What should I do!!!
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You see, I am late 30s with a kid. I own a freehold condo opposite east coast and a new car fully paid up. I also own some stocks, FD, foreign currency and cash of about half a million dollar. Both me and my wife work, but I never touch my salary because I don't need to.
We have zero liability. I thought I suppose to be happy, but I am not. My wife keep nagging me whenever we pass by en-block sale apartments that I should have bought more properties. Whenever newspaper features property price increase, she will complain that I should have bought one. Almost everyday, she complains that I am poor. Stock market bull, she also blame me that I did not invest more. I am really stress out by her. You see, if I can predict future, I will be richer then Bill Gate. I believe in prudent investment and never follow the crowd. But she prefer speculation, and always put all the blame on me for not doing enough. She will take all the credit when things turn out well.
I am stress just looking at her!!!!!!!!!!!!
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divorce?
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Take out all your money out of your sharing account before she does. And make sure when you die, everything goes to your kid.
Believe me, she's all over your money. -
Where does FireIce block? FireIce = BlueOriginally posted by FireIce:divorce? -
What happen to my kid? I can't do itOriginally posted by FireIce:divorce?
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wow..
i would say u are successful..
if u got the cash, i think just buy some properties to let her see.
women are like that. they never understand if u tell them.
or just spend the money go enjoy life..
cheers. -
your wife biten by the money bug ah? ask her go marry a minister
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she's never satisfied huh?
if i have wat u have, i would be a very happy person liao. -
no offence to TS but....minister not enuff....need president insteadOriginally posted by BenBenDeZhu:your wife biten by the money bug ah? ask her go marry a minister -
Avoid her as much as possible! She is what is known as a kill-joy.Originally posted by letgostress:You see, I am late 30s with a kid. I own a freehold condo opposite east coast and a new car fully paid up. I also own some stocks, FD, foreign currency and cash of about half a million dollar. Both me and my wife work, but I never touch my salary because I don't need to.
We have zero liability. I thought I suppose to be happy, but I am not. My wife keep nagging me whenever we pass by en-block sale apartments that I should have bought more properties. Whenever newspaper features property price increase, she will complain that I should have bought one. Almost everyday, she complains that I am poor. Stock market bull, she also blame me that I did not invest more. I am really stress out by her. You see, if I can predict future, I will be richer then Bill Gate. I believe in prudent investment and never follow the crowd. But she prefer speculation, and always put all the blame on me for not doing enough. She will take all the credit when things turn out well.
I am stress just looking at her!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wat should I do?
You cannot avoid her completely because, well, she is your wife.
So to avoid her is to take up activities that does not include her.
Your problem is I may guess comes from this statement: "but I never touch my salary because I don't need to."
HELLO, it is never "need to"!
People need maybe $10 a day to survive in Singapore.
If you are willing to eat left over food at the hawker centers, even less...
Touch you salary... make sure that you touch your salary... if you do not touch it, then ask yourself, what went wrong? Why didn't I touch my salary this month.
You see life is meaningless if you do not *include* this moment, today, now, in your scheme of things.
That you are so well to do now is because you have been "living for the future" and now that the future is here, you are still "living for the future".
When will the future ever be NOW for you? As long as you do not learn how to live for NOW, you will always be stressed. As long as you do not know how to meet your current needs and your daily needs, you will never be happy.
Blaming your wife is useless, you should just consider and concentrate on what you can do to make yourself happy. -
nice oneOriginally posted by FireIce:divorce?
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i think your mistake was getting married in the first place. your only hope is to build a time machine and go back to when u weren't married
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It time to find a new wife..Originally posted by letgostress:You see, I am late 30s with a kid. I own a freehold condo opposite east coast and a new car fully paid up. I also own some stocks, FD, foreign currency and cash of about half a million dollar. Both me and my wife work, but I never touch my salary because I don't need to.
We have zero liability. I thought I suppose to be happy, but I am not. My wife keep nagging me whenever we pass by en-block sale apartments that I should have bought more properties. Whenever newspaper features property price increase, she will complain that I should have bought one. Almost everyday, she complains that I am poor. Stock market bull, she also blame me that I did not invest more. I am really stress out by her. You see, if I can predict future, I will be richer then Bill Gate. I believe in prudent investment and never follow the crowd. But she prefer speculation, and always put all the blame on me for not doing enough. She will take all the credit when things turn out well.
I am stress just looking at her!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wat should I do? -
why so strange about people not touching their salary?
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adopt me?
toyboy?
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Just give her a budget, and tells her to go shop for the properties herselves.Originally posted by letgostress:You see, I am late 30s with a kid. I own a freehold condo opposite east coast and a new car fully paid up. I also own some stocks, FD, foreign currency and cash of about half a million dollar. Both me and my wife work, but I never touch my salary because I don't need to.
