Wierd female colleague !
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Think you really square .. obviously she is expecting you to move, yet you disappoint her. She is normal la, juz that you need to understand more about this small gesture of females.
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I am bad boi, I used to play along with girls with bf.. sometimes they dun like their bf .. they juz want another ship before they can jump ... sometimes they are not bad also, they have their own reasons.Originally posted by SquarePants:er .. btw i dun have a girlfriend before .. lol
how to play along with someone's girlfriend =.= -
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I feel sorry for you .. Reality is all girls are animals, when they find better man, they have strong tendency to jump ... it is only how strong is the feeling, how broad the hands are wide open to welcome her at the other side .Originally posted by VagueHart:Don't take her, think of the guy in NS. What if he really cared about the girl?
Do you want another suicide case in our armed forces?
Confront her and ask her what is wrong, since you and her got a pretty good base already. If she is having relation problems, help her, but don't take her as your GF.
I hope those who said take the girl will have their GF snatched away by some other guys. =/
If you really want to keep your gf, do something, you might have taken her for granted. NS is a unfavorable situation but you still can do something, call her everynight..
Love is juz about the distance you feel between each other -
Girls who leave their bf for another guy, will leave the guy for another guy ... yes, there is chance .. but another way to see it is how well you treat each other in the first place.Originally posted by KenPlus:Maybe she want to test whether she attractive or not and use you as a test.
Anyway my personal advice is,don't think so much,let nature took it course and my own views to your colleague are,since she can filrt with another guy while her bf is in NS,who knows what will happened when you guys manage to be together.
If you build your foundation well, make her unable to leave without you, do a lot of things she dream of, constantly assure her you are her best choice ( girls are greedy ..) , make her happy and feel that she dun need another guy .. will she leave you ? Yes, of cos, she is nuts then, better chase her away ..
Don't always say the girl is bad, the other guy got no moral, maybe the poor guy is not doing his job also.. human are not perfect .. -
If you like her, do a litmus test ... ask her out. Tell you wad, being in each other's msn is no big deal.. if that is so, i got 80 over gf liao..Originally posted by SquarePants:Yes .. I thought of that also
So a relationship is impossible ..
the thing now is .. are we still friend or not .. is neither here nor there ..
we are still on each other's msn contact ..
But it seemed true .. i am at fault , should not go too near to her
dug my own grave
It is your job to decide and find out where it goes, keep talking here will not solve the problem, you got to face her if this is a big deal to you.
You are not at fault, we are juz human, many times we will get closer to ppl we are comforatbel to, wads wrong with that ? It is only wad you think about wad you have done. -
This is real life, we always put our best image in front of other ppl, we are all guilty of this. for example, you like to dig your nose every minute, will you show that to someone you like ? after sometime, cannot hold back liao, so you dig your nose in front of her ... suddenly she said I though he is a guy with good personal image , but now ...Originally posted by SquarePants:at first i donno she is this kinna pattern..
but after knowing her for 2 months her character suddenly changed ...
from an innocent introvert to an extrovert ..
just kinna wierd
This is too common, that's why after you get married, even you have dated each other for 30 years, suddenly you realised you don't recognise who you marry, who she beat up the husband when before marriage she is like a little lamp. ( of cos she noes, if she reveal her true self, who will marry her in the first place)
We never see the true self of the other person, juz that we see more and more things when we get closer, even after 50 years of marriage, both couples are still learning about each other -
yeah, those uni girls are bad bad, you muz be even worse then them to win them over.Originally posted by KenPlus:Hey look on the bright side,at least she bother to show interest in you ,which mean you are quite attractive to gers and don't worry about not having a gf before cause after this situation,you should gain more experience.
I know how it feel when some girls make u think they are interested in u,call u up ,book seat for u in Lecture,call u out for lunch etc etc but in the end she just call u because she is boring hahahaaa and when u call her out she alway busy hahaa
when you are with them, tell them they are only friends with you, tell them you are not their type, suddenly , they will crave for you even more.. be careful, this is potent, you might be left with only a skeleton. -
people change characters for a reason, and in more serious cases, they(negative experiences) are usually being accumulated with the lady than when she cannot take it, thus it cause a 360degrees change.Originally posted by SquarePants:at first i donno she is this kinna pattern..
but after knowing her for 2 months her character suddenly changed ...
from an innocent introvert to an extrovert ..
just kinna wierd
from the case of this, perhaps it's slight personality. -
She already got a bf in NS .. how can i moveOriginally posted by Xlashes:Think you really square .. obviously she is expecting you to move, yet you disappoint her. She is normal la, juz that you need to understand more about this small gesture of females.
cannot move forward only can backwards ..
The best thing is that the last week of my job before quiting , she take it like nothing happened .. and trying to show that she is happy .. -
btw .. squarepants is square
