Asking gals out.
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RULE NO. 1
Find out if she has a bf first. -
nah.she doesnt have a bf. but got ppl jioin too. i chatted with her via msn, & greet her sometimes in skl, got sms sometimes but about one month never le. Last time,i tried to giv her strepsils cuz she having sorethroat & her syf was near. i msg her dat day ask her meet at her cls outside toilet so as to pass her something. I waited for her reply be4 goin dere. But her frens & her walked past dere, then go down le. haf & hr ltr she msg me sae sry she at canteen le. Then ltr she told me she going to other skl for some workshop, so i say next time then pass her. Eventually i didnt pass it to her. Ever since this incident, whenever i msg her, she will onli reply once & dats it. Maybe i didnt make myself clear that i was passing her the strepsils, then she thought i was gonna confess or something. I know we aint close, as all my frens dunno her, but my fren knows her best fren. So mayb my fren will try askin both of them out?
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So how guys?
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whats else u wan to noe? juz ask la, unless u noe ballz n ull regret forever
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I jus wan to know how shld i ask her out, in my situation. & this yr she olv, if not free how?
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Ice is correct. Just try loh. Worst is a "no". You will not die by getting a "no"Originally posted by FireIce:u can try
if u never try, u never know.............. -
It is the reason u married which means good stuff is always quickly snap up by others.. Hehehe...Originally posted by fatslob:heheh... I'm not like that. Too bad married already, cannot do this kind of stuff anymore
I trust u are not that type of lousy guy in asking gal out... -
shld i ask my fren ask them out or i ask her out myself?
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(MichelleTan)
It is pretty depressing to know that majority of guys always ask questions for the sake of asking. They don't even wish to understand us further and try to go relationship with us so fast, without introducing themselves much at all.
And...
Some even expect us to tell them everything from 1st ex stead to last ex stead even. But for themselves, they keep quiet on everything.
(juz_a_gal)I also agree with MichelleTan. All sorts of freakos asking weirdo questions and keeping mum about themselves. Who wants to meet those?!
OK, something I don't understand about the two comments above....
does that mean that girls prefer guys to talk more about themselves(the guys)?
because if the guy is always talking about himself and his experiences etc., then surely the girl will get bored and think the guy is some narccistic person.(zi4 lian4 kuang1).
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u shd definitely ask her out urself..more sincere tt way..i agree wif michelle tt u shd get to noe her more tho..find out wat stuff she lk's to do..eg wat sports she likes..ur 1st outing cud be playing e sport tog? den after tt go for a meal tog or smth..Originally posted by ah koh:shld i ask my fren ask them out or i ask her out myself? -
what about those rivals? hmm. i feel pressured.
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its a fair competition if u ask me..wat matters is tt instead of worryin abt e rivals..u shd worry more abt getting her to lk u n how to make her happy etc..even if (touch wood of cos) u fail in e end..u will not regret bcos u noe u did ur best..
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hey. are her frens important factors? cuz i dun rly know them.
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haha.. I thought you only go out with gal???Originally posted by missqi:hey r u free.
lets go watch a movie.
easy peasy,
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I don't go out with gal alone...
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hmm..i wud say they r..cos it helps to be frens wif her frens..can go out tog..some of em may even help u if u r gd frens wif em..it'll benefit u of cos..
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somehow i think this kinda situation is v hard to establish..Originally posted by ah koh:hmm. lets say if the gal dun rly know u well, but u got msg her & chat on msn sometimes. Will she go out with u, if you ask her?
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how to fren em? i was nv same class as them.. i jus sae hi when i see them together, then next time see her frens olso sae hi?
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u can see if any of your frens know em and start tackle from thereOriginally posted by ah koh:how to fren em? i was nv same class as them.. i jus sae hi when i see them together, then next time see her frens olso sae hi? -
ok. hav. so i ask him go chat her frens, thn i shun bian go add some comments?
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Not comment.. it's infor...Originally posted by ah koh:ok. hav. so i ask him go chat her frens, thn i shun bian go add some comments? -
u mentioned ur fren noe's her best fren? start fr there. go out in grps 1st..but try to tok more & entertain e fren rather den e gal herself 1st..cos u may wan e get e fren to accept u first..of cos tt oso means u dont shut out e gal..
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ok. so if i ask her go out, then i ask her ask her frens along, & i ask my frens too?
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maybe not so much of adding comment..try to actually tok 2 em..Originally posted by ah koh:ok. hav. so i ask him go chat her frens, thn i shun bian go add some comments? -
don add comments..Originally posted by ah koh:ok. hav. so i ask him go chat her frens, thn i shun bian go add some comments?
jus start joiining them and start by joking and stuff..
u will easily form friendships and u can start from there!