We have zero liability. I thought I suppose to be happy, but I am not. My wife keep nagging me whenever we pass by en-block sale apartments that I should have bought more properties. Whenever newspaper features property price increase, she will complain that I should have bought one. Almost everyday, she complains that I am poor. Stock market bull, she also blame me that I did not invest more. I am really stress out by her. You see, if I can predict future, I will be richer then Bill Gate. I believe in prudent investment and never follow the crowd. But she prefer speculation, and always put all the blame on me for not doing enough. She will take all the credit when things turn out well.
I am stress just looking at her!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wat should I do? -
I'm not a chio bu
You should marry me...
I have some similar asset as you!!!
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Chop him into pieces and dump in the kallang river lor.Originally posted by letgostress:What happen to my kid? I can't do it 
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Your wife has an insatiable appetite.
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brood mother?? insatiable hunger...Originally posted by sermodabian:Your wife has an insatiable appetite.
spend ur money la..u got money..take ur family to a holiday oversea..or even better..time to fly high and say goodbye to singapore.. -
Half a million , 500k sia ... OMG SO RICH !!
Donate some to me so i can be premium leh -
Did you watch the weekday 9pm show? Mars vs Venus?
Go and find a marriage consultant -
Gosh! Compare your wife's characters to mine are miles apart.Originally posted by letgostress:You see, I am late 30s with a kid. I own a freehold condo opposite east coast and a new car fully paid up. I also own some stocks, FD, foreign currency and cash of about half a million dollar. Both me and my wife work, but I never touch my salary because I don't need to.
We have zero liability. I thought I suppose to be happy, but I am not. My wife keep nagging me whenever we pass by en-block sale apartments that I should have bought more properties. Whenever newspaper features property price increase, she will complain that I should have bought one. Almost everyday, she complains that I am poor. Stock market bull, she also blame me that I did not invest more. I am really stress out by her. You see, if I can predict future, I will be richer then Bill Gate. I believe in prudent investment and never follow the crowd. But she prefer speculation, and always put all the blame on me for not doing enough. She will take all the credit when things turn out well.
I am stress just looking at her!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wat should I do?
My wife is the thrifty one. Prefer to have prudent investment while I like to dabble in stock market. Hardly spend anything on herself. I gave her a substantial allowance and she save a large portion of it and yet have enough left to take care of the household bills efficiently and even have food on the table.
Is happy with our lifestyle staying in four room HDB in Bishan with our two boys and have no intention of thinking to shift to a bigger apartment. She said no need condo facilities since we also have a club membership. We have two cars though. Mine is the new Lexus while she is driving a three and a half year old Camry. We also have a condo in Serangoon area that was leased out. The rental I got from the rent I turned it over to her and as expected straight goes into the bank account for our two boys' future education.
Best of all my wife don't nag me about being 'poor' or unambitious(The word 'poor' is very relative. Largely depends on how you perceive it) other than nagging me for not spending weekend with my mother. Not that I don't love my mother just being lazylah. Like to nuah at home or play 'mahjong'
All in all I am very satisfied with my wife's behavior and character. No unnecessary stress from her to me.
Should you divorce your wife? I don't think so but it is best to talk to her before things get blown out of proportion. If she refuse to listen well, I suggest you 'lun' if you can take it otherwise...oh well,
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By comparing, it does not make him feel any betterOriginally posted by FocusPoint:Gosh! Compare your wife's characters to mine are miles apart.
My wife is the thrifty one. Prefer to have prudent investment while I like to dabble in stock market. Hardly spend anything on herself. I gave her a substantial allowance and she save a large portion of it and yet have enough left to take care of the household bills efficiently and even have food on the table.
Is happy with our lifestyle staying in four room HDB in Bishan with our two boys and have no intention of thinking to shift to a bigger apartment. She said no need condo facilities since we also have a club membership. We have two cars though. Mine is the new Lexus while she is driving a three and a half year old Camry. We also have a condo in Serangoon area that was leased out. The rental I got from the rent I turned it over to her and as expected straight goes into the bank account for our two boys' future education.
Best of all my wife don't nag me about being 'poor' or unambitious(The word 'poor' is very relative. Largely depends on how you perceive it) other than nagging me for not spending weekend with my mother. Not that I don't love my mother just being lazylah. Like to nuah at home or play 'mahjong'
All in all I am very satisfied with my wife's behavior and character. No unnecessary stress from her to me.
Should you divorce your wife? I don't think so but it is best to talk to her before things get blown out of proportion. If she refuse to listen well, I suggest you 'lun' if you can take it otherwise...oh well,