hmm is the good-old 'nice guy' stil in demand?
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vicious cycle. hahaha.Originally posted by frederikan:nice guys got dumped by huai nu ren then come this forum kpkb also.
cycle also repeated.
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so this forum is made up of nice guys and nice girls. wow.
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nice nice guys is no longer in trend now..
guys juz hav to be smarter and more daring to express their own feelings and thoughts..
Know how to tok and tackle the gals...u juz hav to noe how to play with them.. not play with ppl feelings la..of cuz!
and please for goodness sake..DO NOT treat the gal as PRINCESS OR QUEEN...this is a definitely NO NO ...juz treat her like a normal person..
sumtime be a bit more ruthless and selfish...no be goody goody..end up, u are the one who lose out alot of things.. -
i didn't know nice guys got trend also.
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Yea, I definitely agree with xShevchenkox.
Lemme use my experience just as a reference. I once like a girl and treated her so well like so considerate, gave her flowers, did so many things for her, but in the end I got screwed. I guess she had taken me for granted. While on the other hand, those girls I had no feelings for, I tease them like.....cracking yellow jokes, joke about their titties size, do all sorts of things like asking them to run errands for me, go queue up to buy food while I sit there shake leg. All these which a guy would NEVER ask a girl he likes to do. And in the end, gets alot of undivided attention from them. It just goes to show that chivalry is dead. And yea, nice guy is probably no more in demand unless you have the looks or money.
Tell me, why are they so hard to understand, I hope to treat them with respect but it's just the case of "Oh Mr nice guy is good to me, I can step all over him already" -
oh... soh desu neh...Originally posted by Qex:Yea, I definitely agree with xShevchenkox.
Lemme use my experience just as a reference. I once like a girl and treated her so well like so considerate, gave her flowers, did so many things for her, but in the end I got screwed. I guess she had taken me for granted. While on the other hand, those girls I had no feelings for, I tease them like.....cracking yellow jokes, joke about their titties size, do all sorts of things like asking them to run errands for me, go queue up to buy food while I sit there shake leg. All these which a guy would NEVER ask a girl he likes to do. And in the end, gets alot of undivided attention from them. It just goes to show that chivalry is dead. And yea, nice guy is probably no more in demand unless you have the looks or money.
Tell me, why are they so hard to understand, I hope to treat them with respect but it's just the case of "Oh Mr nice guy is good to me, I can step all over him already" -
ya lor...the morale is dun always pay so much care and attention to gals..once in a while is okie..but not always..juz treat them as normal..Originally posted by Qex:Yea, I definitely agree with xShevchenkox.
Lemme use my experience just as a reference. I once like a girl and treated her so well like so considerate, gave her flowers, did so many things for her, but in the end I got screwed. I guess she had taken me for granted. While on the other hand, those girls I had no feelings for, I tease them like.....cracking yellow jokes, joke about their titties size, do all sorts of things like asking them to run errands for me, go queue up to buy food while I sit there shake leg. All these which a guy would NEVER ask a girl he likes to do. And in the end, gets alot of undivided attention from them. It just goes to show that chivalry is dead. And yea, nice guy is probably no more in demand unless you have the looks or money.
Tell me, why are they so hard to understand, I hope to treat them with respect but it's just the case of "Oh Mr nice guy is good to me, I can step all over him already"
learn to love and put urself into a top priority..noe how to love urself... -
Yeap. But for guys, do not need to worry so much. Women have an approximately shelf-life of 30yrs. Once they past 30yrs of age, their requirements of an ideal men will decrease exponentially with respect to time. they would probably grab any guy that comes along and is interested in them. Reminds me of the 9pm chn 8 show. Yea, thats true. Lol.
Like my auntie always said, "just concentrate on building on your career, once you have that, women will be flocking to you instead" Cos men truly mature only around 35yrs of age, everything have stabilised, money, career, house.
Men are like wine, they become more valuable as they age.
Women are like flowers, they are the most beautiful when they bloom in their prime. Once withered and.........yea..u shld know. =] -
so u like nice guys or not ?Originally posted by FireIce:yes they are still in demand
u jus need some luck
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Ya... I totally agreed with it as statement for women in general...Originally posted by Qex:Yeap. But for guys, do not need to worry so much. Women have an approximately shelf-life of 30yrs. Once they past 30yrs of age, their requirements of an ideal men will decrease exponentially with respect to time. they would probably grab any guy that comes along and is interested in them. Reminds me of the 9pm chn 8 show. Yea, thats true. Lol.
Like my auntie always said, "just concentrate on building on your career, once you have that, women will be flocking to you instead" Cos men truly mature only around 35yrs of age, everything have stabilised, money, career, house.
Men are like wine, they become more valuable as they age.
Women are like flowers, they are the most beautiful when they bloom in their prime. Once withered and.........yea..u shld know. =] -
So you like withered flowers?Originally posted by Qex:Men are like wine, they become more valuable as they age.
Women are like flowers, they are the most beautiful when they bloom in their prime. Once withered and.........yea..u shld know. =] -
the problem with some guys who think they are "nice guys" are that they have a slow mind....sure some may have got As for exams but when it comes to girls....they are slower then even a snail.....something is wrong with your heads....go clear it up first.....besides, girls a humans too....its not like your going to face god for something wrong you did
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nice guys EQUAL to dummy in the courting game
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not really. i can be nice and get lots of girls too...Originally posted by curryman:nice guys EQUAL to dummy in the courting game -
does it means that getting girls by being nice will get them to be attracted to u for a long time? or just getting them to see u as just a friend nia??
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nice guys dun attract gals now le, they are considered out of trend le
that is how l tink la
u nice to them....they only noe how to tk for granted
as for me...l will be nice to them..but not to a big extent... -
okay..... then if i nice to my gf how? will she take me for granted?
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l dun get wad u are sayinOriginally posted by frederikan:does it means that getting girls by being nice will get them to be attracted to u for a long time? or just getting them to see u as just a friend nia??
but juz be urself can liao...dun panick in front of gals...
dun treat them too nice...cuz u treat them too nice..they climb over ur head and sh!t..
remember they are not princess or queens -
u juz hav to play along...dun always be too good to her...Originally posted by frederikan:okay..... then if i nice to my gf how? will she take me for granted?
if not she will tk u for granted
sumtime u too hav to show her..who is the boss? l suppose -
just be nice to them and treat others like sh!t.Originally posted by frederikan:does it means that getting girls by being nice will get them to be attracted to u for a long time? or just getting them to see u as just a friend nia??
Thats their definition of a bad guy. It makes them feel special? -
nice guys are boring...and these gals will understand the trend of these guys and get tired of it...
so what is the point of being a nice nice guy when u get trampled around by gals or ppl ? -
hmm okay.. so being a nice guy is one that suck up to girls.
whereby being a better guy, is one that makes the lady feel special by chasing after them with courage??? -
this is like AA leh.
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I don't think its about being nice or not. Its about being firm, confident and protective? Make them feel happy and secure when they are with u..Originally posted by xShevchenkox:nice guys are boring...and these gals will understand the trend of these guys and get tired of it...
so what is the point of being a nice nice guy when u get trampled around by gals or ppl ?
Dun tell me that all guys should smoke, take drugs, get into fights, race and all those stuff just to attract girls? -
Then is the good old "nice gal" still in demand?