear is doing sth else while he is on the phone with me, i can sense it sumhow Then i will tell him to put away all those other things and focus on the conversation. but sumtimes when he is really busy then bo bian la. usually if i know he is busy with sth else i will just say i will call back later. or we will just talk for a short while so that he can go and do his work soon.

  .....at least he is your boyfriend, easy to say lah, but someone you just know, felt irritated and might offend her or what. My opinion is that it is quite rude not to focus on the one you're talking to...
• NeverSayGoodBye

  19 Apr 07, 14:34

  Originally posted by :

  I find that most irritating! I'll stop the chat cos the girl's not giving me her full attention and dat's most unacceptable!!

  .....i support YOU!!!
• the.owl

  19 Apr 07, 14:40

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  .....she is chatting in msn at the same time or watching tv, do you still want to carry on the conversation? I find it not so courteous on the girl's part...

  so?
• NeverSayGoodBye

  19 Apr 07, 14:43

  Originally posted by Lorry`:

  
  if it's like that i will just put down phone liao, tell her chat next time.... thats the problem when talkin on phone, i dislike talkin on phone becuz you cant see the person your taklin to.
  
  i will not 'gian' talkin to her since shes not very sincere in talkin to me.... obviously that girl caught ur eyes otherwise why you care so much if shes listenin to you 100% attentively or not, right if it's me i will feel pretty upset too but no choice, maybe not attractive enough for her to 100% pay attention to my words. is she like this in real life?

  ..... true lah, face to face is the best, but sometimes opportunity don't permit, what to do...
  
  yaeh you're right she caught my fancy, somehow she don't feel the same way. or else she will stop whatever she is doing when i call ..
  
  ironically, those girls i don't fancy when i talk to them on the phone they gave me the full attention, and of coz i gave them my full attention too, respect respect a bit mah
  
• NeverSayGoodBye

  19 Apr 07, 14:45

  Originally posted by BufPuf:

  threadstarter will not end the conversation
  
  becoz he never say good bye

  .....
• NeverSayGoodBye

  19 Apr 07, 14:47

  Originally posted by the.owl:

  so?

  ......so. hmmm anything to say?
• choco B

  19 Apr 07, 14:50

  In this case, then she was kinda rude . To ask you a particular and quite personal question, and then not give you her full attention, is discourteous. I'd feel upset too if I were you.
  

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  .....well like she is asking me about my past relationship, so while i was telling her on the phone, you can hear her typing away in msn, hmm..somehow you felt a bit of a fool, not sure she is listening to you or not

• NeverSayGoodBye

  19 Apr 07, 15:04

  Originally posted by choco B:

  In this case, then she was kinda rude . To ask you a particular and quite personal question, and then not give you her full attention, is discourteous. I'd feel upset too if I were you.
  

  ....exactly ... anyway, i still feel that whether it's trivia or serious stuffs, everyone wanted to be listened to..
• NeverSayGoodBye

  19 Apr 07, 15:06

  Originally posted by ditzy:

  I was having my lunch, how buay song could one get from me having lunch minding my own business? By the way, its a she.

  .....OHH i know who....haha but my mouth is taped
• Rock^Star

  19 Apr 07, 15:10

  They can multi-task when it comes to nail polishing, chatting on phone, eating, watch tv etc but when it comes to driving, they can't really do it.
  
• the.owl

  19 Apr 07, 15:13

  Originally posted by ditzy:

  I remember got one time I was having lunch in front of my computer, then hor someone msn me and start accusing and scolding me dunno for fark. But I blocked the person ever since and haven't unblocked yet. This person is from sgforums.

  GIVE ME YUOR MZN NOW
• menoob

  19 Apr 07, 15:43

  Originally posted by Rock^Star:

  They can multi-task when it comes to nail polishing, chatting on phone, eating, watch tv etc but when it comes to driving, they can't really do it.
  

  haha
  and they dont talk much during driving
• Rock^Star

  19 Apr 07, 16:08

  Originally posted by menoob:

  haha
  and they dont talk much during driving

  So how to keep them quiet when they have so much to talk? Let them drive......and you sleep.
• ltachi

  19 Apr 07, 16:14

  login to msn talk to her la
• Eternal-fire

  19 Apr 07, 18:09

  Dun continue to talk lor, actually I feel more like it was me being rude and bothering her in the 1st place.
  
  But.... I never call gals before and gals will never call me to chat. so yeah.....
• kristovorus

  19 Apr 07, 19:09

  bleh.. im the guy who talks on the phone, chat on msn and surf the net at the same time :S maybe sometime throw in watching TV too. but there was once i was playing dota and told the girl i was talking to accidently that she was irritating me. i didnt mean it but she took it seriously and never even talked to me anymore >.< . msn block.. un"friend" friendster.. bla bla..
• dong dong mau

  19 Apr 07, 19:14

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  .....not whole day lah, just that when i call her, she was chatting in msn, you felt very weird when the one you talk to is also chatting with other person.

  be simple... if you don't like then next. don't let the look cheat you away. Looks will get tired off but the feeling will last forever...
• Lorry`

  19 Apr 07, 19:15

  i can multi-task too like playin daidee (super fast speed) with people in irc (many years ago ), talk to ple there, eatin dinner, watchin news and talkin to my mom.
  
  But i just talked on phone and read some posts in sgf, and i cant lo. I told the person to call later because i wasnt concentratin 100%
• xXhuskyXx

  19 Apr 07, 19:29

  recently there's this gal who like to call and chat with me...but the problem is i got no interest in chatting with her...lols...so i usually msn or watch tv and an ans will come...i'll call u when u r free...lols
• yihao93

  19 Apr 07, 21:00

  i dun dare talk to gals on phone
• crabx

  19 Apr 07, 21:44

  i dunno any girls leh... can intro some to me to so i can chit chat with them??