Wierd female colleague !
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by not doing anything after she ignored you, you just closed the door by yourself......there is nothing you could do now.......dat time at work got this girl like me but then the i backed away coz i dun find her attractive.....but we were good frens......i think its coz her personality....goody two shoes type i think.....when she got bf i felt abit jealous....lol.....that kind of thing normal wan.....hmmm......how i wished i had a cold heart.....Originally posted by SquarePants:i bring it up cos i cannot get my answer ?
I wanna get some feedbacks on what people think abt this
her contact is still on my msn .. she never delete or block me or scold me .
I never blame her also -
then you ASK HER LAR! CONFRONTATION man! instead of asking her, you can just ask her on msn to clear up the matter!
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u r the number 24 poster who start a thread n spell weird wrongly.
but 543243545 posters in the forum spell the word wrongly too.
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the way she made those advances on you, hints thatOriginally posted by SquarePants:i bring it up cos i cannot get my answer ?
I wanna get some feedbacks on what people think abt this
her contact is still on my msn .. she never delete or block me or scold me .
I never blame her also
1) she might be lonely due to her bf in NS
2) she needs company and is ready to ditch her bf for a guy who will stay and take care of her like you did
3) she already don't mind the gossips (thus it's obvious) just carry on, there's still room to like make up with her and than see what happens after which.
to be able to find such a female fren is hard, yet consider lucky and at the same time, dangerous.
up to you to decide..
but if i were you, i'll go for it. just talk to her, and see if there's any room for progress, anyway, it's silly of you to quit the job (i presume it's just to avoid her?) -
you already quit. you both are miles apart. whacha gona do if you change your mind? run all the way back to her? she probably thinks you don't want her anymore.
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jian huo. itchy liao.
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she ignored u because u did not catch the subtle hint
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I think she need your Love leh..
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X2Originally posted by rainee:The bf is in NS, so maybe she doesn't get enough affection from him, maybe she is having some problems in her relationship, and she is looking at you as someone who might be able to take her out from it?
Are you interested in her? If not, put an end to her action...
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Originally posted by Deino:lucky ass
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if u like her, u shld respond positively then, or do something now. if u dun like her or juz fren fren nyia, then no need put dis topic up.
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This lady friend of yours is actually acting rationally - she is interested in u & after testing u (by touching ) without any response she must had said to herself: "shit, no response - let it be". -
I pity the guy in NS.
For all those who support the lady TS,pls do not whine when ur gf runs of for other guys while u serve NS.
THis is call justice done. -
YAwn.. This kinda gers.. Is everywhere..
They try to 'seduce' by making u think that they are interested in you, den they ignore u, make ur xin yang yang, in hope that you will please them by
1) showerin them with gifts
2) sweet talking
3) gifin them more attention
so nxt time u all kena heart broken by dis kinda gers dun whine coz it's all part of their plan from the start thankew. -
yo!!! r u interested in her...
if u interested , then go for it...
but if u thnk that she is havoc and not suitable for u... then forget about her....
and if u still feel uncomfortable or have weird feeling... then still cannot forget about her... good luck.... that one , u can help yourself...
or she may treat u as a friend... sometime some friends can be a little bit touchy -
I know.
She is comparing your biceps with her bf. Then she thought: "hmm not as big."
Then she decided to give you one more chance.
So she tested your shoulders.
"Hmm not firm and broad enough..."
Ok then she ignore le. -
Don't take her, think of the guy in NS. What if he really cared about the girl?
Do you want another suicide case in our armed forces?
Confront her and ask her what is wrong, since you and her got a pretty good base already. If she is having relation problems, help her, but don't take her as your GF.
I hope those who said take the girl will have their GF snatched away by some other guys. =/ -
you think too much.
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You've quit your job and are no longer in contact.
Don't waste time on her. Wasting time and feelings on a girl is one of the most redundant things ever. -
Well if u can afford to play the game...go ahead ....if not...cut your losses and move on
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Originally posted by boka:I pity the guy in NS.
For all those who support the lady TS,pls do not whine when ur gf runs of for other guys while u serve NS.
THis is call justice done.
well, don't be supersitious la..Originally posted by VagueHart:Don't take her, think of the guy in NS. What if he really cared about the girl?
Do you want another suicide case in our armed forces?
Confront her and ask her what is wrong, since you and her got a pretty good base already. If she is having relation problems, help her, but don't take her as your GF.
I hope those who said take the girl will have their GF snatched away by some other guys. =/
although there's a chance, but hey, for those people who communicate and established a stable relationship with their other half, than those in NS will not have to worry, it's only those guys who can't give their other half the security nor have the charisma to keep her attention.
it's part and parcel of learning in relationship i guess. -
the only person who doesn't bite the meat in his mouth is either a vegetarian or a monk........
you must either be gay or impotent..... -
whack 1st talk later
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Scenario 1
You loser!!! you didnt pick up the hint and thus she thought you chickened out!
Of course, it might be a different case
Scenario 2
With the boyfriend in NS, she is feeling lonely and deprived. Their relationship also not always so stable one. She is either horny or lonely. So she used you as an outlet for her feelings. Of course, she regretted later on, thus she ignore you again. -
There is this saying "everybody looks innocent and normal until you start to know them well"Originally posted by SquarePants:I am working in an office, I am nice to this female colleague of mine who give me a good first impression and looks pretty, 22 years old.
All i know is that she is from girls ( pri and sec ) school. I tend to treat her good all times. I knew that she got a boyfriend who is serving NS , so i treated her as a friend. we went back home together for like 2 months together after work.
Then people starts to gossip abt us. She knew that people is gossiping abt us.. but I think she dun mind. I am quite worry by then.
then suddenly one day, i went over to her cubicle for work stuffs she touched my biceps for like 5 seconds .. then i take it as nothing happened.
The next 2 or 3 days later .. i went over for some work stuffs again.
She lie her head on my shoulder for like 10 seconds saying that she is tired, I was like quite stunned and still continue to do my stuff as normal.
2 days later , she totally ignored me. Btw i got no girlfriend before.
At first her character is like so good and innocent type .. after this incident there's a sudden change in her character ..
I am feeling frastrated .. cant explain this type of feeling .. just that she had a boyfriend already .. why is she doing this ? any ideas girls out there ..? Is she playing with me -.-
To add on, we ignored each other for like 1 month and i quit my job to concentrate study ..
her contact is still on my msn ..
we never delete or block each other
I also never ask her abt it