no, the gal who agree to sex is just plain S.T.U.P.I.D.Originally posted by rainee:First of all, I do not think all girls who indulge in ONS are s.luts. Some of them might be cheated into a one night stand. So it depends on what is your definition of ONS. Because for me, ONS is you spend one night with someone, have sex with him or her, then pack your bag and leave in the morning. But doesn't mean there is no feeling involved. The girl might have ONS wif the guy because she loves her and decides to give her body to him, but the guy just treats her as a fling.
Not that I approve of such action, but of cos some people have their own reasons for doing it (for love, money, etc). Some girls think by having sex with a guy the guy will fall in love with her. It is the wrong mindset to have in the first place, but does that make the girl s.lutty?
And there are girls who are quite open and liberal towards sex, they think that guys can go around to find someone to satisfy their needs without being labelled as cheap, why couldn't they do the same thing? Girls have needs too because we are human as well. It is more like the society way of viewing things, esp in the Asian culture. If a guy has an ONS he can brag about it with his friends, but when a girl has it and tells others about the incident, she is termed as cheap and s.lutty. Is this fair?
Of course different guys have different preferences. Some prefer their girls to have more experience in sex, some prefer their girls to be conservative and innocent. You will seek what you want, and not criticize others' choices when they are different from yours, because different people have different taste
lol so what u expect him to do?cover all topics on irresponsible acts of people?reali i dun think ur point is validOriginally posted by mahawarrior:i nvr say ONS is irresponsible. but TS thinks so. and that out of so many possible irresponsible actions out there he choosing 'ONS' shows some level of prejudice here.
ONS is Definitely an unresponsible action..Originally posted by mahawarrior:i nvr say ONS is irresponsible. but TS thinks so. and that out of so many possible irresponsible actions out there he choosing 'ONS' shows some level of prejudice here.
maybe this is true..sum gals/guys will change their way for a guy/gal and l believe that..Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Yar..
If she love you, she will change for you.
what is ok is what u convince urself is ok...Originally posted by GHoST_18:it's not ok because many ppl say it's not ok...
it's ok because many ppl say it's ok...
wat is ok and not ok now is no longer an individual's opinion but the masses'.
how does TS derive the conclusion tat ONS is bad....?Originally posted by xShevchenkox:How do u tink of gals who are okay and enage in ONS?
l think they are nthing, juz slut. as good as nthing, same as guys who enage in them
lack of control and discipline, like those animal.
wad abt u all tink?
l am glad that there are ppl who tink that ONS is not really good..thanks darkhour for helping me explain oso.Originally posted by SingaporeMacross:No matter who does it, ONS harms individuals and the family.
Say no to promiscuity.
well, ONS is bad becos of the consequences..let not tok abt abt morality stuffsOriginally posted by GHoST_18:how does TS derive the conclusion tat ONS is bad....?
how does he derive that pl who engage in ONS lacks control n discipline, like animals...?
how does TS derive tat animals lack discipline and control...?
did he analyse the whole issue before coming to this conclusion...?
or is it because he heard too much from others tat ONS is bad...?
hmm, l am not sayin that they are not worthy of me, is juz that l dun like.Originally posted by missqi:one day..
i will post ts picture...
and see if he has any say in choosing ANY girls.
knn the way you talk is like you can get any girl you want, and girls who do ONS are not worthy of you.![]()
1) any statistics...?Originally posted by xShevchenkox:well, ONS is bad becos of the consequences..let not tok abt abt morality stuffs
the consequences itself show that ONS is bad
1) the chances of gettin hiv or std are high, u dun even noe the stranger well to hav sex with him/her
2) what if contract a disease, ur family members are dragged down, not u..and u are disgracing the whole family name
what will ppl tink of ur family..they will tink these parents never teach their child well, they are easy and loose ppl, u are indirectly bringing shame to ur family
3) the ppl who meet up and hav ONS are complicated ppl, where got normal ppl enage in such activities
wonder y when u keep a cat or a dog, they hav to be steralised, cuz they dun noe how to tink. And they will go around mating..
so if one go out and meet another person for sex, isnt that an animal? l am sorrie if l used this word too harshly..but the actions are the same as animal, dun u tink so?
if ONS is deemed okie by u, how will u react if ur son/daughter ask u 1 day , ONS is correct de mah, can l enage in ONS
dun tell me, u are going to say, OH ONS, is okie lar, go do go do
against forum rules. not angry enough.Originally posted by GHoST_18:why wait til one day...?
now is a good time...
post it and we will see what the ladies have to say...![]()
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You don't like means you can put all of them down is it?Originally posted by xShevchenkox:hmm, l am not sayin that they are not worthy of me, is juz that l dun like.
l am not saying that l can get any gal l wan, l am juz a average looking normal person. It is juz to my preferences.![]()
l am really sad to see such replies.Originally posted by GHoST_18:why wait til one day...?
now is a good time...
post it and we will see what the ladies have to say...![]()
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just ask me.Originally posted by GHoST_18:continue reading and u will get there...
soon...![]()
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How abt u go ask ur parents, relatives and ur teachers whether is ONS okie?Originally posted by GHoST_18:1) any statistics...?
2) wat if...
3) wat makes u think they r complicated ppl...?